What do you do when your bf or husband is being grumpy, just ignore him or get grumpy and/or mad yourself?

When they just get pissy or grumpy for no apparent reason how do ';you'; react? What do you do when your bf or husband is being grumpy, just ignore him or get grumpy and/or mad yourself?
It is so difficult, but someone has to be the ';Bigger Man'; and just ignore it. That someone is usually THE WOMAN! Be careful not to use sarcasm or rub it in his face later. Just ignore it and move on.What do you do when your bf or husband is being grumpy, just ignore him or get grumpy and/or mad yourself?
Well to answer you question. You have to tell him how much they mean to you and then give them room.





The major difference between guys and girls is that where women feel better the more they can talk about the troubles of the day without making any kind of judgements. Men would rather just deal with it themselves and go into their cave and get their mind off what is upsetting them. They always want to fix any questions asked of them.





Women make the mistake of 'attacking' their men as soon as they get home and demand that they tell them everything and do not let up. Men, most of the time come home and have to settle down before they are presented with anything new. Think of this as a rubber band that both you and him are holding the end of. You are holding one end and he is holding the other. If you follow him around while you both are holding the rubber band, it will never extend and he will never snap back and love you.





Men react differently to problems. If they have a problem they will go to a person that they know or think can solve it, so you should feel honored if a man asks you how to do something. A female feels better when she talks about what is bothering her.. and she does not want the problems to be fixed, she just wants to talk... talking makes her feel better.





'NO GOOD REASON'? Are you sure that there was not more there that you did not catch? Think about it.





The best thing you can do for a guy if he is upset is to tell them how much you like/love them and ask how to comfort them and then leave them to their little 'cave'.
Give him some space, and let him vent when you are ready and have time. If you just react and get angry yourself, all you'll do is feed his irrtiation and fight. Let him vent, show him his feelings matter...give him a back rub or a drink he likes...but listen to him and show him you care about what is irritating him. I'm sure you don't have time for it every night, but you'd be surprised how good it makes him feel that you listen. And if he doesn't stop, find something you need to do and do it, tell him you'll be back later...eventually he'll let go of something small. Hope it helps.
OMG, my bf of three years gets monthly guy-PMS. What I do ask him if anything is wrong. If he doesn't respond or if he says nothing's wrong, I ignore him until he is upset that no one is paying attention to him. He apologizes for being moody and all is well.





Just let him work it out and he come to you when he's done being grumpy.
lol usually tell him to get off his man period then i lecture him, then by that tim i am aggravated and mad, and he does not stand a chance against me being mad, so then he becomes happy because he is scared of me, then i am mad...hmmm MAYBE they do it on purpose
honestly if u get grumpy or pissy back its just gona resalt in a fight and no one likes that the best thing that ive leanred is to just ask and if they say nothign leave it alone and just give them space cause pushing the point makes them more pissy. hope i helped
who ever is grumpy, why would you lower yourself to playing games. leave the person alone! why would you want to make not good even worse? sounds like maybe you can bring the bad out in people, good luck with that!
Well..if my husband is grumpy.. which is rare... I would usually say something like '; need a midol ?'; or '; are you pms'ing?';...or i wont even acknowledge that I know hes grumpy..just keep carrying on like normal...men hate that lol
Now which one looks childish and immature.


(hint hint :getting grumpy back)


Who is that going to help? No One


Its just acking childish... :P so dont


Do it.
hell no. that loses. somebody's got to be rational.
I get grumpy back and find out why he's being that way
ignore them


and if they keep on doing it i tell them they need to stop be bitchy
how does he react when you get that way... and let's not say you don't......