Yes it is called DIVORCE.
Have a lawyer sue him for the house.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Can a husband who abused his wife force her to sell the house?
My grans husband was an alcholic and kicked and punched her. The police where called and he was arrested and charged, he was released and was not allowed within so many yards of the house. They are now separated (not divorced) and he is now allowed to do what ever he wants. He has his own house but now he says he may want to move back into the house where my gran stays and if he does it will force my gran to sell the house. His name is on the house and so is my grans, each own half of it. Can she do anything to stop him?Can a husband who abused his wife force her to sell the house?
Yes it is called DIVORCE.
Have a lawyer sue him for the house.moisturizing cream matte lipstick
Yes it is called DIVORCE.
Have a lawyer sue him for the house.
What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
I don't feel good knowing that he keeps on looking on this website.Pls advise.What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
Instead of getting mad at him maybe you should figure out what makes you so uncomfortable about it, it isn't abnormal or unhealthy for him to be doing it, he is not breaking any laws or hurting anyone. Threatening him will do no good, more than likely it will just make him hide it even more, causing even more problems later down the line.What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
come on...its a common thing for guys to watch it. Its just, he is horny or wanna try new things. If you scold or lecture him, he will do it behind you.
He is horny, and by looking at girls fu#king gives him pleasure about his feelings even he is not doing it. Never mind about it, it is just like watching sports gives him excitement. Or you can do after he watched, f#ck him. It should be feels good.
Ask him to stop doing it, if he does not stop, then it shows that he has no respect for you and he may have an addiction to it and need counseling.
talk to him,tell him how you truly feel,and if it really bothers you and he wont change,then you need to decide what is more important,your marriage or getting your way
1) Watch porn with him.
2) Made him horny and have sex with him 2 times a day x 7 days a week - OK !
Bor Hor Hor !
talk to him and tell him to stop looking on it.or else?????
watch it w/ him, lol
Instead of getting mad at him maybe you should figure out what makes you so uncomfortable about it, it isn't abnormal or unhealthy for him to be doing it, he is not breaking any laws or hurting anyone. Threatening him will do no good, more than likely it will just make him hide it even more, causing even more problems later down the line.What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
come on...its a common thing for guys to watch it. Its just, he is horny or wanna try new things. If you scold or lecture him, he will do it behind you.
He is horny, and by looking at girls fu#king gives him pleasure about his feelings even he is not doing it. Never mind about it, it is just like watching sports gives him excitement. Or you can do after he watched, f#ck him. It should be feels good.
Ask him to stop doing it, if he does not stop, then it shows that he has no respect for you and he may have an addiction to it and need counseling.
talk to him,tell him how you truly feel,and if it really bothers you and he wont change,then you need to decide what is more important,your marriage or getting your way
1) Watch porn with him.
2) Made him horny and have sex with him 2 times a day x 7 days a week - OK !
Bor Hor Hor !
talk to him and tell him to stop looking on it.or else?????
watch it w/ him, lol
What should I get my mother and her new husband as a wedding gift?
They are getting married next month in Hawaii. They already live together so they don't need any house stuff. I won't be at the wedding and I live on the other side of the country. I want to get them something really nice. I'm trying not to spend more then $150-$200.What should I get my mother and her new husband as a wedding gift?
That is a big amount you are spending! Keep in mind, you do not to spend even that much to get something good. It is about the thought, and I'm sure your mom and her husband know that. Try to get something that will mean a lot to her, and that will remind her of you.What should I get my mother and her new husband as a wedding gift?
i think it would be nice if you gave them money for their trip. like maybe give a check and say this is only to be used on snorkeling in hawaii! or if you know what hotel they are staying at you could call the hotel and set up a surprise like massages or room service with fancy champagne.
or if you dont like those idea, you could get something nice engraved for them, like a wedding photo album or picture frame that has their names and the date.
or if you are artistic you could make them something, my moms sister gave her a huge painting she painted for my moms wedding and 30 years later its still hanging in my house.
One wedding gift that I typically give that is ALWAYS a hit is Wedding Heart Picnic Basket. It is elegant and classy and everyone loves it. Highly recommend it.
The site listed below ships to Hawaii too, I've used them to ship there before!
A hotel upgrade, private candlight dinner on the beach, excursion during their trip - honeymoon upgrades and perks are always welcome! You could also write them a nice letter thanking them for being such a great family to you or even get a silver photo frame with the word Family engraved on it for a picture of the three of you (or with the entire family if there are other siblings!).
Good luck!
The best wedding gift is something they can use, I found The Name Change Kit and its GREAT! It will help your mother change her name quick and easily! Its really affordable and I promise she will be thanking you...
I would get them a gift certificate for a stay at a nearby Bed and Breakfast in their area. My husband and I have done this and it's really fun, romantic and the perfect little getaway.
This might be a weird question, but do they have a wedding registry?
That is a big amount you are spending! Keep in mind, you do not to spend even that much to get something good. It is about the thought, and I'm sure your mom and her husband know that. Try to get something that will mean a lot to her, and that will remind her of you.What should I get my mother and her new husband as a wedding gift?
i think it would be nice if you gave them money for their trip. like maybe give a check and say this is only to be used on snorkeling in hawaii! or if you know what hotel they are staying at you could call the hotel and set up a surprise like massages or room service with fancy champagne.
or if you dont like those idea, you could get something nice engraved for them, like a wedding photo album or picture frame that has their names and the date.
or if you are artistic you could make them something, my moms sister gave her a huge painting she painted for my moms wedding and 30 years later its still hanging in my house.
One wedding gift that I typically give that is ALWAYS a hit is Wedding Heart Picnic Basket. It is elegant and classy and everyone loves it. Highly recommend it.
The site listed below ships to Hawaii too, I've used them to ship there before!
A hotel upgrade, private candlight dinner on the beach, excursion during their trip - honeymoon upgrades and perks are always welcome! You could also write them a nice letter thanking them for being such a great family to you or even get a silver photo frame with the word Family engraved on it for a picture of the three of you (or with the entire family if there are other siblings!).
Good luck!
The best wedding gift is something they can use, I found The Name Change Kit and its GREAT! It will help your mother change her name quick and easily! Its really affordable and I promise she will be thanking you...
I would get them a gift certificate for a stay at a nearby Bed and Breakfast in their area. My husband and I have done this and it's really fun, romantic and the perfect little getaway.
This might be a weird question, but do they have a wedding registry?
Will the Irs keep a refund even if the husband is making court ordered child support back payment?
He pays a monthly regular amount, and then arrears. I was just wondering if he is current in these payments will the IRS still keep our refund?Will the Irs keep a refund even if the husband is making court ordered child support back payment?
It really depends on how far he is in arrears. My husband was doing the same thing. However, since we got a hefty refund last year, the IRS did deduct the remaining amount he owed in arrears out of our refund. Unfortunately, they double dipped and ALSO deducted the same amount from our rebate check last year. The Florida child support office wasn't in any hurry apparently to refund us the money......we finally got back the amount that was over deducted in November.
I think it really depends what the remaining arrears amount is whether or not they will have an order for the IRS to deduct it from a refund. But from personal experience, yes, they will do it even if he's making arranged payments towards the arrearage amount.Will the Irs keep a refund even if the husband is making court ordered child support back payment?
They can, but they might not. The institution that is administering the child support arrearages would know this. Also, you can file an injured spouse filing to get your part of the refund if they hold the whole thing. These are really good questions to as the child support people and your tax people. That way you will know if they are certified to withold the check and then when they do you will know what forms to file to get your part back out of it. It is not all that hard, just call and ask questions. He will have to call the child support division himself, but you can call the IRS and ask or ask your tax preparer.
Yes, the IRS will keep a refund if he owes back support. And to be honest, why should he get to keep it when his children need to be taken care of.
Think about it... if he is going to get $5,000.00.... I'm sure the two of you see dollar signs and want to go shopping.... BUT WHAT ABOUT HIS CHILDREN....
And, being that you're asking, I'm going to guess you don't have any children.... They are expensive... to say the least. To give you an idea, I have a 5 year old and a 3 year old... In order for me to work, we have to pay for day care AND an after school program. Roughly $475.00 per month.... PLUS, she has to wear uniforms to school, that is another $200.00 for tops and bottoms - plus a school ';spirit'; shirt and such. Then, there are school supplies - which set us back roughly another $200.00, plus stuff like socks, undies, shoes, etc.... Then there is clothes and such for our son.... that adds up QUICK. Then, there are meals.... Our son usually eats more than me! LOL So, I no longer make for 4 people, but more like 5 or 6 so I can have some left overs to take a few days to work each week....... The list goes on and on, like car seats, etc.... Then, you have utilities and rent. You can't get away with a one bedroom either.... so that means more house.... more money.
All of which gets EASIER (not easy) with child support. He needs to pay.
If he is in arrears, than all of his refund will go to his ex for child support.
You can file a request with the IRS that you receive your portion of the refund (as you are not liable for his child support). See Form 8379. http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f8379.pdf
They will keep his refund...until the arrears are all paid off.
I know it's not what you wanted to hear but thats the way it goes. Oh and Btw, He isn't current on the payments...cause if he were they wouldn't be ';arrears';!
If you do not understand his financial situation, why are you living with him ?
If the IRS is keeping a refund, it is because he owes them a lot of money and is unwilling to pay.
they will only keep it if he owes back money for anything from child support or hospital bills but if he doesnt then they wont keep it
I'm not sure but look into it before you file. Filing separate may be the best thing for you to do.
yes
It really depends on how far he is in arrears. My husband was doing the same thing. However, since we got a hefty refund last year, the IRS did deduct the remaining amount he owed in arrears out of our refund. Unfortunately, they double dipped and ALSO deducted the same amount from our rebate check last year. The Florida child support office wasn't in any hurry apparently to refund us the money......we finally got back the amount that was over deducted in November.
I think it really depends what the remaining arrears amount is whether or not they will have an order for the IRS to deduct it from a refund. But from personal experience, yes, they will do it even if he's making arranged payments towards the arrearage amount.Will the Irs keep a refund even if the husband is making court ordered child support back payment?
They can, but they might not. The institution that is administering the child support arrearages would know this. Also, you can file an injured spouse filing to get your part of the refund if they hold the whole thing. These are really good questions to as the child support people and your tax people. That way you will know if they are certified to withold the check and then when they do you will know what forms to file to get your part back out of it. It is not all that hard, just call and ask questions. He will have to call the child support division himself, but you can call the IRS and ask or ask your tax preparer.
Yes, the IRS will keep a refund if he owes back support. And to be honest, why should he get to keep it when his children need to be taken care of.
Think about it... if he is going to get $5,000.00.... I'm sure the two of you see dollar signs and want to go shopping.... BUT WHAT ABOUT HIS CHILDREN....
And, being that you're asking, I'm going to guess you don't have any children.... They are expensive... to say the least. To give you an idea, I have a 5 year old and a 3 year old... In order for me to work, we have to pay for day care AND an after school program. Roughly $475.00 per month.... PLUS, she has to wear uniforms to school, that is another $200.00 for tops and bottoms - plus a school ';spirit'; shirt and such. Then, there are school supplies - which set us back roughly another $200.00, plus stuff like socks, undies, shoes, etc.... Then there is clothes and such for our son.... that adds up QUICK. Then, there are meals.... Our son usually eats more than me! LOL So, I no longer make for 4 people, but more like 5 or 6 so I can have some left overs to take a few days to work each week....... The list goes on and on, like car seats, etc.... Then, you have utilities and rent. You can't get away with a one bedroom either.... so that means more house.... more money.
All of which gets EASIER (not easy) with child support. He needs to pay.
If he is in arrears, than all of his refund will go to his ex for child support.
You can file a request with the IRS that you receive your portion of the refund (as you are not liable for his child support). See Form 8379. http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f8379.pdf
They will keep his refund...until the arrears are all paid off.
I know it's not what you wanted to hear but thats the way it goes. Oh and Btw, He isn't current on the payments...cause if he were they wouldn't be ';arrears';!
If you do not understand his financial situation, why are you living with him ?
If the IRS is keeping a refund, it is because he owes them a lot of money and is unwilling to pay.
they will only keep it if he owes back money for anything from child support or hospital bills but if he doesnt then they wont keep it
I'm not sure but look into it before you file. Filing separate may be the best thing for you to do.
yes
Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
to the United States? So I have a good since of time to get ready and get some odds and ends done? And to drive to the Gym with his parents?Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
well when we were in ga it took after they gave you the 24 hour notice and keep calling! But iraq is not far from kuwaitt. The longest stop is when they stop in germany! i say about 15 hours good luck! I know i was up there 3 hours prior and u can also check with the band cause they have to play that is what my husband in the us army band!Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
Have a wonderful time with your husband enjoy him! My husband got to go back real soon haven't been even stabilize! ENJOY and God Bless
it takes a while. tell your husband thank you for me. my fiance is going to kuwait soon for a year....gosh that's gonna suck! but i think it's like a couple days unless they just take a military aircraft and fly it nonstop....
It all depends on where is is flying into in the states. When I came home from my year long deployment in Kuwait it took us about 19 hours to fly home not including layovers in Ireland and Canada. The layovers were about a half hour to an hour and a half long.
it depends on what unit he's with...
sometimes, like what happend to my dad, theyll get caught up in Ireland or something...itll take a few days, youll have plenty of notice...
thats great to hear...have fun!
best advice is to contact the family support group for his unit
flying from kuwait to the us does not mean you can see --not till he gets home----i spent 3 weeks in FT Bragg when i got back over thanksgiving before i got to go home
Congrats to you all---thank him for his service!
Awww congrats sweetie! It's a load of fun when the soldier boy comes home again. (Trust me, I know)
Usually they'll be home in about 24 hours. Your FRG contact would probably know more. They should be in pretty much constant contact with you. If something changes they'll let you know. My hubby and his unit got caught up in Ireland so it seemed that his trip took a lot longer (he was supposed to arrive at 2am, and he didn't get in until almost 6:30am). I did get a super nice Irish-made necklace out of the deal though. =D
Most of the responses have been 'it depends'. And it does - when I came back from Desert Storm, it was on a 141, with layovers at KKMC and RAF Mildenhall then into McGuire AFB. Took about 24 hours, then I had to take a commercial flight to my permanent duty station (was travelling as a single, not with my unit).
i know when my husband came from iraq the flight was like 2o hrs.
It takes approximately 20 hours to fly from Kuwait to the Eastern seaboard of the U.S. if you fly non-stop in a C-5 or C-141 and get refueled in the air. That rarely happens, however. Many troop transports have stops in Germany and the Azores Islands, and some of the troops are sent home on commercial airlines. Realistically I'm guessing 2-3 days with stops and transfers.
well when we were in ga it took after they gave you the 24 hour notice and keep calling! But iraq is not far from kuwaitt. The longest stop is when they stop in germany! i say about 15 hours good luck! I know i was up there 3 hours prior and u can also check with the band cause they have to play that is what my husband in the us army band!Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
Have a wonderful time with your husband enjoy him! My husband got to go back real soon haven't been even stabilize! ENJOY and God Bless
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it takes a while. tell your husband thank you for me. my fiance is going to kuwait soon for a year....gosh that's gonna suck! but i think it's like a couple days unless they just take a military aircraft and fly it nonstop....
It all depends on where is is flying into in the states. When I came home from my year long deployment in Kuwait it took us about 19 hours to fly home not including layovers in Ireland and Canada. The layovers were about a half hour to an hour and a half long.
it depends on what unit he's with...
sometimes, like what happend to my dad, theyll get caught up in Ireland or something...itll take a few days, youll have plenty of notice...
thats great to hear...have fun!
best advice is to contact the family support group for his unit
flying from kuwait to the us does not mean you can see --not till he gets home----i spent 3 weeks in FT Bragg when i got back over thanksgiving before i got to go home
Congrats to you all---thank him for his service!
Awww congrats sweetie! It's a load of fun when the soldier boy comes home again. (Trust me, I know)
Usually they'll be home in about 24 hours. Your FRG contact would probably know more. They should be in pretty much constant contact with you. If something changes they'll let you know. My hubby and his unit got caught up in Ireland so it seemed that his trip took a lot longer (he was supposed to arrive at 2am, and he didn't get in until almost 6:30am). I did get a super nice Irish-made necklace out of the deal though. =D
Most of the responses have been 'it depends'. And it does - when I came back from Desert Storm, it was on a 141, with layovers at KKMC and RAF Mildenhall then into McGuire AFB. Took about 24 hours, then I had to take a commercial flight to my permanent duty station (was travelling as a single, not with my unit).
i know when my husband came from iraq the flight was like 2o hrs.
It takes approximately 20 hours to fly from Kuwait to the Eastern seaboard of the U.S. if you fly non-stop in a C-5 or C-141 and get refueled in the air. That rarely happens, however. Many troop transports have stops in Germany and the Azores Islands, and some of the troops are sent home on commercial airlines. Realistically I'm guessing 2-3 days with stops and transfers.
Will my husband or I have bad credit for my unpaid medical bills?
During the first year of our marriage, I got sick several times and had to be taken to the emergency room. We told them to send the bills to us through the mail and we would pay them. Now they have collection agencies sending me mail almost every day, but honestly I can't afford to pay them. Will My husband or I be denied medical care if we need it, and will this effect either of our credit scores? Also what else can they do besides send us mail, can they like take our house and stuff?Will my husband or I have bad credit for my unpaid medical bills?
If the collections are reported to the credit bureaus then yes it will hurt your credit a lot just as any collection doe's.
As far as what they can do, they can take you to court and get a judgment, at that point they can attach bank accounts, garnish wages (if your State allows it) and file liens on any real property you may own like cars, boats, land and homes.
They can not take your property but this will keep you from selling it without paying off the liens first.
All of this will show on your credit for the next 7-years.
However this should not keep you from receiving medical care in the future.
Try and get them to agree to a pay for delete agreement, this simply says that in return for your payment they agree to remove the accounts from your credit report. If they agree get this in writing before you pay them a dime.Will my husband or I have bad credit for my unpaid medical bills?
No, no matter how much you owe you will never be denied medical care. But yes you will have a bad credit score. Outstanding medical lower your credit score faster then a defaulted credit card.
But you will always get medical care from any where. If you are sick they will treat you.
Most bankruptcy's are because of medical bills. Never ever pay a bill collector. Please don't stress. Bottom feeder bill collectors will try every legal and illegal means to stress you. You can win, fight back! Good luck my friend.
Yes, it will affect your credit record - if it's gone to collections, it already has. Try to work out a settlement or payment plan. Otherwise, they may sue you.
If the collections are reported to the credit bureaus then yes it will hurt your credit a lot just as any collection doe's.
As far as what they can do, they can take you to court and get a judgment, at that point they can attach bank accounts, garnish wages (if your State allows it) and file liens on any real property you may own like cars, boats, land and homes.
They can not take your property but this will keep you from selling it without paying off the liens first.
All of this will show on your credit for the next 7-years.
However this should not keep you from receiving medical care in the future.
Try and get them to agree to a pay for delete agreement, this simply says that in return for your payment they agree to remove the accounts from your credit report. If they agree get this in writing before you pay them a dime.Will my husband or I have bad credit for my unpaid medical bills?
No, no matter how much you owe you will never be denied medical care. But yes you will have a bad credit score. Outstanding medical lower your credit score faster then a defaulted credit card.
But you will always get medical care from any where. If you are sick they will treat you.
Most bankruptcy's are because of medical bills. Never ever pay a bill collector. Please don't stress. Bottom feeder bill collectors will try every legal and illegal means to stress you. You can win, fight back! Good luck my friend.
Yes, it will affect your credit record - if it's gone to collections, it already has. Try to work out a settlement or payment plan. Otherwise, they may sue you.
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
Please Help. My husband is turkish and 28 years old. The problem is that he has not done his national service yet. He has a turkish passport and an uk settlement visa in it, so will he be able to leave turkey and join me in the uk easily or will he have problems?????
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
As far as I know if a Turkish man works out of Turkey for three years he is excluded from National service anyway, ask ur husband to check it.
Yes, he can return %26amp; perform the National service but keep in mind that if he stays of UK for more than 90 days per calendar year it can serious effect his ILR application.moisturizing cream matte lipstick
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
As far as I know if a Turkish man works out of Turkey for three years he is excluded from National service anyway, ask ur husband to check it.
Yes, he can return %26amp; perform the National service but keep in mind that if he stays of UK for more than 90 days per calendar year it can serious effect his ILR application.
Can my husband collect his settlement structures?
My husband won a lawsuit for lead paint poison about 20 years ago in Boston, Massachusetts. He was a kid at the time so his mother, who was on drugs, was collecting the settlement structures through a life insurance company. Well she never received all of the money because she was on drugs and now we are trying to locate it. Can anyone help?Can my husband collect his settlement structures?
A structured settlement would be arranged through a personal injury lawyer. You could either hire a lawyer who may have access to resources to track it down or you could check for yourself in the public records office of that state and jurisdiction.Can my husband collect his settlement structures?
Call a lawyer.
It will be a matter of public record at the courthouse. You may also find info on it in the archives at the public library. Many librarian assistants will be very helpful in pointing you in the right direction and helping you with your search.
Ask other family members if they remember anything about the case-the attorney's involved, where the case was adjudicated (court), what insurance company was paying the settlement. ANYTHING as a starting point. I am guessing that his mom cannot help (no papertrail). Were there any of his caregivers (or hers) that may have some kind of info?
A structured settlement would be arranged through a personal injury lawyer. You could either hire a lawyer who may have access to resources to track it down or you could check for yourself in the public records office of that state and jurisdiction.Can my husband collect his settlement structures?
Call a lawyer.
It will be a matter of public record at the courthouse. You may also find info on it in the archives at the public library. Many librarian assistants will be very helpful in pointing you in the right direction and helping you with your search.
Ask other family members if they remember anything about the case-the attorney's involved, where the case was adjudicated (court), what insurance company was paying the settlement. ANYTHING as a starting point. I am guessing that his mom cannot help (no papertrail). Were there any of his caregivers (or hers) that may have some kind of info?
Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
to the United States? So I have a good since of time to get ready and get some odds and ends done? And to drive to the Gym with his parents?Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
well when we were in ga it took after they gave you the 24 hour notice and keep calling! But iraq is not far from kuwaitt. The longest stop is when they stop in germany! i say about 15 hours good luck! I know i was up there 3 hours prior and u can also check with the band cause they have to play that is what my husband in the us army band!Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
Have a wonderful time with your husband enjoy him! My husband got to go back real soon haven't been even stabilize! ENJOY and God Bless
it takes a while. tell your husband thank you for me. my fiance is going to kuwait soon for a year....gosh that's gonna suck! but i think it's like a couple days unless they just take a military aircraft and fly it nonstop....
It all depends on where is is flying into in the states. When I came home from my year long deployment in Kuwait it took us about 19 hours to fly home not including layovers in Ireland and Canada. The layovers were about a half hour to an hour and a half long.
it depends on what unit he's with...
sometimes, like what happend to my dad, theyll get caught up in Ireland or something...itll take a few days, youll have plenty of notice...
thats great to hear...have fun!
best advice is to contact the family support group for his unit
flying from kuwait to the us does not mean you can see --not till he gets home----i spent 3 weeks in FT Bragg when i got back over thanksgiving before i got to go home
Congrats to you all---thank him for his service!
Awww congrats sweetie! It's a load of fun when the soldier boy comes home again. (Trust me, I know)
Usually they'll be home in about 24 hours. Your FRG contact would probably know more. They should be in pretty much constant contact with you. If something changes they'll let you know. My hubby and his unit got caught up in Ireland so it seemed that his trip took a lot longer (he was supposed to arrive at 2am, and he didn't get in until almost 6:30am). I did get a super nice Irish-made necklace out of the deal though. =D
Most of the responses have been 'it depends'. And it does - when I came back from Desert Storm, it was on a 141, with layovers at KKMC and RAF Mildenhall then into McGuire AFB. Took about 24 hours, then I had to take a commercial flight to my permanent duty station (was travelling as a single, not with my unit).
i know when my husband came from iraq the flight was like 2o hrs.
It takes approximately 20 hours to fly from Kuwait to the Eastern seaboard of the U.S. if you fly non-stop in a C-5 or C-141 and get refueled in the air. That rarely happens, however. Many troop transports have stops in Germany and the Azores Islands, and some of the troops are sent home on commercial airlines. Realistically I'm guessing 2-3 days with stops and transfers.
well when we were in ga it took after they gave you the 24 hour notice and keep calling! But iraq is not far from kuwaitt. The longest stop is when they stop in germany! i say about 15 hours good luck! I know i was up there 3 hours prior and u can also check with the band cause they have to play that is what my husband in the us army band!Ok My husband is coming home for a year tour in Iraq. How long does it take to travel from Kuwait?
Have a wonderful time with your husband enjoy him! My husband got to go back real soon haven't been even stabilize! ENJOY and God Bless
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it takes a while. tell your husband thank you for me. my fiance is going to kuwait soon for a year....gosh that's gonna suck! but i think it's like a couple days unless they just take a military aircraft and fly it nonstop....
It all depends on where is is flying into in the states. When I came home from my year long deployment in Kuwait it took us about 19 hours to fly home not including layovers in Ireland and Canada. The layovers were about a half hour to an hour and a half long.
it depends on what unit he's with...
sometimes, like what happend to my dad, theyll get caught up in Ireland or something...itll take a few days, youll have plenty of notice...
thats great to hear...have fun!
best advice is to contact the family support group for his unit
flying from kuwait to the us does not mean you can see --not till he gets home----i spent 3 weeks in FT Bragg when i got back over thanksgiving before i got to go home
Congrats to you all---thank him for his service!
Awww congrats sweetie! It's a load of fun when the soldier boy comes home again. (Trust me, I know)
Usually they'll be home in about 24 hours. Your FRG contact would probably know more. They should be in pretty much constant contact with you. If something changes they'll let you know. My hubby and his unit got caught up in Ireland so it seemed that his trip took a lot longer (he was supposed to arrive at 2am, and he didn't get in until almost 6:30am). I did get a super nice Irish-made necklace out of the deal though. =D
Most of the responses have been 'it depends'. And it does - when I came back from Desert Storm, it was on a 141, with layovers at KKMC and RAF Mildenhall then into McGuire AFB. Took about 24 hours, then I had to take a commercial flight to my permanent duty station (was travelling as a single, not with my unit).
i know when my husband came from iraq the flight was like 2o hrs.
It takes approximately 20 hours to fly from Kuwait to the Eastern seaboard of the U.S. if you fly non-stop in a C-5 or C-141 and get refueled in the air. That rarely happens, however. Many troop transports have stops in Germany and the Azores Islands, and some of the troops are sent home on commercial airlines. Realistically I'm guessing 2-3 days with stops and transfers.
How can I get grease stains off my couch, it's light brown and brand new? My husband accidentally got some on?
it. I tried a little vinegar on it but I don't want to ruin it because we just recently bought it. Can you give me a good suggestion? Thank you.How can I get grease stains off my couch, it's light brown and brand new? My husband accidentally got some on?
I would recomment tide to go sticks. they like remove anything from fabric. i sometimes spill coffee on myself and it takes it of even when it is dry. try it. good luck. it must really stink to have something like that on a nice couch!
I would recomment tide to go sticks. they like remove anything from fabric. i sometimes spill coffee on myself and it takes it of even when it is dry. try it. good luck. it must really stink to have something like that on a nice couch!
What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
I don't feel good knowing that he keeps on looking on this website.Pls advise.What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
Instead of getting mad at him maybe you should figure out what makes you so uncomfortable about it, it isn't abnormal or unhealthy for him to be doing it, he is not breaking any laws or hurting anyone. Threatening him will do no good, more than likely it will just make him hide it even more, causing even more problems later down the line.What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
come on...its a common thing for guys to watch it. Its just, he is horny or wanna try new things. If you scold or lecture him, he will do it behind you.
He is horny, and by looking at girls fu#king gives him pleasure about his feelings even he is not doing it. Never mind about it, it is just like watching sports gives him excitement. Or you can do after he watched, f#ck him. It should be feels good.
Ask him to stop doing it, if he does not stop, then it shows that he has no respect for you and he may have an addiction to it and need counseling.
talk to him,tell him how you truly feel,and if it really bothers you and he wont change,then you need to decide what is more important,your marriage or getting your way
1) Watch porn with him.
2) Made him horny and have sex with him 2 times a day x 7 days a week - OK !
Bor Hor Hor !
talk to him and tell him to stop looking on it.or else?????
watch it w/ him, lol
Instead of getting mad at him maybe you should figure out what makes you so uncomfortable about it, it isn't abnormal or unhealthy for him to be doing it, he is not breaking any laws or hurting anyone. Threatening him will do no good, more than likely it will just make him hide it even more, causing even more problems later down the line.What should i do if i always caught my husband surfing the porno website?
come on...its a common thing for guys to watch it. Its just, he is horny or wanna try new things. If you scold or lecture him, he will do it behind you.
He is horny, and by looking at girls fu#king gives him pleasure about his feelings even he is not doing it. Never mind about it, it is just like watching sports gives him excitement. Or you can do after he watched, f#ck him. It should be feels good.
Ask him to stop doing it, if he does not stop, then it shows that he has no respect for you and he may have an addiction to it and need counseling.
talk to him,tell him how you truly feel,and if it really bothers you and he wont change,then you need to decide what is more important,your marriage or getting your way
1) Watch porn with him.
2) Made him horny and have sex with him 2 times a day x 7 days a week - OK !
Bor Hor Hor !
talk to him and tell him to stop looking on it.or else?????
watch it w/ him, lol
What do I need to do to send my husband's and my paid in ful letters to credit bureaus to update our reports?
My husband and I paid off our debts that reflected on our credit reports. We have recieved all of our paid in full letters except for one. What would we need to do to get this information to credit bureaus to have our information updated...I reall need to know so any info would be greatly appreciated!!!!!What do I need to do to send my husband's and my paid in ful letters to credit bureaus to update our reports?
just send last statement showing a zero balance - they will get updated eventually any wayWhat do I need to do to send my husband's and my paid in ful letters to credit bureaus to update our reports?
You would contact each agency by mail. You send them a copy of the report to each corresponding agency with a letter disputing the information reported, for example, your Nordstrom account showed habitually late and went to a collections agency, you would name that creditor in your letter and tell them the debt has been paid and send the corresponding paid in full letter to them with your report and you will do this for each debt that has been paid in full. Most of the time collections agencies will do this in a matter of time better for you to follow up with a letter of your own so it gets done. When your report has been updated these debts will either appears as ';settlement accepted on this account'; or ';account closed by credit grantor paid/zero balance.'; It may take between 3 and 6 months to accomplish but please do it in writting and not over the phone or the internet. There is still value in writting letters to folks when it comes to something as important as your credit. After all that is done, do not apply for any credit any where for at least 18 months (revolving credit-credit cards, retail accounts I mean) - you would be better off rebuilding your credit score by obtaining financing on a car (only if you need one - very easy to do, have a cosigner and a down payment of at least 3500.) Good luck.
Shanara,
You'll want to first work with the one company that hasn't provided you the paid in full letter. Get them to get you that letter. Each company is supposed to report to the credit bureaus that you are paid in full, but some are not good about it.
If you are really worried about your credit improving, and it sounds like you are, you may want to subscribe to one of the 3 major credit bureau's for a monthly fee. I subscribe to Experian. For $12.95 a month, I can pull my credit report any time I want. This has been very helpful to me for the same reasons. I pay a loan off, and I can check to see if the credit report got that information. One of my payoff's still showed a balance of $22,000 for over 6 months after I paid it off!!! It took me many calls to the company, and many credit report disputes to fix it. I attacked it from both angles and finally, I think the company got tired of dealing with me, so they finally did what they should have a long time before. Sometimes persistence is the key too. Then when it looks fixed on your credit report, you might consider pulling a 3 agency report, which usually costs about $30. It's sad that we have to pay to see what our credit looks like, but that's the cards we are dealt, we just have to deal with it.
I hope this helps you out! Andy
Oh, by law, you are entitled to a free credit report annually, and also if you are denied credit. You just have to contact the 3 agencies:
Experian
PO Box 9532
Allen, TX 75013
(888) 397-3742
Equifax
PO Box 740241
Atlanta, GA 30374-0241
(800) 525-6285
Transunion
PO Box 6790
Fullerton, CA 92864-6790
(801) 680-7289
just send last statement showing a zero balance - they will get updated eventually any wayWhat do I need to do to send my husband's and my paid in ful letters to credit bureaus to update our reports?
You would contact each agency by mail. You send them a copy of the report to each corresponding agency with a letter disputing the information reported, for example, your Nordstrom account showed habitually late and went to a collections agency, you would name that creditor in your letter and tell them the debt has been paid and send the corresponding paid in full letter to them with your report and you will do this for each debt that has been paid in full. Most of the time collections agencies will do this in a matter of time better for you to follow up with a letter of your own so it gets done. When your report has been updated these debts will either appears as ';settlement accepted on this account'; or ';account closed by credit grantor paid/zero balance.'; It may take between 3 and 6 months to accomplish but please do it in writting and not over the phone or the internet. There is still value in writting letters to folks when it comes to something as important as your credit. After all that is done, do not apply for any credit any where for at least 18 months (revolving credit-credit cards, retail accounts I mean) - you would be better off rebuilding your credit score by obtaining financing on a car (only if you need one - very easy to do, have a cosigner and a down payment of at least 3500.) Good luck.
Shanara,
You'll want to first work with the one company that hasn't provided you the paid in full letter. Get them to get you that letter. Each company is supposed to report to the credit bureaus that you are paid in full, but some are not good about it.
If you are really worried about your credit improving, and it sounds like you are, you may want to subscribe to one of the 3 major credit bureau's for a monthly fee. I subscribe to Experian. For $12.95 a month, I can pull my credit report any time I want. This has been very helpful to me for the same reasons. I pay a loan off, and I can check to see if the credit report got that information. One of my payoff's still showed a balance of $22,000 for over 6 months after I paid it off!!! It took me many calls to the company, and many credit report disputes to fix it. I attacked it from both angles and finally, I think the company got tired of dealing with me, so they finally did what they should have a long time before. Sometimes persistence is the key too. Then when it looks fixed on your credit report, you might consider pulling a 3 agency report, which usually costs about $30. It's sad that we have to pay to see what our credit looks like, but that's the cards we are dealt, we just have to deal with it.
I hope this helps you out! Andy
Oh, by law, you are entitled to a free credit report annually, and also if you are denied credit. You just have to contact the 3 agencies:
Experian
PO Box 9532
Allen, TX 75013
(888) 397-3742
Equifax
PO Box 740241
Atlanta, GA 30374-0241
(800) 525-6285
Transunion
PO Box 6790
Fullerton, CA 92864-6790
(801) 680-7289
I want to work in UK and i am a Malaysian,i also want to bring my husband and my 1year old baby with me. How?
I am planning to work in uk, i have ten years of working experience in customer servcie line and have completed my Diploma in Hospitality Management, how to proceed? I also planning to bring my husband and my 1 year old baby to stay with me in UK, what is procedure and also am i eligible to work in uk, what is the possilbe job oppurtunity with my qualification and experience?I want to work in UK and i am a Malaysian,i also want to bring my husband and my 1year old baby with me. How?
You need to find an employer in England willing to sponsor you.moisturizing cream eye make up
You need to find an employer in England willing to sponsor you.
Can a husband who abused his wife force her to sell the house?
My grans husband was an alcholic and kicked and punched her. The police where called and he was arrested and charged, he was released and was not allowed within so many yards of the house. They are now separated (not divorced) and he is now allowed to do what ever he wants. He has his own house but now he says he may want to move back into the house where my gran stays and if he does it will force my gran to sell the house. His name is on the house and so is my grans, each own half of it. Can she do anything to stop him?Can a husband who abused his wife force her to sell the house?
Yes it is called DIVORCE.
Have a lawyer sue him for the house.
Yes it is called DIVORCE.
Have a lawyer sue him for the house.
How can I stop myself getting angry with my husband?
I'm 32 weeks pregnant and everything is going fine. The doctor told me at my last appointment that it was fine for my husband and I to make love. However, since I started showing my husband just hasn't wanted to, he says it's because he feels awkward with the baby in between us. But I'm starting to think he's just going off me because of the way my body has changed. I'm trying so hard to stay patient with him, but it's really starting to get me down. Does anyone have any advice?How can I stop myself getting angry with my husband?
Hi there
I am 35 weeks pregnant i haven't had a issue of my hubby not wanting sex BUT!! i know the feeling you are going through about him not finding you attractive.... me and my hubby did have a time in the pregnancy where we were not having sex and if anything it was me more so because i hate what i look like, i had sex the other night and i can honestly say i felt like a wallowing hippo in the mud!! i would talk to him again and tell him how he making you feel if he can be truthful to you then you be blatant and truthful with him! tell him you need reassuring that he still wants you and finds you attractive as he is making you feel unattractive.How can I stop myself getting angry with my husband?
Hello Vicky!
I must say that I understand how you feel, but there is no point getting angry at him. He is simply worried about the baby, and not the way your body has changed. He feels a bit weird and scared to do any damage to your baby, even though there is not much you can do. Try convincing him into doing this and just tell him that nothing is going to happen to the baby or you, just remember some positions may not be suitable for pregnant women so be careful:) just tell him how you feel and try talking him into making love, I'm sure he wont resist:)
Have your husband go along with you to your doctors appointments and have your doctor explain to him that it is completely safe. Have your doctor reassure him that he has nothing to be concerned about. Seduce your husband, wear loose lingerie- so that your belly doesn't show, do not talk about the baby before making love, try new positions so that there is no pressure on your belly- on fours is best or you on top backwards is a good position, have fun with it just don't get rough. Talk to him about the way you feel and it probably will turn out that he is just paranoid.
Some men feel weird about making love with their wives...and the baby. He may feel like he will hurt you (or the baby) or he may just see you as the woman giving life to his child and not a sexual being. Perhaps his sexiness disappears when he looks down and knows that there is a baby in there. If your husband is genuinely a decent guy, give him the benefit of the doubt; tell him that you know he feels awkward about the baby in between you - then suggest (no scratch that) take his hand and lead him (seduce him) to other positions that don't require the baby being between you (if you catch my drift). Allow him to get comfortable with making love with you again and eventually he will loosen up (or hardened up). :)
Your 32 weeks along, if you held on until now, try a few more weeks. Some men think they might hurt the baby, and it puts them off sex. Tell him if the problem is he thinks he's putting pressure on the belly, that you can try some other positions, like side ways or from the back and if that don't work. You on top.
It can be true what he says. Now that both my kids are born, my husband and I talk about it and he said it made him feel weird like a little hand was going to grab his wanker or something. He knew that it wouldn't of course but just the weird thoughts alone made it uncomfortable for him to have sex. Men don't quite understand pregnancy as much as we do. It makes a lot of them uncomfortable. Just wait it out, it will get back to normal after the baby. It also seems like a much bigger issue with the raging pregnancy hormones...I've been there and it will get back to normal.
it probably has nothing to do with your body! why cant you take his word for it? i felt the same way about it and it had NOTHING to do with my wife's body! some of us have mental blocks with that issue so he's not lying. many guys, myself included, really have little clue how all that works in there. even after you have the baby he might even continue looking at ';it'; differently for a while.
i GUARANTEE that that too will pass and he'll be back all over you better than before.
i have been the guy in this position. and it wasnt my wifes body change (she only gained 14lbs total the whole pregnancy) i just felt awkard about having sex wit her being so late in the pregnancy, scared i was going to hurt the baby, etc etc. its just different for a guy. dont take it like he doesnt think your attractive. its jsut weird from a guys point of view
i dont like pregnant woman, I think it s ugly.i would not touch a pregnant woman, even if it s my wife.
so let him in peace!!!
so men react differently, it s not against you.just take it easy and wait...
me an my wife id a lot of doggy style and spooning that way the baby isn't ';between'; you. My wife said that doggy style relieved her gas pains too
You control your thougths and then they become actions. When you control your thought life then you will have your answer.
He probably isn't going off you, it is kinda awkward
i would just talk to him if i were you but that would get me upset! and if that don't work masturbate!
Come it must be strange for him. He'll get over it
he is not attracted to you anymore now that you are pregnant, and you should be mad at him for that! In fact it would be weird if you were not completely pissed off about that. He does not want to have sex with you until you go back to the way you were before you got pregnant, and that may take awhile if it happens at all. You could wait it out, or you could realize that he may be only into you for the way you look, and that is not good for you or your baby. He is because your body has changed, and you should stop being patient with him, If he really loves you he can learn to love you the way you are no matter how you look. You are beautiful no matter what, and it is what is on the inside that matters, If you can not fix this problem, then it will reflect how he will treat you in the future and how he will treat your baby in the future. If it doesn't stop then you have to do what is best for you and the baby and leave him. Be mad and make him understand, or be with someone who will!
Hi there
I am 35 weeks pregnant i haven't had a issue of my hubby not wanting sex BUT!! i know the feeling you are going through about him not finding you attractive.... me and my hubby did have a time in the pregnancy where we were not having sex and if anything it was me more so because i hate what i look like, i had sex the other night and i can honestly say i felt like a wallowing hippo in the mud!! i would talk to him again and tell him how he making you feel if he can be truthful to you then you be blatant and truthful with him! tell him you need reassuring that he still wants you and finds you attractive as he is making you feel unattractive.How can I stop myself getting angry with my husband?
Hello Vicky!
I must say that I understand how you feel, but there is no point getting angry at him. He is simply worried about the baby, and not the way your body has changed. He feels a bit weird and scared to do any damage to your baby, even though there is not much you can do. Try convincing him into doing this and just tell him that nothing is going to happen to the baby or you, just remember some positions may not be suitable for pregnant women so be careful:) just tell him how you feel and try talking him into making love, I'm sure he wont resist:)
Have your husband go along with you to your doctors appointments and have your doctor explain to him that it is completely safe. Have your doctor reassure him that he has nothing to be concerned about. Seduce your husband, wear loose lingerie- so that your belly doesn't show, do not talk about the baby before making love, try new positions so that there is no pressure on your belly- on fours is best or you on top backwards is a good position, have fun with it just don't get rough. Talk to him about the way you feel and it probably will turn out that he is just paranoid.
Some men feel weird about making love with their wives...and the baby. He may feel like he will hurt you (or the baby) or he may just see you as the woman giving life to his child and not a sexual being. Perhaps his sexiness disappears when he looks down and knows that there is a baby in there. If your husband is genuinely a decent guy, give him the benefit of the doubt; tell him that you know he feels awkward about the baby in between you - then suggest (no scratch that) take his hand and lead him (seduce him) to other positions that don't require the baby being between you (if you catch my drift). Allow him to get comfortable with making love with you again and eventually he will loosen up (or hardened up). :)
Your 32 weeks along, if you held on until now, try a few more weeks. Some men think they might hurt the baby, and it puts them off sex. Tell him if the problem is he thinks he's putting pressure on the belly, that you can try some other positions, like side ways or from the back and if that don't work. You on top.
It can be true what he says. Now that both my kids are born, my husband and I talk about it and he said it made him feel weird like a little hand was going to grab his wanker or something. He knew that it wouldn't of course but just the weird thoughts alone made it uncomfortable for him to have sex. Men don't quite understand pregnancy as much as we do. It makes a lot of them uncomfortable. Just wait it out, it will get back to normal after the baby. It also seems like a much bigger issue with the raging pregnancy hormones...I've been there and it will get back to normal.
it probably has nothing to do with your body! why cant you take his word for it? i felt the same way about it and it had NOTHING to do with my wife's body! some of us have mental blocks with that issue so he's not lying. many guys, myself included, really have little clue how all that works in there. even after you have the baby he might even continue looking at ';it'; differently for a while.
i GUARANTEE that that too will pass and he'll be back all over you better than before.
i have been the guy in this position. and it wasnt my wifes body change (she only gained 14lbs total the whole pregnancy) i just felt awkard about having sex wit her being so late in the pregnancy, scared i was going to hurt the baby, etc etc. its just different for a guy. dont take it like he doesnt think your attractive. its jsut weird from a guys point of view
i dont like pregnant woman, I think it s ugly.i would not touch a pregnant woman, even if it s my wife.
so let him in peace!!!
so men react differently, it s not against you.just take it easy and wait...
me an my wife id a lot of doggy style and spooning that way the baby isn't ';between'; you. My wife said that doggy style relieved her gas pains too
You control your thougths and then they become actions. When you control your thought life then you will have your answer.
He probably isn't going off you, it is kinda awkward
i would just talk to him if i were you but that would get me upset! and if that don't work masturbate!
Come it must be strange for him. He'll get over it
he is not attracted to you anymore now that you are pregnant, and you should be mad at him for that! In fact it would be weird if you were not completely pissed off about that. He does not want to have sex with you until you go back to the way you were before you got pregnant, and that may take awhile if it happens at all. You could wait it out, or you could realize that he may be only into you for the way you look, and that is not good for you or your baby. He is because your body has changed, and you should stop being patient with him, If he really loves you he can learn to love you the way you are no matter how you look. You are beautiful no matter what, and it is what is on the inside that matters, If you can not fix this problem, then it will reflect how he will treat you in the future and how he will treat your baby in the future. If it doesn't stop then you have to do what is best for you and the baby and leave him. Be mad and make him understand, or be with someone who will!
Is it wrong to take clomid without telling my husband?
I have health problems that make it very difficult to conceive. Yesterday I went to the doctor and she gave me clomid. My husband agreed to try and conceive this year but then quit his job. Now he wants to wait again! We are both getting older and want to have a child. Should I go ahead and take the pill or should i wait?Is it wrong to take clomid without telling my husband?
This should be a mutual decision between a husband and wife and is suppose to be a fun process. =)
I am to on clomid and my hubby even went to the dr. with me and we made the decision together. You will have some side effects from it and it will be more helpful if your hubby knows that you are on meds and what you are going through. Plus with being on Clomid it's going to be a chart process on when you can conceive.
You are right though if every one waited until they were financially set there would never be babies being made. You just have to learn how to adjust to a new lifestyle and live without things. i/e going out to eat, buying a new outfit. etc.Is it wrong to take clomid without telling my husband?
I think its better to wait because if some thing goes wrong then you cannot defend for yourself.
Or make him understand how important it is to conceive before getting older.
You need to keep your husband in the loop, not out. I can understand your feelings, my husband put off trying when I was ready for months. Talk to him, tell him about the Clomid and discuss together you taking it and what that means. You don't want to do this behind his back.
yes. wait and becuz u should both b happy when u do get pregnant
Put the shoe on the other foot for a minute. Just as you say he's making excuses, I see you doing the same thing. ';You'll never be rich';? Well there is a BIG difference between being rich and having no job to support your family. I would expect a teenage girl to think like that, but you're supposed to be an intelligent adult. I think if anything he's being responsible and honest while you're being the opposite.
Simply put, would you be OK if he was dishonest and cheated on you to get what he wants? No, you would never. So why would you do the same to him?
you should get with your husband first....You should never do anything behind his back.
Seriously....dont do that without him knowing....especially after he has said wait a while.
Be on the same page as your husband. I don't think it's ethical to take something to increase the odds of doing something that he does not want right now.
This should be a mutual decision between a husband and wife and is suppose to be a fun process. =)
I am to on clomid and my hubby even went to the dr. with me and we made the decision together. You will have some side effects from it and it will be more helpful if your hubby knows that you are on meds and what you are going through. Plus with being on Clomid it's going to be a chart process on when you can conceive.
You are right though if every one waited until they were financially set there would never be babies being made. You just have to learn how to adjust to a new lifestyle and live without things. i/e going out to eat, buying a new outfit. etc.Is it wrong to take clomid without telling my husband?
I think its better to wait because if some thing goes wrong then you cannot defend for yourself.
Or make him understand how important it is to conceive before getting older.
You need to keep your husband in the loop, not out. I can understand your feelings, my husband put off trying when I was ready for months. Talk to him, tell him about the Clomid and discuss together you taking it and what that means. You don't want to do this behind his back.
yes. wait and becuz u should both b happy when u do get pregnant
Put the shoe on the other foot for a minute. Just as you say he's making excuses, I see you doing the same thing. ';You'll never be rich';? Well there is a BIG difference between being rich and having no job to support your family. I would expect a teenage girl to think like that, but you're supposed to be an intelligent adult. I think if anything he's being responsible and honest while you're being the opposite.
Simply put, would you be OK if he was dishonest and cheated on you to get what he wants? No, you would never. So why would you do the same to him?
you should get with your husband first....You should never do anything behind his back.
Seriously....dont do that without him knowing....especially after he has said wait a while.
Be on the same page as your husband. I don't think it's ethical to take something to increase the odds of doing something that he does not want right now.
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
Please Help. My husband is turkish and 28 years old. The problem is that he has not done his national service yet. He has a turkish passport and an uk settlement visa in it, so will he be able to leave turkey and join me in the uk easily or will he have problems?????
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
My ex-husband is Turkish. He was eligible for military service but joined me in the UK on a spouse visa in 1994 . He was never asked by the Turks or British to return to do military service. He returned to Turkey several times on his Turkish passport but was never asked about military service at passport control. A couple of years ago he was granted a British passport. He told me that since that point he longer had to do military service as he is now officially British and nothing to do with Turkey anymore. His Turkish passport expired. He regularly travels between the UK and Turkey but has never been asked to do military service there. He did not want to do military service because he is from a persecuted minority, that suffers bullying in the turkish army. He is now too old to be called up.
So I don't know what your other contributors are talking about.
I'm not sure though what the situation is if your hubby is still in Turkey now. I reckon he should be able to leave ok, he still has years to go before they might call him up. Best get him over here and apply for a UK passport as soon as possible. Unless he wants to do 2 years in the army? They're in Iraq at the moment :-(Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
I think this up to Turkey. If the UK has granted him a visa then it is okay for him to enter (the UK doesn't care when he does his Turkish national service).
However, if the Turkish government demands he return and do national service, the UK will honour this request.
Coming to the UK is not a way to dodge Turkish law. So yes he can enter, and at anytime later within Turkish rules, he may return to do national service.
Yes he can go to UK and no he will not be deported to do military service but contrary to what someone else has put on here he will remain liable for national service even if he gets British passport .If he shows permanent residency in UK he can pay and do a one month spell in army which discharges his obligation .Many people have made multiple entries without problems then suddenly found themselves detained and in army.
He can go to the UK but if he ever attempts to return to Turkey they will put him in jail. They may take away his citizenship as well.
If Turkey manages to join the EU the UK may take away his status. NATO ties are still tight so it could happen either way. So basically even ten years from now he could have repercussions.
His choice and his gamble.
Oh NO!
Simple answer No
He must honour his military commitments and then when that is completed he can re -enter under the appropriate visa
Some people have been made to restart their immigration process all over again and others have had the process suspended until their commitment to the military was completed. Others were denied entry
He is a Turkish national and as such even if he was to enter UK as a spousal visa I can only tell you that the UK will deport him to honour his commitment to the armed forces of his country. If they are convinced that he is using his visa to avoid draft then they can and have rescinded settlement visas
The thing to remember he is that He is still a Turkish National and as such is still bound by his countries laws and military requirements.
See a solicitor that deals with immigration advise, check to see if you can have legal aid.
I hope all goes well for you both
EDIT 8pm UK Time
i did not read your question correctly I assumed your husband was already in UK I have ammended my answer. Sorry
Further EDIT
The UK Immigration laws all tightened up after 9/11 and further tightening since 7/7 bombings. Your husband has a settlemnt visa NOT a UK Citizship you need advice from the embassy if you do not then you both have to take your chances
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
My ex-husband is Turkish. He was eligible for military service but joined me in the UK on a spouse visa in 1994 . He was never asked by the Turks or British to return to do military service. He returned to Turkey several times on his Turkish passport but was never asked about military service at passport control. A couple of years ago he was granted a British passport. He told me that since that point he longer had to do military service as he is now officially British and nothing to do with Turkey anymore. His Turkish passport expired. He regularly travels between the UK and Turkey but has never been asked to do military service there. He did not want to do military service because he is from a persecuted minority, that suffers bullying in the turkish army. He is now too old to be called up.
So I don't know what your other contributors are talking about.
I'm not sure though what the situation is if your hubby is still in Turkey now. I reckon he should be able to leave ok, he still has years to go before they might call him up. Best get him over here and apply for a UK passport as soon as possible. Unless he wants to do 2 years in the army? They're in Iraq at the moment :-(Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
I think this up to Turkey. If the UK has granted him a visa then it is okay for him to enter (the UK doesn't care when he does his Turkish national service).
However, if the Turkish government demands he return and do national service, the UK will honour this request.
Coming to the UK is not a way to dodge Turkish law. So yes he can enter, and at anytime later within Turkish rules, he may return to do national service.
Yes he can go to UK and no he will not be deported to do military service but contrary to what someone else has put on here he will remain liable for national service even if he gets British passport .If he shows permanent residency in UK he can pay and do a one month spell in army which discharges his obligation .Many people have made multiple entries without problems then suddenly found themselves detained and in army.
He can go to the UK but if he ever attempts to return to Turkey they will put him in jail. They may take away his citizenship as well.
If Turkey manages to join the EU the UK may take away his status. NATO ties are still tight so it could happen either way. So basically even ten years from now he could have repercussions.
His choice and his gamble.
Oh NO!
Simple answer No
He must honour his military commitments and then when that is completed he can re -enter under the appropriate visa
Some people have been made to restart their immigration process all over again and others have had the process suspended until their commitment to the military was completed. Others were denied entry
He is a Turkish national and as such even if he was to enter UK as a spousal visa I can only tell you that the UK will deport him to honour his commitment to the armed forces of his country. If they are convinced that he is using his visa to avoid draft then they can and have rescinded settlement visas
The thing to remember he is that He is still a Turkish National and as such is still bound by his countries laws and military requirements.
See a solicitor that deals with immigration advise, check to see if you can have legal aid.
I hope all goes well for you both
EDIT 8pm UK Time
i did not read your question correctly I assumed your husband was already in UK I have ammended my answer. Sorry
Further EDIT
The UK Immigration laws all tightened up after 9/11 and further tightening since 7/7 bombings. Your husband has a settlemnt visa NOT a UK Citizship you need advice from the embassy if you do not then you both have to take your chances
After my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
If he is stationed somewhere before seeking an A school, let's say for 6 mo to a year, will I be allowed to move with him wherever he goes? Same for when he is in an A school...will I move where his school is or do I stay at home?After my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
He will go to A school firstAfter my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
you will stay home until he finishes bootcamp and A school. that means, the coastguard will not pay for moving you to his city where the a-school is located.
however. you are a civilian and a free citizen. you can move wherever you want to live. during A-school, he will not be able to live outside of the barracks, but he will have weekends to be with you.
he will go DIRECTLY from bootcamp to A-school.
After A-school, the coastguard will pay the expenses to move you and your stuff to wherever his duty assignment is located.
If he goes to a unit prior to ';A'; School, then you can move there. He will then attend ';A'; School TAD or on a temporary assignment - and unfortunately, you can't go with him (outside of visiting).
Once he graduates, he'll return to his home unit (with you) and then PCS to his next unit.
This is different than ALL the other services... they send you to ';A'; School right out of boot camp - we let you see what those people do prior to selling your soul to a rating you may not like.
The rules are that once you are at a certain phase he can move out of his dorm in tech school and live with you.
He will go to A school first. then after that you can move with him.
Your choice.
you are free to live where you want
He will go to A school firstAfter my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
you will stay home until he finishes bootcamp and A school. that means, the coastguard will not pay for moving you to his city where the a-school is located.
however. you are a civilian and a free citizen. you can move wherever you want to live. during A-school, he will not be able to live outside of the barracks, but he will have weekends to be with you.
he will go DIRECTLY from bootcamp to A-school.
After A-school, the coastguard will pay the expenses to move you and your stuff to wherever his duty assignment is located.
If he goes to a unit prior to ';A'; School, then you can move there. He will then attend ';A'; School TAD or on a temporary assignment - and unfortunately, you can't go with him (outside of visiting).
Once he graduates, he'll return to his home unit (with you) and then PCS to his next unit.
This is different than ALL the other services... they send you to ';A'; School right out of boot camp - we let you see what those people do prior to selling your soul to a rating you may not like.
The rules are that once you are at a certain phase he can move out of his dorm in tech school and live with you.
He will go to A school first. then after that you can move with him.
Your choice.
you are free to live where you want
Is there any way I can help make my husband more enthusiastic about our pregnancy?
We have known we are pregnant for almost two weeks now. He is not mad or upset that we are pregnant. But he is just not as excited as I am. Should I just give him time? Or are men just not as enthusiastic about this kind of thing?Is there any way I can help make my husband more enthusiastic about our pregnancy?
My husband was happy, but still he's not that into it either. Its hard for them to be when they have to watch from the side lines while we get bigger and feel the baby move first and what not. But don't worry, as soon as that kid comes, he'll be happy and will be involved! Good luck!Is there any way I can help make my husband more enthusiastic about our pregnancy?
He will be. Men just need more time to get excited. Once he sees your belly start to grow, and can see your baby on the ultrasound, see/feel him/her kick, it'll become more real to him. Right now it's kind of an abstract concept.
They say women become mothers the second they find out they're pregnant, while men do when they first see/hold their baby. It's just the way we are, biologically. Don't worry, he'll be just as excited as you are soon enough!
It doesnt really hit men till your big and about to bust. Thers an old sayin that says ';a woman becomes a mother when she knowledges shes pregnant a man becomes a father when he holds his child'; I think that best explains it.. Men themselves arent actually expericning it one on one so it takes longer.. You could always get him to tag along to the dr appts and ultrasounds that seems to help a lot. Good luck %26amp; best wisshes:)!
Give him time. Also,include him into every thing, Dr.'s appointments, classes,picking out names,and baby stuff.If he is like my husband if he doesn't see it on Sports network then it doesn't affect him. So when he sees the 1st ultra sound. You can tell him one for the home team
2 weeks is not very long. It probably just hasn't hit him yet. When he hears the baby's first heartbeat, sees the first photo, he will get there.
It is kind of unreal in the beginning for lots of people.
I enrolled my Husband %26amp; I in parenting classes. Sort of what to expect...
Also give him time, it may not have hit him yet, once he see's the growing belly it will hit home.
radiate your enthusiasm!!!moisturizing cream eye make up
My husband was happy, but still he's not that into it either. Its hard for them to be when they have to watch from the side lines while we get bigger and feel the baby move first and what not. But don't worry, as soon as that kid comes, he'll be happy and will be involved! Good luck!Is there any way I can help make my husband more enthusiastic about our pregnancy?
He will be. Men just need more time to get excited. Once he sees your belly start to grow, and can see your baby on the ultrasound, see/feel him/her kick, it'll become more real to him. Right now it's kind of an abstract concept.
They say women become mothers the second they find out they're pregnant, while men do when they first see/hold their baby. It's just the way we are, biologically. Don't worry, he'll be just as excited as you are soon enough!
It doesnt really hit men till your big and about to bust. Thers an old sayin that says ';a woman becomes a mother when she knowledges shes pregnant a man becomes a father when he holds his child'; I think that best explains it.. Men themselves arent actually expericning it one on one so it takes longer.. You could always get him to tag along to the dr appts and ultrasounds that seems to help a lot. Good luck %26amp; best wisshes:)!
Give him time. Also,include him into every thing, Dr.'s appointments, classes,picking out names,and baby stuff.If he is like my husband if he doesn't see it on Sports network then it doesn't affect him. So when he sees the 1st ultra sound. You can tell him one for the home team
2 weeks is not very long. It probably just hasn't hit him yet. When he hears the baby's first heartbeat, sees the first photo, he will get there.
It is kind of unreal in the beginning for lots of people.
I enrolled my Husband %26amp; I in parenting classes. Sort of what to expect...
Also give him time, it may not have hit him yet, once he see's the growing belly it will hit home.
radiate your enthusiasm!!!
Could a husband and wife working for competitors be a problem for either?
My spouse is planning to take up a job with an employer who is a direct competitor/rival to the company I work for - we're talking Yahoo! vs Google. Is this likely to be a problem for the careers for either one of us? We are both in entry level + 4 year job - first level manager roles.Could a husband and wife working for competitors be a problem for either?
It shouldn't be a problem, but it could be. It all depends on the level of maturity and trustworthyness of each partner. If there is a danger of high level trade secrets being shared, that could be a temptation that you don't need to encounter, especially if it could cause you to violate a confidentially contract and get sued. If this is the circumstance, you might want to carefully consider Murphy's law.Could a husband and wife working for competitors be a problem for either?
Also make sure both you and your wife are compliant of all company policies by reading the ';code of conduct'; document(s) thoroughly in your respective companies.
James Carville (Democrat) and Mary Matalin (Republican) seem to be able to work it out.
It shouldn't be a problem, but it could be. It all depends on the level of maturity and trustworthyness of each partner. If there is a danger of high level trade secrets being shared, that could be a temptation that you don't need to encounter, especially if it could cause you to violate a confidentially contract and get sued. If this is the circumstance, you might want to carefully consider Murphy's law.Could a husband and wife working for competitors be a problem for either?
Also make sure both you and your wife are compliant of all company policies by reading the ';code of conduct'; document(s) thoroughly in your respective companies.
James Carville (Democrat) and Mary Matalin (Republican) seem to be able to work it out.
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
Please Help. My husband is turkish and 28 years old. The problem is that he has not done his national service yet. He has a turkish passport and an uk settlement visa in it, so will he be able to leave turkey and join me in the uk easily or will he have problems?????
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
My ex-husband is Turkish. He was eligible for military service but joined me in the UK on a spouse visa in 1994 . He was never asked by the Turks or British to return to do military service. He returned to Turkey several times on his Turkish passport but was never asked about military service at passport control. A couple of years ago he was granted a British passport. He told me that since that point he longer had to do military service as he is now officially British and nothing to do with Turkey anymore. His Turkish passport expired. He regularly travels between the UK and Turkey but has never been asked to do military service there. He did not want to do military service because he is from a persecuted minority, that suffers bullying in the turkish army. He is now too old to be called up.
So I don't know what your other contributors are talking about.
I'm not sure though what the situation is if your hubby is still in Turkey now. I reckon he should be able to leave ok, he still has years to go before they might call him up. Best get him over here and apply for a UK passport as soon as possible. Unless he wants to do 2 years in the army? They're in Iraq at the moment :-(Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
I think this up to Turkey. If the UK has granted him a visa then it is okay for him to enter (the UK doesn't care when he does his Turkish national service).
However, if the Turkish government demands he return and do national service, the UK will honour this request.
Coming to the UK is not a way to dodge Turkish law. So yes he can enter, and at anytime later within Turkish rules, he may return to do national service.
Yes he can go to UK and no he will not be deported to do military service but contrary to what someone else has put on here he will remain liable for national service even if he gets British passport .If he shows permanent residency in UK he can pay and do a one month spell in army which discharges his obligation .Many people have made multiple entries without problems then suddenly found themselves detained and in army.
He can go to the UK but if he ever attempts to return to Turkey they will put him in jail. They may take away his citizenship as well.
If Turkey manages to join the EU the UK may take away his status. NATO ties are still tight so it could happen either way. So basically even ten years from now he could have repercussions.
His choice and his gamble.
Oh NO!
Simple answer No
He must honour his military commitments and then when that is completed he can re -enter under the appropriate visa
Some people have been made to restart their immigration process all over again and others have had the process suspended until their commitment to the military was completed. Others were denied entry
He is a Turkish national and as such even if he was to enter UK as a spousal visa I can only tell you that the UK will deport him to honour his commitment to the armed forces of his country. If they are convinced that he is using his visa to avoid draft then they can and have rescinded settlement visas
The thing to remember he is that He is still a Turkish National and as such is still bound by his countries laws and military requirements.
See a solicitor that deals with immigration advise, check to see if you can have legal aid.
I hope all goes well for you both
EDIT 8pm UK Time
i did not read your question correctly I assumed your husband was already in UK I have ammended my answer. Sorry
Further EDIT
The UK Immigration laws all tightened up after 9/11 and further tightening since 7/7 bombings. Your husband has a settlemnt visa NOT a UK Citizship you need advice from the embassy if you do not then you both have to take your chances
Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
My ex-husband is Turkish. He was eligible for military service but joined me in the UK on a spouse visa in 1994 . He was never asked by the Turks or British to return to do military service. He returned to Turkey several times on his Turkish passport but was never asked about military service at passport control. A couple of years ago he was granted a British passport. He told me that since that point he longer had to do military service as he is now officially British and nothing to do with Turkey anymore. His Turkish passport expired. He regularly travels between the UK and Turkey but has never been asked to do military service there. He did not want to do military service because he is from a persecuted minority, that suffers bullying in the turkish army. He is now too old to be called up.
So I don't know what your other contributors are talking about.
I'm not sure though what the situation is if your hubby is still in Turkey now. I reckon he should be able to leave ok, he still has years to go before they might call him up. Best get him over here and apply for a UK passport as soon as possible. Unless he wants to do 2 years in the army? They're in Iraq at the moment :-(Can my husband leave Turkey and join me in the UK and return later to do his national service?
I think this up to Turkey. If the UK has granted him a visa then it is okay for him to enter (the UK doesn't care when he does his Turkish national service).
However, if the Turkish government demands he return and do national service, the UK will honour this request.
Coming to the UK is not a way to dodge Turkish law. So yes he can enter, and at anytime later within Turkish rules, he may return to do national service.
Yes he can go to UK and no he will not be deported to do military service but contrary to what someone else has put on here he will remain liable for national service even if he gets British passport .If he shows permanent residency in UK he can pay and do a one month spell in army which discharges his obligation .Many people have made multiple entries without problems then suddenly found themselves detained and in army.
He can go to the UK but if he ever attempts to return to Turkey they will put him in jail. They may take away his citizenship as well.
If Turkey manages to join the EU the UK may take away his status. NATO ties are still tight so it could happen either way. So basically even ten years from now he could have repercussions.
His choice and his gamble.
Oh NO!
Simple answer No
He must honour his military commitments and then when that is completed he can re -enter under the appropriate visa
Some people have been made to restart their immigration process all over again and others have had the process suspended until their commitment to the military was completed. Others were denied entry
He is a Turkish national and as such even if he was to enter UK as a spousal visa I can only tell you that the UK will deport him to honour his commitment to the armed forces of his country. If they are convinced that he is using his visa to avoid draft then they can and have rescinded settlement visas
The thing to remember he is that He is still a Turkish National and as such is still bound by his countries laws and military requirements.
See a solicitor that deals with immigration advise, check to see if you can have legal aid.
I hope all goes well for you both
EDIT 8pm UK Time
i did not read your question correctly I assumed your husband was already in UK I have ammended my answer. Sorry
Further EDIT
The UK Immigration laws all tightened up after 9/11 and further tightening since 7/7 bombings. Your husband has a settlemnt visa NOT a UK Citizship you need advice from the embassy if you do not then you both have to take your chances
After my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
If he is stationed somewhere before seeking an A school, let's say for 6 mo to a year, will I be allowed to move with him wherever he goes? Same for when he is in an A school...will I move where his school is or do I stay at home?After my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
He will go to A school firstAfter my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
you will stay home until he finishes bootcamp and A school. that means, the coastguard will not pay for moving you to his city where the a-school is located.
however. you are a civilian and a free citizen. you can move wherever you want to live. during A-school, he will not be able to live outside of the barracks, but he will have weekends to be with you.
he will go DIRECTLY from bootcamp to A-school.
After A-school, the coastguard will pay the expenses to move you and your stuff to wherever his duty assignment is located.
If he goes to a unit prior to ';A'; School, then you can move there. He will then attend ';A'; School TAD or on a temporary assignment - and unfortunately, you can't go with him (outside of visiting).
Once he graduates, he'll return to his home unit (with you) and then PCS to his next unit.
This is different than ALL the other services... they send you to ';A'; School right out of boot camp - we let you see what those people do prior to selling your soul to a rating you may not like.
The rules are that once you are at a certain phase he can move out of his dorm in tech school and live with you.
He will go to A school first. then after that you can move with him.
Your choice.
you are free to live where you want
He will go to A school firstAfter my husband finishes bootcamp for the coast guard, will I move with him where he is stationed?
you will stay home until he finishes bootcamp and A school. that means, the coastguard will not pay for moving you to his city where the a-school is located.
however. you are a civilian and a free citizen. you can move wherever you want to live. during A-school, he will not be able to live outside of the barracks, but he will have weekends to be with you.
he will go DIRECTLY from bootcamp to A-school.
After A-school, the coastguard will pay the expenses to move you and your stuff to wherever his duty assignment is located.
If he goes to a unit prior to ';A'; School, then you can move there. He will then attend ';A'; School TAD or on a temporary assignment - and unfortunately, you can't go with him (outside of visiting).
Once he graduates, he'll return to his home unit (with you) and then PCS to his next unit.
This is different than ALL the other services... they send you to ';A'; School right out of boot camp - we let you see what those people do prior to selling your soul to a rating you may not like.
The rules are that once you are at a certain phase he can move out of his dorm in tech school and live with you.
He will go to A school first. then after that you can move with him.
Your choice.
you are free to live where you want
What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?
My ex husband is remarried and now going through another divorce, but calls me for advice and help..What do I do?What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?
You may as well move back home and have mom and dad making your bed and feeding you pbj's too. Tell him to leave you the hell alone or you'll be in touch with the police so you can start a new life as he has. He sounds like a real dope you needed rid of...now tell him so and make it last.What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?
Tell him that you are sorry he is going thru the divorce but you dont feel comfortable having that type of relationship with him and ask him to please respect you and also your relationship.
If you dont have kids, dont take his calls. If you stop answering the calls, he will stop calling. If you have children, discuss only the children, period. Its really easy, you just have to be strong and stick by what you say to him.
do not talk to him
do not return his calls
do not email
text
or anything else
how hard is that to understand?
what part of ex o you not understand?
how are you supposed to move on with your life if you keep hanging on to your past?
just tell him the truth but don't be harsh, you can't just let him like basicly stalk you
or this would be really mean but you could always change your phone number or avoid his calls. but don't do that because that would be beyond mean
Restraining order. My sister had to go to court and get a restraining order against her ex husband because of violent threats and harrassment.
Tell him flat out that your marriage to him is over, that you've gone on with your life and he needs to find someone else to discuss his issues with. If that fails, go with the no contact order.
My advice is to remarry your ex-husband.
Tell him that you have moved on and you do not want to be contacted by him when anything goes wrong.Be firm with him.
File for a no contact order.
He has real boundary issues and needs to be put back into his place.
I would suggest that you avoid him.
Don't talk to him.
help him out for old times sake @!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You may as well move back home and have mom and dad making your bed and feeding you pbj's too. Tell him to leave you the hell alone or you'll be in touch with the police so you can start a new life as he has. He sounds like a real dope you needed rid of...now tell him so and make it last.What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?
Tell him that you are sorry he is going thru the divorce but you dont feel comfortable having that type of relationship with him and ask him to please respect you and also your relationship.
If you dont have kids, dont take his calls. If you stop answering the calls, he will stop calling. If you have children, discuss only the children, period. Its really easy, you just have to be strong and stick by what you say to him.
do not talk to him
do not return his calls
do not email
text
or anything else
how hard is that to understand?
what part of ex o you not understand?
how are you supposed to move on with your life if you keep hanging on to your past?
just tell him the truth but don't be harsh, you can't just let him like basicly stalk you
or this would be really mean but you could always change your phone number or avoid his calls. but don't do that because that would be beyond mean
Restraining order. My sister had to go to court and get a restraining order against her ex husband because of violent threats and harrassment.
Tell him flat out that your marriage to him is over, that you've gone on with your life and he needs to find someone else to discuss his issues with. If that fails, go with the no contact order.
My advice is to remarry your ex-husband.
Tell him that you have moved on and you do not want to be contacted by him when anything goes wrong.Be firm with him.
File for a no contact order.
He has real boundary issues and needs to be put back into his place.
I would suggest that you avoid him.
Don't talk to him.
help him out for old times sake @!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How would you pronounce Koen since me and my husband are having a debate?
Let me know your thoughts?How would you pronounce Koen since me and my husband are having a debate?
Cohen--Ko, rhymes with flow and say the letter ';N'; at the end. Koen.How would you pronounce Koen since me and my husband are having a debate?
koe-in
Like the surname Cohen.
I dont see how people mix Koen with Cone since the E is before the N to make EN I think koen looks fine, just make sure people know so they dont mis read it
CO-IN
I wish I could use the IPA phonemic alphabet for this, but the closest approximation is: KOH-uhn.
We're pretty sure we're naming our son Cohen (due in May). I would pronounce it the same way as that, however I don't care for the spelling. We thought about Coen/Koen/Kohen spellings too, but decided we liked the regular Cohen best so people would pronounce it corretly and are somewhat familiar with it. If you like the K, I'd just spell it Kohen.
Koe-in
Co-en
Ko-wen
Ko-in
Cohen
Hmmm. I think most people will pronounce it Koh-enn. But my German last name has an OE in it that's pronounced like a long A, so I'm going to say I'd pronounce it ';Cane.';
Co-in
If you and your husband are debating this now, think how his friends/teachers/mentors are going to feel later in life.
it could be pronounced (Ken - silent O), (Con -pronounced with a K, and a silent E), or just plain (Cone - prounounced with a K). People, use so much different spellings now a days and it just a simpl word where they have thrown in an extra letter or different spelling, same pronounciation, to make it look different from someone else (ex: Karen, and Caryn ) I think they both are pronounced the same, just spelled differently.
Kane simply because I wouldn't think about someone having a first name pronounced KOE in, I would assume that it was just a creative spelling of Kane/Cain
Pretty much just like it's spelled...';co-en';.
Keen
Sounds like Co-ehn to me
Spell it ';Ko-en ';;allow the hyphen to be part of the name, it will be different,..and pronounced correctly.
Since the origin of the name Koen is Dutch,
I think you'd like to pronounce this name in the Dutch way.
You can hear it here :
http://www.acapela-group.com/text-to-spe…
Use the Dutch Femke voice : she pronounces it correctly.
And...look here :
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
:-)
Hope this helps, and good luck!
when i saw your question i thought ';cohen';....but after reading these ppls pronunciations, ';kane'; would be cool.
but i think you would have to correct alot of ppl to make sure they say it right....just go with ';Bob';.
I say ko-en.
Porsche: Por-sh or Por-shuh, Van Go or Van Goff?
The more correct pronunciation for koen is ';kwuh-aan';.
I would pronounce it ko-en.....I like it better w/ an ';h';
like Cohen..or Kohen...
Just like it looks COHEN, I think?
like how you would pronounce co-en
coe-n
Ko-En.. not cone is how I see it. But I prefer the H. and C.
Cohen.
Cohen--Ko, rhymes with flow and say the letter ';N'; at the end. Koen.How would you pronounce Koen since me and my husband are having a debate?
koe-in
Like the surname Cohen.
I dont see how people mix Koen with Cone since the E is before the N to make EN I think koen looks fine, just make sure people know so they dont mis read it
CO-IN
I wish I could use the IPA phonemic alphabet for this, but the closest approximation is: KOH-uhn.
We're pretty sure we're naming our son Cohen (due in May). I would pronounce it the same way as that, however I don't care for the spelling. We thought about Coen/Koen/Kohen spellings too, but decided we liked the regular Cohen best so people would pronounce it corretly and are somewhat familiar with it. If you like the K, I'd just spell it Kohen.
Koe-in
Co-en
Ko-wen
Ko-in
Cohen
Hmmm. I think most people will pronounce it Koh-enn. But my German last name has an OE in it that's pronounced like a long A, so I'm going to say I'd pronounce it ';Cane.';
Co-in
If you and your husband are debating this now, think how his friends/teachers/mentors are going to feel later in life.
it could be pronounced (Ken - silent O), (Con -pronounced with a K, and a silent E), or just plain (Cone - prounounced with a K). People, use so much different spellings now a days and it just a simpl word where they have thrown in an extra letter or different spelling, same pronounciation, to make it look different from someone else (ex: Karen, and Caryn ) I think they both are pronounced the same, just spelled differently.
Kane simply because I wouldn't think about someone having a first name pronounced KOE in, I would assume that it was just a creative spelling of Kane/Cain
Pretty much just like it's spelled...';co-en';.
Keen
Sounds like Co-ehn to me
Spell it ';Ko-en ';;allow the hyphen to be part of the name, it will be different,..and pronounced correctly.
Since the origin of the name Koen is Dutch,
I think you'd like to pronounce this name in the Dutch way.
You can hear it here :
http://www.acapela-group.com/text-to-spe…
Use the Dutch Femke voice : she pronounces it correctly.
And...look here :
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
:-)
Hope this helps, and good luck!
when i saw your question i thought ';cohen';....but after reading these ppls pronunciations, ';kane'; would be cool.
but i think you would have to correct alot of ppl to make sure they say it right....just go with ';Bob';.
I say ko-en.
Porsche: Por-sh or Por-shuh, Van Go or Van Goff?
The more correct pronunciation for koen is ';kwuh-aan';.
I would pronounce it ko-en.....I like it better w/ an ';h';
like Cohen..or Kohen...
Just like it looks COHEN, I think?
like how you would pronounce co-en
coe-n
Ko-En.. not cone is how I see it. But I prefer the H. and C.
Cohen.
Do i have to have work to petition my husband for his green card?
I am a US citizen and i want to petition my husband, currently enjoying being a stay at home mom. If i petition for my husband my mom plans to provide for the Affidavit of Support (as a co-sponsor) so that means i have to go back to work too right?Do i have to have work to petition my husband for his green card?
No, you don't have to get a job just to file an affidavit of support. You must and can provide an affidavit, even if you have no income at all. If you don't make enough to support him on your own, you can use one or more joint sponsors. Each of you must provide an I-864. As long as the total income among all of you adds up to enough to support yourselves and him at at leat 125% of the basic poverty level, the income qualifies.moisturizing cream eye make up
No, you don't have to get a job just to file an affidavit of support. You must and can provide an affidavit, even if you have no income at all. If you don't make enough to support him on your own, you can use one or more joint sponsors. Each of you must provide an I-864. As long as the total income among all of you adds up to enough to support yourselves and him at at leat 125% of the basic poverty level, the income qualifies.
Biblical Parable about a wife that leaves and the husband excepts her back and forgives her for infidelity?
I thought that there was a parable about a wife who leaves her husband and goes off into the world and becomes consumed with sin and infidelity, and when she is broken, week and desolate, he takes her back. Does any one know where to find the scripture of this story?Biblical Parable about a wife that leaves and the husband excepts her back and forgives her for infidelity?
it wasnt a wife
it was about a son who asked his father for his portion of wealth and left then after spending all he came back to his father house who forgave him and took him backBiblical Parable about a wife that leaves and the husband excepts her back and forgives her for infidelity?
It is the account of the Old Testament prophet Hosea and his harlot wife, Gomer (wonderful name for a woman, by the way). God told Hosea to marry her and to take her back when she disgraced herself. This was to illustrate to Israel the relationship God had with them. He had bought them by bringing them out of Egypt. They were no longer slaves, but loved like a husband loves his wife. Also, it showed that, even though Israel had sold itself back into idolatrous slavery, God was still willing to buy them back. It really is a beautiful story to show how love means forgiveness.
One of the early writing prophets, Hosea used his own marital experience as a symbolic representation of God and Israel: God the husband, Israel the wife. Hosea's wife left him to go with other men; Israel left the Lord to go with other gods. Hosea searched for his wife, found her and brought her back; God would not abandon Israel and brought them back even though they had forsaken him.
think you have it confused with the prodigal son who takes his inheritance leaves spends it and does other things. Then he comes back and the father kills the fattened calf and has a feast to celebrate that his son came back
That's the central subject of the book of Hosea. It's not a parable; parables are not real stories and do not use proper names. Hosea's marriage was, however, symbolic of God for His people.
Yes, Hosea gives a description which is an anolog of God's people leaving God and becoming unfaithful , and yet God forgives them when they return.
Not in the Bible.
But it is in the Bible that infidelity is the only reason for a divorce. That should tell us that God does not like cheating between spouses.
It's not a parable.
It's what the book of Hosea is all about. The wife's name is Gomer.
You know i thought the point of that story was to uplift people. Why on Earth would you want one to do just the oppisite.
You may be referring to Gomer the wife of Hosea.
To understand more fully the connection between Hosea’s domestic affairs and Israel’s relationship with Jehovah, consider these words: “Jehovah went on to say to me: ‘Go once again, love a woman loved by a companion and committing adultery.’” (Hosea 3:1) Hosea complied with this command by repurchasing Gomer from the man with whom she had been living. Afterward, Hosea firmly admonished his wife: “For many days you will dwell as mine. You must not commit fornication, and you must not come to belong to another man.” (Hosea 3:2, 3) Gomer responded to the discipline, and Hosea renewed marital relations with her. How did this apply to God’s dealings with the people of Israel and Judah?
While exiles from Israel and Judah were captives in Babylon, God used his prophets to ‘speak to their heart.’ To receive divine mercy, his people had to manifest repentance and go back to their Husbandly Owner, as Gomer had returned to her husband. Then Jehovah would take his disciplined wifelike nation out of the Babylonian “wilderness” and bring her back to Judah and Jerusalem. (Hosea 2:14, 15) He fulfilled that promise in 537 B.C.E.
God also fulfilled this promise: “I shall certainly conclude a covenant in that day in connection with the wild beast of the field and with the flying creature of the heavens and the creeping thing of the ground, and the bow and the sword and war I shall break out of the land, and I will make them lie down in security.” (Hosea 2:18) The Jewish remnant who returned to their homeland lived in security, with nothing to fear from animals. This prophecy also had a fulfillment in 1919 C.E., when the remnant of spiritual Israel was freed from “Babylon the Great,” the world empire of false religion. They now dwell in security and enjoy life in a spiritual paradise with their companions, who hope to live forever on earth. Animalistic traits do not exist among these true Christians.—Revelation 14:8; Isaiah 11:6-9; Galatians 6:16.
Take the Lessons to Heart
God is merciful and compassionate, and that is how we should be. That is one lesson taught by the early chapters of Hosea. (Hosea 1:6, 7; 2:23) God’s willingness to extend mercy to repentant Israelites is in harmony with the inspired proverb: “He that is covering over his transgressions will not succeed, but he that is confessing and leaving them will be shown mercy.” (Proverbs 28:13) Also comforting to repentant wrongdoers are the psalmist’s words: “The sacrifices to God are a broken spirit; a heart broken and crushed, O God, you will not despise.”—Psalm 51:17.
Hosea’s prophecy highlights the compassion and mercy of the God we worship. Even if some deviate from his righteous ways, they can repent and turn around. If they do, Jehovah welcomes them. He showed mercy to repentant members of the nation of Israel, with which he had entered a figurative marriage. Though they disobeyed Jehovah and ‘pained the Holy One of Israel, he was merciful and kept remembering that they were flesh.’ (Psalm 78:38-41) Such mercy should move us to keep walking with our compassionate God, Jehovah.
No such parable.
You have mixed at least three quotes together to make one.
There is the story about the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32], who took his fathers money, left, spent it on lewdness and drunkenness, and then begged his fathers forgiveness when he came home. Of course, the father fully forgave him, which pissed of his brother!
I think you are right in thinking that this story applies to such a situation, but what needs to be understood is the REPENTENCE involved. That young man fully admitted his mistakes; he admitted them to his father AND TO GOD. The young man ';came to his senses';, which means that he was out of his mind to do what he did!
the point of the story is that God is willing to forgive us and accept us back IF we approach him with a repentant heart. And any man who tries to live a godly life MUST also forgive and accept his wayward wife IF she approaches him with a truly repentant heart.
[Repentance: being so very very VERY sorry for your sin that you will NEVER do that again!]
Paul makes some heavy statements to those married to unbelieving spouses:
[1 Corinthians 7:12-15]
“... If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances”
It is clear from this passage that in the case of a broken marriage, the ONE WHO LEAVES is the unbeliever.
and the famous
[Mark 10:11-12]
';Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.';
it wasnt a wife
it was about a son who asked his father for his portion of wealth and left then after spending all he came back to his father house who forgave him and took him backBiblical Parable about a wife that leaves and the husband excepts her back and forgives her for infidelity?
It is the account of the Old Testament prophet Hosea and his harlot wife, Gomer (wonderful name for a woman, by the way). God told Hosea to marry her and to take her back when she disgraced herself. This was to illustrate to Israel the relationship God had with them. He had bought them by bringing them out of Egypt. They were no longer slaves, but loved like a husband loves his wife. Also, it showed that, even though Israel had sold itself back into idolatrous slavery, God was still willing to buy them back. It really is a beautiful story to show how love means forgiveness.
One of the early writing prophets, Hosea used his own marital experience as a symbolic representation of God and Israel: God the husband, Israel the wife. Hosea's wife left him to go with other men; Israel left the Lord to go with other gods. Hosea searched for his wife, found her and brought her back; God would not abandon Israel and brought them back even though they had forsaken him.
think you have it confused with the prodigal son who takes his inheritance leaves spends it and does other things. Then he comes back and the father kills the fattened calf and has a feast to celebrate that his son came back
That's the central subject of the book of Hosea. It's not a parable; parables are not real stories and do not use proper names. Hosea's marriage was, however, symbolic of God for His people.
Yes, Hosea gives a description which is an anolog of God's people leaving God and becoming unfaithful , and yet God forgives them when they return.
Not in the Bible.
But it is in the Bible that infidelity is the only reason for a divorce. That should tell us that God does not like cheating between spouses.
It's not a parable.
It's what the book of Hosea is all about. The wife's name is Gomer.
You know i thought the point of that story was to uplift people. Why on Earth would you want one to do just the oppisite.
You may be referring to Gomer the wife of Hosea.
To understand more fully the connection between Hosea’s domestic affairs and Israel’s relationship with Jehovah, consider these words: “Jehovah went on to say to me: ‘Go once again, love a woman loved by a companion and committing adultery.’” (Hosea 3:1) Hosea complied with this command by repurchasing Gomer from the man with whom she had been living. Afterward, Hosea firmly admonished his wife: “For many days you will dwell as mine. You must not commit fornication, and you must not come to belong to another man.” (Hosea 3:2, 3) Gomer responded to the discipline, and Hosea renewed marital relations with her. How did this apply to God’s dealings with the people of Israel and Judah?
While exiles from Israel and Judah were captives in Babylon, God used his prophets to ‘speak to their heart.’ To receive divine mercy, his people had to manifest repentance and go back to their Husbandly Owner, as Gomer had returned to her husband. Then Jehovah would take his disciplined wifelike nation out of the Babylonian “wilderness” and bring her back to Judah and Jerusalem. (Hosea 2:14, 15) He fulfilled that promise in 537 B.C.E.
God also fulfilled this promise: “I shall certainly conclude a covenant in that day in connection with the wild beast of the field and with the flying creature of the heavens and the creeping thing of the ground, and the bow and the sword and war I shall break out of the land, and I will make them lie down in security.” (Hosea 2:18) The Jewish remnant who returned to their homeland lived in security, with nothing to fear from animals. This prophecy also had a fulfillment in 1919 C.E., when the remnant of spiritual Israel was freed from “Babylon the Great,” the world empire of false religion. They now dwell in security and enjoy life in a spiritual paradise with their companions, who hope to live forever on earth. Animalistic traits do not exist among these true Christians.—Revelation 14:8; Isaiah 11:6-9; Galatians 6:16.
Take the Lessons to Heart
God is merciful and compassionate, and that is how we should be. That is one lesson taught by the early chapters of Hosea. (Hosea 1:6, 7; 2:23) God’s willingness to extend mercy to repentant Israelites is in harmony with the inspired proverb: “He that is covering over his transgressions will not succeed, but he that is confessing and leaving them will be shown mercy.” (Proverbs 28:13) Also comforting to repentant wrongdoers are the psalmist’s words: “The sacrifices to God are a broken spirit; a heart broken and crushed, O God, you will not despise.”—Psalm 51:17.
Hosea’s prophecy highlights the compassion and mercy of the God we worship. Even if some deviate from his righteous ways, they can repent and turn around. If they do, Jehovah welcomes them. He showed mercy to repentant members of the nation of Israel, with which he had entered a figurative marriage. Though they disobeyed Jehovah and ‘pained the Holy One of Israel, he was merciful and kept remembering that they were flesh.’ (Psalm 78:38-41) Such mercy should move us to keep walking with our compassionate God, Jehovah.
No such parable.
You have mixed at least three quotes together to make one.
There is the story about the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32], who took his fathers money, left, spent it on lewdness and drunkenness, and then begged his fathers forgiveness when he came home. Of course, the father fully forgave him, which pissed of his brother!
I think you are right in thinking that this story applies to such a situation, but what needs to be understood is the REPENTENCE involved. That young man fully admitted his mistakes; he admitted them to his father AND TO GOD. The young man ';came to his senses';, which means that he was out of his mind to do what he did!
the point of the story is that God is willing to forgive us and accept us back IF we approach him with a repentant heart. And any man who tries to live a godly life MUST also forgive and accept his wayward wife IF she approaches him with a truly repentant heart.
[Repentance: being so very very VERY sorry for your sin that you will NEVER do that again!]
Paul makes some heavy statements to those married to unbelieving spouses:
[1 Corinthians 7:12-15]
“... If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances”
It is clear from this passage that in the case of a broken marriage, the ONE WHO LEAVES is the unbeliever.
and the famous
[Mark 10:11-12]
';Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.';
Did your husband do anything really weird while he was dealing with becoming a father?
Mine started threatening to run off overseas on us, but he got over it and now I realize that he was just freaking out over becoming a father. Did anyone else have a husband or boyfriend that exhibited bizarre behavior when you were pregnant?Did your husband do anything really weird while he was dealing with becoming a father?
He keeps saying that he is worried once the baby is born I won't love him as much and that I will love the baby more than him and totally forget about him. So far he has been really scared but I've been trying to include him in this as well. I tell him that this week the baby is ___ long and is growing this body part. I save pictures from web sites like baby center or baby zone on to my iPod and show him what the baby looks like this week. He has been getting a little more excited every week.Did your husband do anything really weird while he was dealing with becoming a father?
My boyfriend has a 6 year old from a previous marriage. When I was pregnant he became kind of distant from me and seemed to worry a lot that his older daughter would feel left out because they didn't keep a baby book or keepsakes from her birth or early childhood. To help ease his anxiety I started a scrapbook for his daughter (whom we have full time and I love like my own), and I started a memory journal/childhood book.
He also didn't get excited until literally the week before our daughter was born. It drove me nuts because it was my first baby and I'd tell him things like ';She's doing somersaults in there!'; or ';She has the hiccups!'; and he'd bring up what happened during his ex-wife's pregnancy. It made me feel very insecure and like my baby would never be as good as his first daughter. However, I now realize it was just his concern about his older daughter feeling forgotten.
Since our daughter was born in April he's come to realize that there really isn't a distinction for me. They are both my daughters and I will always do what I can to make sure my step-daughter feels just as loved and important as her little sister.
I got pregnant right before my husband got deployed, I didn't know until he was already gone. While he was deployed, he was just as loving, caring, and supportive as he was before he left. By the time he got home, I was almost 8 months along. I think it kinda scared him since he went from seeing me to seeing me with a huge baby bump. Once he got home, he was still loving and supportive, but he also became ultra protective and clingy. He was constantly being nosy and asking me questions. It was like my being pregnant was going to somehow change me and ruin our relationship.
I think if he had been there the whole pregnancy, he would have been ok. But having to adjust to a big change in a short amount of time kinda messed with his head. Once the baby was born, he went back to how he used to be....and he's a great dad. :)
My husband just acted not excited and if I talked about baby stuff he would just roll his eyes and act like he didnt care.. JUst wait until your baby gets here, my husband changed completely and became the baby hog. lol Which is a good thing.
When I was 5 months pregnant with my first I discovered emails between my husband and another woman. I almost left him over that and the girl and him both got a very nice threat of bodily harm :)
well mine just always thinks i dont love him cuz im crabby as hell lol
He keeps saying that he is worried once the baby is born I won't love him as much and that I will love the baby more than him and totally forget about him. So far he has been really scared but I've been trying to include him in this as well. I tell him that this week the baby is ___ long and is growing this body part. I save pictures from web sites like baby center or baby zone on to my iPod and show him what the baby looks like this week. He has been getting a little more excited every week.Did your husband do anything really weird while he was dealing with becoming a father?
My boyfriend has a 6 year old from a previous marriage. When I was pregnant he became kind of distant from me and seemed to worry a lot that his older daughter would feel left out because they didn't keep a baby book or keepsakes from her birth or early childhood. To help ease his anxiety I started a scrapbook for his daughter (whom we have full time and I love like my own), and I started a memory journal/childhood book.
He also didn't get excited until literally the week before our daughter was born. It drove me nuts because it was my first baby and I'd tell him things like ';She's doing somersaults in there!'; or ';She has the hiccups!'; and he'd bring up what happened during his ex-wife's pregnancy. It made me feel very insecure and like my baby would never be as good as his first daughter. However, I now realize it was just his concern about his older daughter feeling forgotten.
Since our daughter was born in April he's come to realize that there really isn't a distinction for me. They are both my daughters and I will always do what I can to make sure my step-daughter feels just as loved and important as her little sister.
I got pregnant right before my husband got deployed, I didn't know until he was already gone. While he was deployed, he was just as loving, caring, and supportive as he was before he left. By the time he got home, I was almost 8 months along. I think it kinda scared him since he went from seeing me to seeing me with a huge baby bump. Once he got home, he was still loving and supportive, but he also became ultra protective and clingy. He was constantly being nosy and asking me questions. It was like my being pregnant was going to somehow change me and ruin our relationship.
I think if he had been there the whole pregnancy, he would have been ok. But having to adjust to a big change in a short amount of time kinda messed with his head. Once the baby was born, he went back to how he used to be....and he's a great dad. :)
My husband just acted not excited and if I talked about baby stuff he would just roll his eyes and act like he didnt care.. JUst wait until your baby gets here, my husband changed completely and became the baby hog. lol Which is a good thing.
When I was 5 months pregnant with my first I discovered emails between my husband and another woman. I almost left him over that and the girl and him both got a very nice threat of bodily harm :)
well mine just always thinks i dont love him cuz im crabby as hell lol
Okay i know this sounds crazy but yea my husband is coming home friday the 13th from an business trip?
okay i know this sounds crazy but yea my husband is coming home friday the 13th from an business trip?Okay i know this sounds crazy but yea my husband is coming home friday the 13th from an business trip?
That's good .... just as long as he doesn't fly on Saturday the 14th..... it's bad luck.Okay i know this sounds crazy but yea my husband is coming home friday the 13th from an business trip?
Friday the 13 isnt unlucky unless you make it unlucky. Many people think that it is but it is just based on your beliefs.
If he's coming back February 13th, March 13th or November 13 then yes he is coming back on Friday the 13th. Otherwise, no, he is not coming back Friday the 13th.
yes the answer is yes!
at least he still comes back.
Do you have a question?
and your question is
That's good .... just as long as he doesn't fly on Saturday the 14th..... it's bad luck.Okay i know this sounds crazy but yea my husband is coming home friday the 13th from an business trip?
Friday the 13 isnt unlucky unless you make it unlucky. Many people think that it is but it is just based on your beliefs.
If he's coming back February 13th, March 13th or November 13 then yes he is coming back on Friday the 13th. Otherwise, no, he is not coming back Friday the 13th.
yes the answer is yes!
at least he still comes back.
Do you have a question?
and your question is
What is the BEST drug rehabilitation clinic for my husband to go to?
My husband has been struggling with a drug problem for about 2 years. He was addicted to cocaine and eventually starting mixing it with Heroine. Now he is Finally ready for help but he wants to keep it confidential and he is looking for an alternative to 12 step programs and an alternative to narconon. We are atheists and would prefer a NON religious drug treatment center. can anyone tell us where to get more information about this?
Thank you for your time.What is the BEST drug rehabilitation clinic for my husband to go to?
Good luck finding a rehab that isn't 12 step based!
I'm an atheist in recovery as well!
I use the N/A program without the whole ';god'; thing!
Think of ';god'; as good orderly direction!
That's what I did/do and have managed to stay clean and sober for almost 4yrs now!
Email me if you like!
No matter what you decide good luck to you both! Its not an easy road to tackle at first but with time and a clear mind its an amazing journey! Continued support is necessary to make it - you don't just do 28 days rehab and assume all is well!
Edit: Merlin Bravo! Had no clue too bad its in Malibu!What is the BEST drug rehabilitation clinic for my husband to go to?
My husband is an atheist and follows the 12 step program leaving out God where they insert it...many addicts will use that as their excuse not to attend and try the program. There are also atheist branches of the 12 step program out there - you'll have to check in your area to see if there are any.
In any case - my husband fought it the first two times he tried (and failed) sobriety but then decided to surrender himself to the program (minus the God part) and it's been better...
My point is - change God to whatever you need to in order to work the program. BOTH OF YOU. You need to make sure you get help for you too...
I personally recommend Eaton Canyon Center. They accept anyone who is willing to change for the better. They have exceptional and effective treatment programs for long time sobriety. They also have treatment scholarship for individuals that can't afford drug treatment.
New Method Wellness offers a discreet but personalized drug treatment program. The plans are always medically supervised and focus on family therapy and sober living which will help your husband transition to a drug-free life again. Good luck with everything!
www.theaddictioncure.com
I FIRST COMMEND YOU on your desire of getting clean! I am a recovering alcoholic of 19 yrs. %26amp; could NOT have done it w/o the help of AA. I also was married to an alcoholic %26amp; went to Alanon along w/AA. This to was a GREAT help to me living w/someone who did NOT take the program as serious as I did. Yes, I did ';bounce'; in %26amp; out a few times, but it was w/the tho't that IF I drink w/him, he would NOT cheat on me w/the girls he did who drank. WRONG MOVE!!! It did NO good as he cheated regardless. That's when I got serious about MY OWN sobriety %26amp; STAYING sober for ME %26amp; NO ONE ELSE. He went to numerous short term detoxes %26amp; also numerous 30 day programs, none of which worked for him. I did it ALL thru AA. These programs are ALL anonymous %26amp; you do NOT have to worry about anyone ';telling'; who goes to these mtgs. or who is in what program. As someone mentioned, there IS a 12 step program that goes along w/the recovery. It does state you CAN use ';whatever/whoever'; for YOUR choice of a ';higher power';. Just something/someone you can believe in that would be of help to YOU/HIM. So don't let that deter him from the program. You could call the 800# under alcohol in the yellow pages, %26amp; they w/be more than happy to help ans. any %26amp; ALL questions you have. They WILL steer you in the rite direction for the help he needs. IF he is SERIOUS about honestly wanting to quit, there is NO reason why it w/not work for him. I have NOT tho't of taking a drink in the whole 19 yrs. I've been sober. I did however ask God to TAKE AWAY THE DESIRE to drink this last time I got ';serious'; about quitting. I hurt my 3 children w/my drinking %26amp; was beginning to hurt my 2 young grandchildren too. I KNEW I had to do something SERIOUS about it. My daughter wrote me a letter I WILL keep forever as that was the last thing that got thru to my ';guilt'; of drinking. She told me she was NOT going to call me anymore after a certain time of the day as she KNEW I was drunk %26amp; it hurt her too much to hear me talk to her in that frame of mind. Addicted people carry a LOT of guilt around w/them. THIS did get to my guilt. I KNEW I had to do something about it THEN. I have read %26amp; reread that letter over MANY times over the yrs. That letter means the world to me, my children are so happy to have their mother back, I can be a loving grandmother to my grandchild...We recently lost one in a car accident at the age of 14. This was a devastating loss to ALL of the family, %26amp; my son %26amp; family w/NEVER be the same because of it. I am just SO GRATEFUL I was able to be there for all of them even tho I too was going thru my own grief. Even going thru that, a drink NEVER entered my mind! I suggest you call that 800# %26amp; trust you CAN get the help you need %26amp; want. Sorry I got carried away a bit. But it's just SO GREAT to be sober %26amp; I KNOW he %26amp; you WILL feel the SAME exact way I do....I certainly do wish you ALL THE BEST...:)
Thank you for your time.What is the BEST drug rehabilitation clinic for my husband to go to?
Good luck finding a rehab that isn't 12 step based!
I'm an atheist in recovery as well!
I use the N/A program without the whole ';god'; thing!
Think of ';god'; as good orderly direction!
That's what I did/do and have managed to stay clean and sober for almost 4yrs now!
Email me if you like!
No matter what you decide good luck to you both! Its not an easy road to tackle at first but with time and a clear mind its an amazing journey! Continued support is necessary to make it - you don't just do 28 days rehab and assume all is well!
Edit: Merlin Bravo! Had no clue too bad its in Malibu!What is the BEST drug rehabilitation clinic for my husband to go to?
My husband is an atheist and follows the 12 step program leaving out God where they insert it...many addicts will use that as their excuse not to attend and try the program. There are also atheist branches of the 12 step program out there - you'll have to check in your area to see if there are any.
In any case - my husband fought it the first two times he tried (and failed) sobriety but then decided to surrender himself to the program (minus the God part) and it's been better...
My point is - change God to whatever you need to in order to work the program. BOTH OF YOU. You need to make sure you get help for you too...
I personally recommend Eaton Canyon Center. They accept anyone who is willing to change for the better. They have exceptional and effective treatment programs for long time sobriety. They also have treatment scholarship for individuals that can't afford drug treatment.
New Method Wellness offers a discreet but personalized drug treatment program. The plans are always medically supervised and focus on family therapy and sober living which will help your husband transition to a drug-free life again. Good luck with everything!
www.theaddictioncure.com
I FIRST COMMEND YOU on your desire of getting clean! I am a recovering alcoholic of 19 yrs. %26amp; could NOT have done it w/o the help of AA. I also was married to an alcoholic %26amp; went to Alanon along w/AA. This to was a GREAT help to me living w/someone who did NOT take the program as serious as I did. Yes, I did ';bounce'; in %26amp; out a few times, but it was w/the tho't that IF I drink w/him, he would NOT cheat on me w/the girls he did who drank. WRONG MOVE!!! It did NO good as he cheated regardless. That's when I got serious about MY OWN sobriety %26amp; STAYING sober for ME %26amp; NO ONE ELSE. He went to numerous short term detoxes %26amp; also numerous 30 day programs, none of which worked for him. I did it ALL thru AA. These programs are ALL anonymous %26amp; you do NOT have to worry about anyone ';telling'; who goes to these mtgs. or who is in what program. As someone mentioned, there IS a 12 step program that goes along w/the recovery. It does state you CAN use ';whatever/whoever'; for YOUR choice of a ';higher power';. Just something/someone you can believe in that would be of help to YOU/HIM. So don't let that deter him from the program. You could call the 800# under alcohol in the yellow pages, %26amp; they w/be more than happy to help ans. any %26amp; ALL questions you have. They WILL steer you in the rite direction for the help he needs. IF he is SERIOUS about honestly wanting to quit, there is NO reason why it w/not work for him. I have NOT tho't of taking a drink in the whole 19 yrs. I've been sober. I did however ask God to TAKE AWAY THE DESIRE to drink this last time I got ';serious'; about quitting. I hurt my 3 children w/my drinking %26amp; was beginning to hurt my 2 young grandchildren too. I KNEW I had to do something SERIOUS about it. My daughter wrote me a letter I WILL keep forever as that was the last thing that got thru to my ';guilt'; of drinking. She told me she was NOT going to call me anymore after a certain time of the day as she KNEW I was drunk %26amp; it hurt her too much to hear me talk to her in that frame of mind. Addicted people carry a LOT of guilt around w/them. THIS did get to my guilt. I KNEW I had to do something about it THEN. I have read %26amp; reread that letter over MANY times over the yrs. That letter means the world to me, my children are so happy to have their mother back, I can be a loving grandmother to my grandchild...We recently lost one in a car accident at the age of 14. This was a devastating loss to ALL of the family, %26amp; my son %26amp; family w/NEVER be the same because of it. I am just SO GRATEFUL I was able to be there for all of them even tho I too was going thru my own grief. Even going thru that, a drink NEVER entered my mind! I suggest you call that 800# %26amp; trust you CAN get the help you need %26amp; want. Sorry I got carried away a bit. But it's just SO GREAT to be sober %26amp; I KNOW he %26amp; you WILL feel the SAME exact way I do....I certainly do wish you ALL THE BEST...:)
Where on line can I identify fish that my husband has caught?
My husband has recently taken up sea fishing and takes pictures of his fish that he catches so that we can identify them when he gets home. I have only one site that I have used but it does not have the last two fish he caught on there. Does anyone know of any other sites that we can use that has a vast data base?Where on line can I identify fish that my husband has caught?
landbigfish.com
has every fish imaginable in UK, US and every other waters that are fishable.
GoodluckWhere on line can I identify fish that my husband has caught?
Try the web-site 'allthingspiscatorial'
Where have you looked? Try this link:
http://www.tropicalfishfinder.co.uk/fish鈥?/a>
http://www.practicalfishkeeping.co.uk/pf鈥?/a>
hth
google.com
AMAZON.CO.UK - where you can buy this excellent book on identifying everything that swims in British water:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0276425081/re鈥?/a>
Currently only one left up for grabs @ 拢6.49
What do the fish look like?
There are several factors to take into account when identifying fish.
Flat or round?
Shape of the tail.
The shape and arrangement of the fins.
The shape of the mouth and the teeth.
Obviously the colour and any markings.
Location of the catch. Estuary, rocks, deep/shallow water.
Time of year.
Try www.amonline.net.au/fishes.
In many chipshops they have a poster on the wall with pictures of dozens of them. And then theres the library...
hi!
check out these links! ; )
http://www.sea-ex.com/fishphotos/mackere鈥?/a>
http://www.intute.ac.uk/socialsciences/c鈥?/a>
I think maybe the library is best bet tho..
Tight lines!
Go to ....nature-discovery.com for fish and wildlife ID charts.
That could be the problem, with global warming we're getting unusual fish so look further afield
landbigfish.com
has every fish imaginable in UK, US and every other waters that are fishable.
GoodluckWhere on line can I identify fish that my husband has caught?
Try the web-site 'allthingspiscatorial'
Where have you looked? Try this link:
http://www.tropicalfishfinder.co.uk/fish鈥?/a>
http://www.practicalfishkeeping.co.uk/pf鈥?/a>
hth
google.com
AMAZON.CO.UK - where you can buy this excellent book on identifying everything that swims in British water:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0276425081/re鈥?/a>
Currently only one left up for grabs @ 拢6.49
What do the fish look like?
There are several factors to take into account when identifying fish.
Flat or round?
Shape of the tail.
The shape and arrangement of the fins.
The shape of the mouth and the teeth.
Obviously the colour and any markings.
Location of the catch. Estuary, rocks, deep/shallow water.
Time of year.
Try www.amonline.net.au/fishes.
In many chipshops they have a poster on the wall with pictures of dozens of them. And then theres the library...
hi!
check out these links! ; )
http://www.sea-ex.com/fishphotos/mackere鈥?/a>
http://www.intute.ac.uk/socialsciences/c鈥?/a>
I think maybe the library is best bet tho..
Tight lines!
Go to ....nature-discovery.com for fish and wildlife ID charts.
That could be the problem, with global warming we're getting unusual fish so look further afield
My future husband's status in Germany is asylumseeker and we would like to move together.?
What do we need to do for him to be able to leave his area and come to my area?? I am a british citizen born in Germany I have a fulltime job and my own apartment. We want to move together and planning to get married end of next year. Anybody here that can help us wit information?My future husband's status in Germany is asylumseeker and we would like to move together.?
Its best to look for advice from a specialised in Rechtsanwalt for Ausl盲nderrecht %26amp; Asylrecht. There is always the possibility to apply to change the zone from where he is staying at the moment , to a zone of your area. That is if he is in a Village he can move to the city. In the city sometimes they are rented apartments by the state. If he stays with you, the state could pay you.. There many issues to consider.
otherwise you may have to wait until next year when you marry the he will get a different type of Resident permitlesbians lipstick eye make up
Its best to look for advice from a specialised in Rechtsanwalt for Ausl盲nderrecht %26amp; Asylrecht. There is always the possibility to apply to change the zone from where he is staying at the moment , to a zone of your area. That is if he is in a Village he can move to the city. In the city sometimes they are rented apartments by the state. If he stays with you, the state could pay you.. There many issues to consider.
otherwise you may have to wait until next year when you marry the he will get a different type of Resident permit
Ok, if I should avoid, my friend's flirting husband, any suggestions on how to handle a group vacation?
I agree, I should not say anything to my friend. Should I tell my husband or just try to handle it myself first?Ok, if I should avoid, my friend's flirting husband, any suggestions on how to handle a group vacation?
I would try to handle it first and if that doesn't work i would tell my husband. Good Luck!Ok, if I should avoid, my friend's flirting husband, any suggestions on how to handle a group vacation?
YES....tell your husband. You must take care of this before the vacation...... Does he flirt with everyone or just you? Tell him you are happily married %26amp; you don't apprecaite him flirting with you .If that does not work tell his wife.I am sure your husband can make him STOP. Never ever ever keep anything from your husband no matter how small you think it is !
Good Luck %26amp; I hope this helps!
Stephanie
immediately inform your husband before something else creeps up i hope everything set's right for you goodluck to you and your friend
Don't go on a group vacation for one. Sit down with hubby and his friend and discuss before going anywhere!
tell ur friend about her hubby, no sense in being uncomfortable while he plays her for a fool. she needs to know and you need to be the better person.
Tell your husband. Stop anything before it happens, it's fair to all parties.
ummm..show up with a man when you go visit her...let him know right off the back..
I would try to handle it first and if that doesn't work i would tell my husband. Good Luck!Ok, if I should avoid, my friend's flirting husband, any suggestions on how to handle a group vacation?
YES....tell your husband. You must take care of this before the vacation...... Does he flirt with everyone or just you? Tell him you are happily married %26amp; you don't apprecaite him flirting with you .If that does not work tell his wife.I am sure your husband can make him STOP. Never ever ever keep anything from your husband no matter how small you think it is !
Good Luck %26amp; I hope this helps!
Stephanie
immediately inform your husband before something else creeps up i hope everything set's right for you goodluck to you and your friend
Don't go on a group vacation for one. Sit down with hubby and his friend and discuss before going anywhere!
tell ur friend about her hubby, no sense in being uncomfortable while he plays her for a fool. she needs to know and you need to be the better person.
Tell your husband. Stop anything before it happens, it's fair to all parties.
ummm..show up with a man when you go visit her...let him know right off the back..
Can my husband become a Us citizen thru marriage?
My husband and I have been married now for 7 years. He came to the Us when he was 2 and recieved an alien residence card (green card) to live here. When or how would he become a citizen thru marriage? Or, can he become a citizen now that we have been married for 7 years?Can my husband become a Us citizen thru marriage?
He can become a citizen regardless. You can apply for citizenship after 5 years with the green card. (3 years if the card is thru marriage) His English must be good if he has been here that long you really don't need to apply through the marriage.Can my husband become a Us citizen thru marriage?
you can no longer become citizen through marriage that was too easy .that also was a stupid thing to do why dont they do it the right way .
well if he been here since he was 2 years old why didn't he applied for his citizenship when he turn 18. why does he have to be married to get his citizen? legally he able to get that even if he have been here just for 5 years. the law stated that you have to be a u.s resident for 5 years before he/she could apply for citizenship. now back to being married for 7 years, if you are a u.s citizen, than he could apply for it. he doesn't even need to go thru all of that when he could have got since he was 18 year old
The process to becoming a citizen involves going through a background check, taking the immigration test, and taking the oath. There's also a time requirement, but he has likely met that by being here so long.
Being married does not automatically guarantee him citizenship. However, your children, being born in the United States, ARE citizens. I would expect, though, given your husband's long-time residency status and marriage to an American that becoming a citizen will be easier for him than others.
Contact Customs and Immigration Services for more information.
of course..., my dear. go to immigartion ofice and process papers for renunciation.
He cannot automatically become a citizen through marriage, but he can become a citizen after he has held a green card for five years. The fee is $330 plus $70 for fingerprints.
There will be tests to pass - one in English and one in Civics. Both are easy
You can get all the details, including materials for the test at uscis.gov
Good luck!
He could have applied for citizenship Long Time Ago....I don't know why People don't call or visit the immigration site...
Good Luck
ask a lawyer. not here. this is the we white people cry boo boo and we hate mexicans forum.
file i-131 and 485a plus fines and dr visits. also check out usics.gov
If he has had a green card for 7 years, he's been eligible to apply for citizenship for four years.
i think he is already a citizen after 5 years of marriage.
He can become a citizen regardless. You can apply for citizenship after 5 years with the green card. (3 years if the card is thru marriage) His English must be good if he has been here that long you really don't need to apply through the marriage.Can my husband become a Us citizen thru marriage?
you can no longer become citizen through marriage that was too easy .that also was a stupid thing to do why dont they do it the right way .
well if he been here since he was 2 years old why didn't he applied for his citizenship when he turn 18. why does he have to be married to get his citizen? legally he able to get that even if he have been here just for 5 years. the law stated that you have to be a u.s resident for 5 years before he/she could apply for citizenship. now back to being married for 7 years, if you are a u.s citizen, than he could apply for it. he doesn't even need to go thru all of that when he could have got since he was 18 year old
The process to becoming a citizen involves going through a background check, taking the immigration test, and taking the oath. There's also a time requirement, but he has likely met that by being here so long.
Being married does not automatically guarantee him citizenship. However, your children, being born in the United States, ARE citizens. I would expect, though, given your husband's long-time residency status and marriage to an American that becoming a citizen will be easier for him than others.
Contact Customs and Immigration Services for more information.
of course..., my dear. go to immigartion ofice and process papers for renunciation.
He cannot automatically become a citizen through marriage, but he can become a citizen after he has held a green card for five years. The fee is $330 plus $70 for fingerprints.
There will be tests to pass - one in English and one in Civics. Both are easy
You can get all the details, including materials for the test at uscis.gov
Good luck!
He could have applied for citizenship Long Time Ago....I don't know why People don't call or visit the immigration site...
Good Luck
ask a lawyer. not here. this is the we white people cry boo boo and we hate mexicans forum.
file i-131 and 485a plus fines and dr visits. also check out usics.gov
If he has had a green card for 7 years, he's been eligible to apply for citizenship for four years.
i think he is already a citizen after 5 years of marriage.
What creative things have you done for your boyfriend, husband, or fiance on his birthday or for a holiday?
My fiance's 25th bday is on Friday and my creativity's on vacation! I'd love to hear other ppl's stories on what they've given, done or made for their guy on a special occassion. ANY stories welcomed. Big party, night in for two, anything.What creative things have you done for your boyfriend, husband, or fiance on his birthday or for a holiday?
for his first birthday (when we just started dating) i got up at 5 in the morning to make him a birthday cake.
for his 30th b-day i phoned all his friends and organized a surprise party. they all went to boston pizza and i told him i wanted to go for dinner. they were all there waiting. (we were married then)What creative things have you done for your boyfriend, husband, or fiance on his birthday or for a holiday?
The first birthday he had after we started dating I blindfolded him, drove him to a hotel, handcuffed him to a chair with mirrors all around and teased him for a few hours.
Then we hung out in the hotel room eating his favorite candy and drinking cheap wine. It was awesome
Well, it's a wedding anniversary not a b-day present, but we are going to a football game and out to dinner. I encouraged him to pick what he wanted to do and I think that was the best part for him, lol.
for his first birthday (when we just started dating) i got up at 5 in the morning to make him a birthday cake.
for his 30th b-day i phoned all his friends and organized a surprise party. they all went to boston pizza and i told him i wanted to go for dinner. they were all there waiting. (we were married then)What creative things have you done for your boyfriend, husband, or fiance on his birthday or for a holiday?
The first birthday he had after we started dating I blindfolded him, drove him to a hotel, handcuffed him to a chair with mirrors all around and teased him for a few hours.
Then we hung out in the hotel room eating his favorite candy and drinking cheap wine. It was awesome
Well, it's a wedding anniversary not a b-day present, but we are going to a football game and out to dinner. I encouraged him to pick what he wanted to do and I think that was the best part for him, lol.
How do I get a court order without my husband knowing?
I suspect him of cheating and I really need to see what past text messages have said but my phone company said I need a court order to view them.How do I get a court order without my husband knowing?
You can't get a court order to see your husband's text messages. We may think it's a crime when our husband cheats on us, but the courts don't.
Stick with your gut feeling. If you believe that your husband is cheating on you, he probably is. There's more then way way to catch a cheating husband.How do I get a court order without my husband knowing?
I am certain that you can only get a court order for this kind of check if there is a very valid reason (like healthy-safety-criminal activity-child welfare - etc). This is not for the purpose of spying on your husband just because you want to. Further, if you were able to get a court order for some valid reason, it would not be without him knowing. That would be totally an invasion of privacy and out of line.
I would suggest you give that idea up and talk to him. It would be infinitely faster and cheaper and might net better results.
When it comes to making calls from your wireless phone, it turns out nothing is sacred. For around $100 (sometimes less, sometimes up to $440), anyone can buy a list of everyone you've called from your cell phone for the last month. Sometimes they can also get your incoming calls and call locations, too. There are companies such as Locatecell.com which will sell you for a fee record of all incoming and outgoing calls from cell phone. Such transactions are illegal in some states so make sure there are legal in yours.
you can't get a court order just like that. Everyone would be getting them and there would be no privacy. There is no criminal activity and you don't have a lawyer trying to prove he is unfit for a custody hearing.
You are SOL, and thank goodness for that. This is STILL America.
Get a lawyer. You won't get a court order to check his messages. If you don't trust him, get divorced.
ask someone else at the phone company. It all depends on your state laws about this. I suspect you already know he is cheating.
i really don't think they are going to give you a court order for that.
you can hire a private investigator or...ask him yourself
thats a question you need to ask someone from your state. or county
You can't get a court order to see your husband's text messages. We may think it's a crime when our husband cheats on us, but the courts don't.
Stick with your gut feeling. If you believe that your husband is cheating on you, he probably is. There's more then way way to catch a cheating husband.How do I get a court order without my husband knowing?
I am certain that you can only get a court order for this kind of check if there is a very valid reason (like healthy-safety-criminal activity-child welfare - etc). This is not for the purpose of spying on your husband just because you want to. Further, if you were able to get a court order for some valid reason, it would not be without him knowing. That would be totally an invasion of privacy and out of line.
I would suggest you give that idea up and talk to him. It would be infinitely faster and cheaper and might net better results.
When it comes to making calls from your wireless phone, it turns out nothing is sacred. For around $100 (sometimes less, sometimes up to $440), anyone can buy a list of everyone you've called from your cell phone for the last month. Sometimes they can also get your incoming calls and call locations, too. There are companies such as Locatecell.com which will sell you for a fee record of all incoming and outgoing calls from cell phone. Such transactions are illegal in some states so make sure there are legal in yours.
you can't get a court order just like that. Everyone would be getting them and there would be no privacy. There is no criminal activity and you don't have a lawyer trying to prove he is unfit for a custody hearing.
You are SOL, and thank goodness for that. This is STILL America.
Get a lawyer. You won't get a court order to check his messages. If you don't trust him, get divorced.
ask someone else at the phone company. It all depends on your state laws about this. I suspect you already know he is cheating.
i really don't think they are going to give you a court order for that.
you can hire a private investigator or...ask him yourself
thats a question you need to ask someone from your state. or county
What are some good dance scenes me and my husband-to-be can re-create for our first dance?
The obvious choices are Dirty dancing, grease, pulp fiction, thriller. But I'm trying to think of something more unique (but simple enough for me to do lol). If you could provide a link to a video too that would be great. Thanks!What are some good dance scenes me and my husband-to-be can re-create for our first dance?
I am assuming that you saw the YouTube Thriller wedding dance video? Sooo funny.
It might be fun to watch some musicals with your fiance and pay attention to the dance sequences. All the movies you mentioned are good, but the waltz scene in Sound of Music, as well as the scene with Rolf and Liesel in the gazebo is cute, and romantic.
There are also lots of Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers moments that would be lovely to recreate, especially if you have older people coming to the wedding.
If you or your husband to be are of a specific nationality, incorporating some elements of those cultural dances would be nice too.
Have fun!What are some good dance scenes me and my husband-to-be can re-create for our first dance?
The salsa/tango in The Wedding Planner ROCKS! I would love to do that dance ANYDAY. I'm not sure how hard it is, but if you could pull that off EVERYONE would be impressed.
Here is a clip, sorry it is in french!:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=LOv0wnE_D4U
Its not the entire scene either...it gets much spicier!
The tango in ';Scent of a Woman'; beats all those. You'll need professional help to pull it off, though, if you haven't been dancing Argentine tango for a few years.
I am assuming that you saw the YouTube Thriller wedding dance video? Sooo funny.
It might be fun to watch some musicals with your fiance and pay attention to the dance sequences. All the movies you mentioned are good, but the waltz scene in Sound of Music, as well as the scene with Rolf and Liesel in the gazebo is cute, and romantic.
There are also lots of Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers moments that would be lovely to recreate, especially if you have older people coming to the wedding.
If you or your husband to be are of a specific nationality, incorporating some elements of those cultural dances would be nice too.
Have fun!What are some good dance scenes me and my husband-to-be can re-create for our first dance?
The salsa/tango in The Wedding Planner ROCKS! I would love to do that dance ANYDAY. I'm not sure how hard it is, but if you could pull that off EVERYONE would be impressed.
Here is a clip, sorry it is in french!:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=LOv0wnE_D4U
Its not the entire scene either...it gets much spicier!
The tango in ';Scent of a Woman'; beats all those. You'll need professional help to pull it off, though, if you haven't been dancing Argentine tango for a few years.
My boss' husband recently had a heart attack. I want to send a dinner to her family from an online company.
My boss' husband recently suffered a heart attach %26amp; today underwent surgery to have a pacemaker.I would like to help the family by sending a dinner to their home while he is recovering in the hospital. Is this correct etiquette? Also, If I do send a dinner, what do I write on the card?My boss' husband recently had a heart attack. I want to send a dinner to her family from an online company.
This is indeed a very generous thing to do and I am sure your boss' family will appreciate it a great deal. On the card you could just write something like ';Thinking of you all'; and sign your name.My boss' husband recently had a heart attack. I want to send a dinner to her family from an online company.
I think homeboy with the first answer was totally right.
This is just a very thoughtful, classy thing to do, that is all.lesbians lipstick eye make up
This is indeed a very generous thing to do and I am sure your boss' family will appreciate it a great deal. On the card you could just write something like ';Thinking of you all'; and sign your name.My boss' husband recently had a heart attack. I want to send a dinner to her family from an online company.
I think homeboy with the first answer was totally right.
This is just a very thoughtful, classy thing to do, that is all.
Is it all right if I go with my husband to a strip club?
I am totally fine with my husband going to strip clubs. I view him going there like going to the theatre for an audience-participation show.
However, I have never asked him if i may come along with him. I would love to see my husband getting a lap dance.Is it all right if I go with my husband to a strip club?
He might just love that!!!
You might get one two. I know many clubs encourage couples.
I think it is a great idea.
NiFIs it all right if I go with my husband to a strip club?
well, in this case its all about trust.
going with him really shows that you want to see what goes on there.
you can see what goes on there, instead of only seeing what strip clubs are like in movies....its an adventure :)
try it...u might like it.
Hell yeah. I love to take the wife out. Sometimes I think she has more fun than I do. I love to see her dresss a little slutty and get the guys looking at her. Makes for a great night.
Sure.I have seen women in strip clubs before with there husbands.You wont be the first one to go.Enjoy it and maybe you will find some moves to bring home to turn your husband on.
Nothing wrong with that.
its fine if hes cool with it
However, I have never asked him if i may come along with him. I would love to see my husband getting a lap dance.Is it all right if I go with my husband to a strip club?
He might just love that!!!
You might get one two. I know many clubs encourage couples.
I think it is a great idea.
NiFIs it all right if I go with my husband to a strip club?
well, in this case its all about trust.
going with him really shows that you want to see what goes on there.
you can see what goes on there, instead of only seeing what strip clubs are like in movies....its an adventure :)
try it...u might like it.
Hell yeah. I love to take the wife out. Sometimes I think she has more fun than I do. I love to see her dresss a little slutty and get the guys looking at her. Makes for a great night.
Sure.I have seen women in strip clubs before with there husbands.You wont be the first one to go.Enjoy it and maybe you will find some moves to bring home to turn your husband on.
Nothing wrong with that.
its fine if hes cool with it
Do my children still need a letter from my husband to go to mex ?
My husband is already in mexico and my children and I will be going soon.My children have their own passport, do I still need a letter from him to travel? Do my children still need a letter from my husband to go to mex ?
If they are American citizens, yes you do. you must have a letter of permission for each child signed by the father and notarized...to take them outside the U.S. Border patrol has no way of knowing for sure where the father is. Also, this is Mexican law. See site below and read section on Minors under ';Entry Requirements.'; He will need to prepare the letters and Fed-Ex them to you. Do not use regular mail..it could take forever.
Edit: The answerer who says she takes her kids back and forth everyday is not going beyond the border area. If you plan to go beyond the 12 mile border area , you definetly do need this letter. They do not always ask for it, but if they ask and you do not have it, you will be turned back. It absolutely is enforced. Do my children still need a letter from my husband to go to mex ?
No you do not need a letter from your husband to travel with your children in mexico. I bring my son back and forth almost daily with no problems. I walk or drive across the port of entry between San Diego/Tijuana
If you are flying there is other guidelines here is a great link and it does state that you need a notarized letter from both parents. I do not think this is enforced but it is better to be safe then sorry.
http://www.tijuanamexicoinsider.com/mexi鈥?/a>
It is the last paragraph on the page.
This question doesn't make any sense....
If they are American citizens, yes you do. you must have a letter of permission for each child signed by the father and notarized...to take them outside the U.S. Border patrol has no way of knowing for sure where the father is. Also, this is Mexican law. See site below and read section on Minors under ';Entry Requirements.'; He will need to prepare the letters and Fed-Ex them to you. Do not use regular mail..it could take forever.
Edit: The answerer who says she takes her kids back and forth everyday is not going beyond the border area. If you plan to go beyond the 12 mile border area , you definetly do need this letter. They do not always ask for it, but if they ask and you do not have it, you will be turned back. It absolutely is enforced. Do my children still need a letter from my husband to go to mex ?
No you do not need a letter from your husband to travel with your children in mexico. I bring my son back and forth almost daily with no problems. I walk or drive across the port of entry between San Diego/Tijuana
If you are flying there is other guidelines here is a great link and it does state that you need a notarized letter from both parents. I do not think this is enforced but it is better to be safe then sorry.
http://www.tijuanamexicoinsider.com/mexi鈥?/a>
It is the last paragraph on the page.
This question doesn't make any sense....
Will my husband and children be able to get US citizenship?
I have American citizenship but have lived in Australia for 18 years, so I don't have American residency. If i get married will my husband and children be eligible for citizenship?
What if we wanted to live in the states, could they move back with me?Will my husband and children be able to get US citizenship?
I believe that you should contact the American Embassy and ask them they will give you the right answer. Good LuckWill my husband and children be able to get US citizenship?
well, luckily your kids are already US citizens because you are also a citizen. so they can come with you...with a valid US passport (same as what you or anyone would need to fly into the US)
your husband....you will have to file for a spousal visa..actually though, i was thinking that australia had one of those special types of tourist visas like england, where you dont have to apply. in this case, maybe he could come with you, and you could change is status to a spousal visa, and then he could eventually work after about 9 months. otherwise, he stays in australia, you and the kids move, and he comes when the visa is approved...again, anywhere from 5 to 18 months.
BUT...one of the qualifications for sponsoring your husband is that you must have an income over the poverty line...and show your previous year麓s tax returns to verifiy this...which you don麓t have. so....logic says you need to go to the US first and get a job!
i have heard there are ways around this.....such as having one of your parents sponsor him, or maybe you have a sibling. i think in your case, an immigration lawyer or consultant would be a good idea. also try visajourney.com
Your husband does not acquire citizenship by marriage.
Your children do acquire citizenship through you.
For your natural born children, If they were born outside US you need to file a Consular Report of Birth Abroad to register them as US Citizens.
For adopted children that have been in your custody for at least 2 years and for whom you have a Final Adoption Decree you can apply at the US Embassy for citizenship. They will need a visa to enter US legally as aliens for the final step in the process. Just checked Embassy site. Australia is a Visa Waiver Partner, so children can enter as Tourists on Visa Waiver in order to complete their application. More detailed instructions are available at US Embassy websites.
For your husband to acquire US Citizenship he will need to obtain a Green Card and be a Permanent Resident for a minimum of 3 years. Of those 3yrs, 18 months including the most recent 3 months must be spent in US. If he has less than 18 months in US or it has been less than 3 months since he last changed address or reentered US, then it is just a matter of waiting a little while until he meets the 18 month total %26amp; the 3 most recent month requirements.
His sponsor must reside in US. You can sponsor him if you can prove to the Embassy that you will have established a legal residence in US prior to approval of his visa. Form I-864 is the source of this requirement.
If you were an American Citizen, and did not officially ';revoke'; your citizenship. Then you are still a citizen. Your children (under 18 years of age) can automatically become citizens with filling out some forms. But your husband would need to live here for a couple years to be eligible to become a US citizen.
NO, but he can get a k3 visa which will allow him entry into the USA if you both marry.
US citizenship is only granted to those born here, born of American Citizens abroad (if its reported), or naturalized here.
A visa, green card, marriage to a US citizen, having children that are US citizens, etc.. does not automatically grant anyone citizenship.
You might have to get married in the USA for your husband to become a citizen. I'm not sure about your children.
Yes you an American Citizen! Welcome! We welcome all immigrants. We are the land of opportunities! Call the US Embassy, they can give you info. Good luck!
What if we wanted to live in the states, could they move back with me?Will my husband and children be able to get US citizenship?
I believe that you should contact the American Embassy and ask them they will give you the right answer. Good LuckWill my husband and children be able to get US citizenship?
well, luckily your kids are already US citizens because you are also a citizen. so they can come with you...with a valid US passport (same as what you or anyone would need to fly into the US)
your husband....you will have to file for a spousal visa..actually though, i was thinking that australia had one of those special types of tourist visas like england, where you dont have to apply. in this case, maybe he could come with you, and you could change is status to a spousal visa, and then he could eventually work after about 9 months. otherwise, he stays in australia, you and the kids move, and he comes when the visa is approved...again, anywhere from 5 to 18 months.
BUT...one of the qualifications for sponsoring your husband is that you must have an income over the poverty line...and show your previous year麓s tax returns to verifiy this...which you don麓t have. so....logic says you need to go to the US first and get a job!
i have heard there are ways around this.....such as having one of your parents sponsor him, or maybe you have a sibling. i think in your case, an immigration lawyer or consultant would be a good idea. also try visajourney.com
Your husband does not acquire citizenship by marriage.
Your children do acquire citizenship through you.
For your natural born children, If they were born outside US you need to file a Consular Report of Birth Abroad to register them as US Citizens.
For adopted children that have been in your custody for at least 2 years and for whom you have a Final Adoption Decree you can apply at the US Embassy for citizenship. They will need a visa to enter US legally as aliens for the final step in the process. Just checked Embassy site. Australia is a Visa Waiver Partner, so children can enter as Tourists on Visa Waiver in order to complete their application. More detailed instructions are available at US Embassy websites.
For your husband to acquire US Citizenship he will need to obtain a Green Card and be a Permanent Resident for a minimum of 3 years. Of those 3yrs, 18 months including the most recent 3 months must be spent in US. If he has less than 18 months in US or it has been less than 3 months since he last changed address or reentered US, then it is just a matter of waiting a little while until he meets the 18 month total %26amp; the 3 most recent month requirements.
His sponsor must reside in US. You can sponsor him if you can prove to the Embassy that you will have established a legal residence in US prior to approval of his visa. Form I-864 is the source of this requirement.
If you were an American Citizen, and did not officially ';revoke'; your citizenship. Then you are still a citizen. Your children (under 18 years of age) can automatically become citizens with filling out some forms. But your husband would need to live here for a couple years to be eligible to become a US citizen.
NO, but he can get a k3 visa which will allow him entry into the USA if you both marry.
US citizenship is only granted to those born here, born of American Citizens abroad (if its reported), or naturalized here.
A visa, green card, marriage to a US citizen, having children that are US citizens, etc.. does not automatically grant anyone citizenship.
You might have to get married in the USA for your husband to become a citizen. I'm not sure about your children.
Yes you an American Citizen! Welcome! We welcome all immigrants. We are the land of opportunities! Call the US Embassy, they can give you info. Good luck!
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