Thursday, December 31, 2009

What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?

My ex husband is remarried and now going through another divorce, but calls me for advice and help..What do I do?What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?
You may as well move back home and have mom and dad making your bed and feeding you pbj's too. Tell him to leave you the hell alone or you'll be in touch with the police so you can start a new life as he has. He sounds like a real dope you needed rid of...now tell him so and make it last.What do you do if you have an ex husband who wont leave you alone while your with someone new?
Tell him that you are sorry he is going thru the divorce but you dont feel comfortable having that type of relationship with him and ask him to please respect you and also your relationship.





If you dont have kids, dont take his calls. If you stop answering the calls, he will stop calling. If you have children, discuss only the children, period. Its really easy, you just have to be strong and stick by what you say to him.
do not talk to him


do not return his calls


do not email


text


or anything else





how hard is that to understand?





what part of ex o you not understand?


how are you supposed to move on with your life if you keep hanging on to your past?






just tell him the truth but don't be harsh, you can't just let him like basicly stalk you











or this would be really mean but you could always change your phone number or avoid his calls. but don't do that because that would be beyond mean
Restraining order. My sister had to go to court and get a restraining order against her ex husband because of violent threats and harrassment.



Tell him flat out that your marriage to him is over, that you've gone on with your life and he needs to find someone else to discuss his issues with. If that fails, go with the no contact order.
My advice is to remarry your ex-husband.
Tell him that you have moved on and you do not want to be contacted by him when anything goes wrong.Be firm with him.
File for a no contact order.





He has real boundary issues and needs to be put back into his place.
I would suggest that you avoid him.
Don't talk to him.
help him out for old times sake @!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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