You CANT do that, that is his brothers wife! So what if you don't like her!
You don't even sound mature enough to be married...how old are you??My husband calls and emails his brothers wife and I am mad?
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The only way to get over a situation such as this is to ask yourself honestly:
Why are you mad?
Is it because he is paying more attention to his brothers wife?
Perhaps you feel that he is cheating on you in some respect?
and another thing: why do you not like your brothers wife? Do you know something about her that the rest of the family doesn't?
You have to address these problems with yourself first. Your question is rather nebulous and lacks an immense amount of detail, so it is a bit harder to give out more sound advice. But before you discuss this with your husband, try and identify why you do not like her and why you do not like your husband paying seemingly any attention to her.
She is a member of the family to, remember this.
There's really not much you can do. You can fuss at him, but there's such a things as cell phones, e-mail and what not, so he can easily lie to you.
What's interesting is your saying you don't like her, but he's not allowed to like her? That's very immature. Maybe that's why you're feeling like you are; you know that it's ridiculous to tell someone not to like someone because you don't. Don't you want your husband to have a mind of his own.
Maybe you shouldn't be a paranoid, jealous, and controlling harpie. Maybe the little things he does in his life that don't really affect you he keeps away from you because he knows that you're just going to overreact anyway, and he knows what's going on. Maybe you just need to accept the fact that you can't control each little element in his life that you disagree with.
if he has nothing to hide he will let you read the emails. my guess is he is hiding something .. who creates an account just to talk to one person on it? a cheater does thats who... get to the bottom of this and let him know it will cost him his marriage if he does not let you see what they talk about
Does his brother know about the level of communication he has with his wife? What is the reason they are communicating? Are you jealous of her? Why can't you talk to your husband about how you feel with him communicating with his gf?
Realize that you are being stupid and that you scared your husband into not talking to a member of his family in front of you.
Either that or just plain out realize that you are being stupid. Like really stupid.
How do you get over it? You don't. This is not appropriate. It can only lead to trouble. Advise your husband to stop it.
Confront him about it. Ask him why he needs a seperate account to communicate with her.
Is he your husband or your slave? You don't own him and cannot control his every move. I suggest you focus on more productive things instead.
i would rather live with someone i trust but don't love than live with someone i love but don't trust
Why don;t you like her?
And WHY is your husband emailing his brothers wife????
Odd situation
Tell your brother in law that his brother is all up in his koolaid....
Not a real issue here.
You'd better give it a break!
he won't drop his brother, for you!
wow he is pathetic. leave him!
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