Is it okay to end a marriage because your husband is a controlling, manipulative, egotistical brute?

I don't think I love him anymore. I thought I did, but as I learn more about him the more I want to run away. He's jealous, egotistical, possessive, controlling, needy, emotionally-manipulative, hurtful and insulting.





I just don't think I can take this any longer.Is it okay to end a marriage because your husband is a controlling, manipulative, egotistical brute?
Go, baby, go. Once you are out, you can do whatever you want, dance till dawn, seduce a young stud, wear a sexy dress, spend your money how you want, eat when you want, and never have to be put down, accused, or insulted by him again. Good luck.Is it okay to end a marriage because your husband is a controlling, manipulative, egotistical brute?
I think it depends on a few significant factors; i.e., is he unwilling to go to counseling, is your staying with him hurting your children (if you have any), are you driven to self-destrutive behaviors for staying with him (substance abuse, overspending, adultery, cutting, suicidal thoughts, etc.) and so on. Your husband may or may not know how overbearing he is/has become, but you should at the very least attempt to persuade him to try marriage counseling so that these issues are brought out in a quasi-';safe'; setting (where he won't be inclined to threaten you or act out physically). If he refuses to go to counseling but will not acknowledge that he's behaving badly, then you need to look after yourself. You are your own person with needs unique to you and you alone, not an extension of your husband or his ';property.';
It's up to you to decide what kind of relationship you want. Even if you're already married, you still have a right to decide whether or not that relationship is right for you. If you don't think you can take it any longer, there's good news. You don't have to.
Yes, it is. It's crazy how a catalyst can clarify the perspective by allowing you to see things you otherwise might not have.





Don't ignore them. And yes it's ok to divorce. Especially given the traits above. I relate.
This is called abuse. Yes, it's not only OK to end this marriage, but to run like hell.
Yeah. go away. sounds like it could turn into physical abuse.
Yes ! Get out now before its too late !
In short - Yes.
yes





take care of yourself.
How long?


What has he done?