Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?

I have been married to my husband for eight months. I am 22 he is 31. We have sex once every 7-10 day. Even on our honeymoon we didn't have sex everyday. I don't know what to do. I have tried everything. Lingerie, candlelight dinners, massages, weekend getaways, and of course talking, but no improvement. We cuddle lots, and kiss and touch daily, but no intercourse. Is this normal?Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?
Ok ... here's the thing:





If you buy a short, black dress, you don't go home and then complain that it's red and long, right?





You don't go fishing and think that you're gonna catch a chicken, do you?





You don't pick up a puppy and expect it to purr and meow at you ... but that's exactly what you're doing expecting your husband to want more sex.





THIS is who he is, ok? He's a guy with a low sex drive - you probably knew it before you married him, so you can't complain about it now.





Be grateful that he's affectionate in other ways, and accept him as he is TODAY. If you can't do this, then you're in for a long and cold marriage, because the more you talk about it and try to get him to change, the more likely you are of pushing him away.





I suggest a different approach. DON'T bring it up. DON'T pursue him. Let him come to you. Be silent on the subject of sex completely. Don't talk about it, don't suggest, nudge, cajole, manipulate or in other way bring sex into any dialogue that you have with him for a month. Now, if he brings it up, then talk, but on HIS terms from HIS perspective.





Have you ever watched ballroom dancing? Because in ballroom, the man leads and the woman follows. It's about the only element in the world anymore where the man is in charge. Why don't you let him do the leading for a while and see how that works ?





Best of luck !!Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?
He could try viagra but I will tell ya what, that stuff sucks. The side effects are terrible. Has he ever tried a sexual enhancer? I was in his situation, like I said, viagra was tried but it wasn't for me considering the side effects overwhelm the pleasures of it. I found this natural herbal enhancer and figured what the heck, if it's natural it must be great and plus it said no side effects. I tried it and after about two days of taking it I was just horny like a mad man. All the time, I have erections that want to stand straight up and the orgasms are to die for. The stuff was called vigrx plus and I saved on it at the time at http://hughs-reviews .com You should tell him to check it out. I love the fact it's made from a researched blend of herbs that seem to do the trick for me atleast.





Good luck and I hope this helps.
He needs to get a sex hormone blood test from a doctor. He may have low testosterone levels that keep his sex drive at a minimum. This can easily be corrected. I would encourage you to see an endocrinologist and have this simple blood test taken. It can either rule in or out if his sex hormones are at the right levels.
Explain to him that if he only makes you feel desirable once every 10 days, or worse even less often, it's going to take a toll on your own sex drive and your sexual self confidence...and then the real downward spiral begins which ultimately leads to huge resentment and a complete lack of intimacy which damages the marriage.
Some people just have a low sex drive. That or he just doesn't like sex...would you say the sex is good when you do have it, or so/so? If it's so/so, a sex counselor might be a good investment.
There are Many, many men with low sex drives. Normal. Talk to a doctor if this bothers you and perhaps he can give your husband something, if he's willing


Good Luck
some men just have lower sex drives it could be to a medical reason but if its been like this since the get go maybe not talk to him about it thats the only way something can be done about it
Have him get checked medically, especially his testosterone level.
Age doesn't have much to do with it. My husband has a very low sex drive as well and he just turned 29.
Not at all normal...You would have had me with the lingerie......
age has nothing to do with it. its the person..! Havin the same prob! lol
very well could be