Well, firstly, understand that you don't automatically ';fall'; back in love.
This will be work on both parts.
A few helpful solutions:
1. Hire family, friends, or babysitter and the both of you go out on a date. Do NOT talk about the kids on that date. Very important.
2. Make sure you do physical activities that you BOTH enjoy!
3. When the kids are in bed, both of you spend time either doing interactive activities, absolutely nothing but sitting together, or both.
4. And lastly, do NOT let the ';boys'; come before you husband. And vice versa, they should not come before you as a wife.
Your marriage comes before everything, and kudos for reaching out for solutions to make that happen!
Making it work!How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Hi,
Well apart from what you can do your husband will have to do some things to make you fall in love with him again also. You can introduce some spontaneity %26amp; fire back into your marriage such as: wear lovely perfume for him while at home, nice make up, nail polish, sexy lingerie - spice things up a bit for him, have a nice bath together, prepare a nice dinner for him one of his favourites, massage each other. Go away for the weekend. Wear sexy clothes %26amp; heels while at home with him. Go on picnics, walks, send romantic %26amp; erotic messages to him during the day while at work %26amp; write notes for him just to let him know you're thinking of him %26amp; can't wait to see him that night. There's a few ideas.
Good luck.
Good for you for realizing the excitement can be re-created!!
Check out the work of Dr. David Schnarch, including his book ';Secrets of a Passionate Marriage'; Good information from someone who's made a study of the subject.
Another one is John Gottman's ';Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work'; This book is based on excellent research, and will help you and your husband ensure your marriage is on a solid footing so there's room for passion and intensity.
What you have to do is set aside some time for just you and your husband. Try and make arrangements for your boys to stay with a friend or grandparents for night. Plan ahead what you are going to do: Wear something sexy, cook a nice meal, soft lights, music and perhaps a massage. And remember, talk and listen to each other.
Have fun
hi zeeee--in my opion n my opion only--u cant fall back in love in some instances--u can make out have sex n enjoy it but that is not falling back in love--once u fall out u fall out peroid--i love haveing sex with an x but i dont think i could ever fall back in love with her--ok
if u want 2try n make it more passionate dinner--wine--lake--no boys--relax--teasing (ie short skirt/clevege)
It's a choice, just like being happy is a choice. Go out of your way to create that feeling for yourself again, as only you can do. And please talk to him about it.
Get someone to take the kids.
Make plans to be just the 2 of you and make the night a passionate one.
Get creative... and get the spark back.
first ya'll go into the woods and watch them little critters play'in around shor enuff when you a 'hearin that ole owl hoot caint be long afor nature is taki'n its course
you cant fall back in love with someone, the question is are you still in love? can you answer that.
juss start going on dates.
send the kids to a babysitter..or family member.
have fun like you guys use to..make out..idk..haha
ohh..one more thing..do you guys even talk.?
maby dats da problem..
KY jelly..always works!
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