So we have been married almost 9 years, and lately i don't feel that passion or intensity that we felt before. I know that things change in a marriage and we go through stages. But i want to ignite the fire of passion. We have 2 boys so it's not as passionate and we both work very hard. But we do have the weekends. Any and all advice will be appreciated, please don't ge rude.How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Well, firstly, understand that you don't automatically ';fall'; back in love.
This will be work on both parts.
A few helpful solutions:
1. Hire family, friends, or babysitter and the both of you go out on a date. Do NOT talk about the kids on that date. Very important.
2. Make sure you do physical activities that you BOTH enjoy!
3. When the kids are in bed, both of you spend time either doing interactive activities, absolutely nothing but sitting together, or both.
4. And lastly, do NOT let the ';boys'; come before you husband. And vice versa, they should not come before you as a wife.
Your marriage comes before everything, and kudos for reaching out for solutions to make that happen!
Making it work!How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Hi,
Well apart from what you can do your husband will have to do some things to make you fall in love with him again also. You can introduce some spontaneity %26amp; fire back into your marriage such as: wear lovely perfume for him while at home, nice make up, nail polish, sexy lingerie - spice things up a bit for him, have a nice bath together, prepare a nice dinner for him one of his favourites, massage each other. Go away for the weekend. Wear sexy clothes %26amp; heels while at home with him. Go on picnics, walks, send romantic %26amp; erotic messages to him during the day while at work %26amp; write notes for him just to let him know you're thinking of him %26amp; can't wait to see him that night. There's a few ideas.
Good luck.
Good for you for realizing the excitement can be re-created!!
Check out the work of Dr. David Schnarch, including his book ';Secrets of a Passionate Marriage'; Good information from someone who's made a study of the subject.
Another one is John Gottman's ';Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work'; This book is based on excellent research, and will help you and your husband ensure your marriage is on a solid footing so there's room for passion and intensity.
What you have to do is set aside some time for just you and your husband. Try and make arrangements for your boys to stay with a friend or grandparents for night. Plan ahead what you are going to do: Wear something sexy, cook a nice meal, soft lights, music and perhaps a massage. And remember, talk and listen to each other.
Have fun
hi zeeee--in my opion n my opion only--u cant fall back in love in some instances--u can make out have sex n enjoy it but that is not falling back in love--once u fall out u fall out peroid--i love haveing sex with an x but i dont think i could ever fall back in love with her--ok
if u want 2try n make it more passionate dinner--wine--lake--no boys--relax--teasing (ie short skirt/clevege)
It's a choice, just like being happy is a choice. Go out of your way to create that feeling for yourself again, as only you can do. And please talk to him about it.
Get someone to take the kids.
Make plans to be just the 2 of you and make the night a passionate one.
Get creative... and get the spark back.
first ya'll go into the woods and watch them little critters play'in around shor enuff when you a 'hearin that ole owl hoot caint be long afor nature is taki'n its course
you cant fall back in love with someone, the question is are you still in love? can you answer that.
juss start going on dates.
send the kids to a babysitter..or family member.
have fun like you guys use to..make out..idk..haha
ohh..one more thing..do you guys even talk.?
maby dats da problem..
KY jelly..always works!
Friday, April 30, 2010
I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
My husband and I have been dating for 6 years but only married for a month and a half. This Christmas is our first, and I'd love to start a new tradition, or perhaps even adopt an old tradition that I don't know about. Suggestions?I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
I'm not sure how things go in your house, who does the decorating and what-not, but the two of you should maybe pick a movie you both love and watch it on Christmas Eve. I know my family watches the ';A Christmas Story'; marathon every year on Christmas. Also, you could pick a night when you are both off work and decorate the tree together. I'm not sure where you live, but you could do an activity such as Caroling. But, remember, this is your Christmas, not ours, and sometimes traditions start when you dont even know they have been started!I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
Pick out a Christmas ornament together every year for your tree. This year get a ';First Christmas Together'; ornament. Make sure every ornament has the year on it.
If your a Christian you can have a ';Happy Birthday Jesus'; party with a birthday cake.
my husband and i got married last year on new year's eve, so this is our first christmas as a married couple as well. we are starting our own traditions this year, too.
each of us will write the other a letter and put it in his/her stocking on christmas eve to be read on christmas morning.
we will also each pick out one ornament every year that reminds us of the other, and give it as a gift.
we are considering finding a holiday meal to use as ';our'; traditional meal, as well. probably breakfast, since we do my parent's house on eve and his parents' on day.
We do stockings and the stuffers have been kinda traditional in the fact that he always gets socks, aftershave, a bathroom book, magazine subscription - that kinda thing. Kinda boring but we look forward to it every year.
We never had kids and felt that there was WAYYY too much early morning Hype. So wed wait until 12:01 (In keeping with the mandates of our parents to NOT open the presents till Christmas) open presents.. Then wed flip a coin. Whoever lost had to get up earlier than the other and make breakfast.
we always buy an ornament and put the year on it then every when we decorate the tree it is interesting to see how our taste has changed over the years. Now I buy ornaments for my kids. Ones that they choose. so they'll have them when they have a tree of their own.
A Christmas ornament every year, with the year on the ornament.
Stockings that are personalized.
Set up a holiday village and choose a new piece to add to the village each year.
We've done the above 3 not since we were married but ever since our 1st child's 1st christmas. I wish we started these traditions the 1st year we got married...oh well...at least we started for our baby's 1st christmas.
me and my wife are going to cook a dinner together you could make that your tradition maiking something new together each year or even making the same thing.
I'm not sure how things go in your house, who does the decorating and what-not, but the two of you should maybe pick a movie you both love and watch it on Christmas Eve. I know my family watches the ';A Christmas Story'; marathon every year on Christmas. Also, you could pick a night when you are both off work and decorate the tree together. I'm not sure where you live, but you could do an activity such as Caroling. But, remember, this is your Christmas, not ours, and sometimes traditions start when you dont even know they have been started!I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
Pick out a Christmas ornament together every year for your tree. This year get a ';First Christmas Together'; ornament. Make sure every ornament has the year on it.
If your a Christian you can have a ';Happy Birthday Jesus'; party with a birthday cake.
my husband and i got married last year on new year's eve, so this is our first christmas as a married couple as well. we are starting our own traditions this year, too.
each of us will write the other a letter and put it in his/her stocking on christmas eve to be read on christmas morning.
we will also each pick out one ornament every year that reminds us of the other, and give it as a gift.
we are considering finding a holiday meal to use as ';our'; traditional meal, as well. probably breakfast, since we do my parent's house on eve and his parents' on day.
We do stockings and the stuffers have been kinda traditional in the fact that he always gets socks, aftershave, a bathroom book, magazine subscription - that kinda thing. Kinda boring but we look forward to it every year.
We never had kids and felt that there was WAYYY too much early morning Hype. So wed wait until 12:01 (In keeping with the mandates of our parents to NOT open the presents till Christmas) open presents.. Then wed flip a coin. Whoever lost had to get up earlier than the other and make breakfast.
we always buy an ornament and put the year on it then every when we decorate the tree it is interesting to see how our taste has changed over the years. Now I buy ornaments for my kids. Ones that they choose. so they'll have them when they have a tree of their own.
A Christmas ornament every year, with the year on the ornament.
Stockings that are personalized.
Set up a holiday village and choose a new piece to add to the village each year.
We've done the above 3 not since we were married but ever since our 1st child's 1st christmas. I wish we started these traditions the 1st year we got married...oh well...at least we started for our baby's 1st christmas.
me and my wife are going to cook a dinner together you could make that your tradition maiking something new together each year or even making the same thing.
Was the Acorn worker that said she killed her husband lying?
in the fourth video?
She seemed to give a fairly detailed account of planning and executing his supposed murder. Has she been questioned by police?Was the Acorn worker that said she killed her husband lying?
why wasn't the tape turned over to the police as soon as they left?
she said she lied because she knew they were lying and she just wanted to play along. the police have investigated and her husband is alive.Was the Acorn worker that said she killed her husband lying?
I'm not sure. However, if she did, she likely already did the time.
I'm sure she will be questioned, but I saw the tape....it appeared to me that she was clearly talking out of her a$$. She repeatedly threatened numerous other people's lives....so, I think she has a screw loose.....and I think her story is a lie to make her sound tough.
liberals dont care...they think men are evil,and deserve every bit of murder she gave her husband...of course,she may have just been bragging ,one lib to another supposed lib,about being a tough woman...liberals love to talk tough,but they aint....
to the above libs..even if he is alive,what kind of degenerate low-life tells someone else about her fantasy of murdering her husband?
Yes....the cops investigated it...her husband is alive and well.
It's all slander! Democrats don't lie!
Her ex-husband is alive and well. They are so use to lying, they believe any story they tell.lips eye liner
She seemed to give a fairly detailed account of planning and executing his supposed murder. Has she been questioned by police?Was the Acorn worker that said she killed her husband lying?
why wasn't the tape turned over to the police as soon as they left?
she said she lied because she knew they were lying and she just wanted to play along. the police have investigated and her husband is alive.Was the Acorn worker that said she killed her husband lying?
I'm not sure. However, if she did, she likely already did the time.
I'm sure she will be questioned, but I saw the tape....it appeared to me that she was clearly talking out of her a$$. She repeatedly threatened numerous other people's lives....so, I think she has a screw loose.....and I think her story is a lie to make her sound tough.
liberals dont care...they think men are evil,and deserve every bit of murder she gave her husband...of course,she may have just been bragging ,one lib to another supposed lib,about being a tough woman...liberals love to talk tough,but they aint....
to the above libs..even if he is alive,what kind of degenerate low-life tells someone else about her fantasy of murdering her husband?
Yes....the cops investigated it...her husband is alive and well.
It's all slander! Democrats don't lie!
Her ex-husband is alive and well. They are so use to lying, they believe any story they tell.
Would my husband look for other women coz I am not a sexual enthusiast?
I am not really into sex,our marriage was centered into a family,children,daily routine,%26amp; career.Sexual life is being set aside,my husband is very respectfull if i deny,it happened only once a month sometimes none.Would my husband look for other women coz I am not a sexual enthusiast?
Yes. Sexual intimacy is important for a man, especially a younger man. If you are not using it, then it should be OK for someone else to.Would my husband look for other women coz I am not a sexual enthusiast?
Well if he understands then he understands and respects your choice, i highely doubt he would cheat on you, if you have a family!
Worry about this if and when it happens!
Being sexually satisfied at home does not mean someone (male or female) will not find their satisfaction away from home. It's the personal ethics and morals that determine this.
You should have mentioned that you hated sex before the marraige .
Yes.
sorry to say this but yes he would it part of man hood
Yes. Sexual intimacy is important for a man, especially a younger man. If you are not using it, then it should be OK for someone else to.Would my husband look for other women coz I am not a sexual enthusiast?
Well if he understands then he understands and respects your choice, i highely doubt he would cheat on you, if you have a family!
Worry about this if and when it happens!
Being sexually satisfied at home does not mean someone (male or female) will not find their satisfaction away from home. It's the personal ethics and morals that determine this.
You should have mentioned that you hated sex before the marraige .
Yes.
sorry to say this but yes he would it part of man hood
Live in VA. What do I do if my husband wont sign separation greement my lawyer made. He is procrastinating. ?
Have 14 yr old daughter. I have moved out already, after waiting 6 months for him to.We have agreed to share legal and physical custody.Can I file anyway?Live in VA. What do I do if my husband wont sign separation greement my lawyer made. He is procrastinating. ?
yea.. i live n va too.. u dont need a seperation agreement to get divorced,, just proof that you have been seperarted for a time I think. Sure.. flle.. if he does not show,, go for full custody..
yea.. i live n va too.. u dont need a seperation agreement to get divorced,, just proof that you have been seperarted for a time I think. Sure.. flle.. if he does not show,, go for full custody..
Can a husband and wife be called a family?
My mom is curious of how a husband and wife would be represented. I told her as a couple, but she disagrees with my dad and I. I know that there are various types of families, but I only want to know one thing. Wouldn't a family (related) be a husband and wife with at least one kid (typically), and a couple would be somebody like boyfriend,girlfriend/husband,wife?Can a husband and wife be called a family?
Yes, a husband %26amp; wife are a family, and they can also be referred to as a couple. They can add to their family by having or adopting children, but the husband %26amp; wife are the foundation of the family.Can a husband and wife be called a family?
Technically on tax forms and in the governments eyes, you are a family regardless of whether you have children once you are married. A couple is the idea of being involved with one another in a relationship that is committed and exclusive, but where each of you maintains a certain amount of independence. Once you get married that all changes. You are working together as a unit. Two people making up something greater than themselves. There are vows and a union to be upheld. You are legally attached to one another plus on whatever other levels you may consider to be involved. You have announced to the world with witnesses and paperwork that you two are two parts to one entity. That is what makes you a family. Pieces of a whole. A couple is just two independent entities that fit alongside one another.
For example ... when buying a case of soda you can pick up a six-pack. You could buy a couple of cans. Heck there are a couple of cans in a six-pack. But what makes the soda a six pack is that it's got all the pieces AND that little bit of plastic. Buying six independent cans would not give you that plastic that holds it all together. So you have six ... but it's six ones .... hope that makes sense.
I think it's a semantic difference, which means I see your point but I view it somewhat differently. I think a husband and wife are indeed a family based on the commitment they've obviously made and the vows that they've taken. Whether or not they have children is irrelevant. Some couples either cannot have children or do not want them (for whatever reason). They are not considered somehow less valid family units because of their decision or circumstance. Husbands and wives are the nuclei of families from which all other possible permutations evolve. Granted, this is only my opinion. Very interesting question, by the way.
I agree that a husband and wife is a couple. If you add a kid or a live in parent then it becomes a family. A mom and kid make a family or a dad and kid can be a family, but just the husband and wife--that's a couple.
Husband and wife is considered a couple.
Boyfriend and girlfriend is also considered a couple.
But when the husband and wife make love and get a child/children its considered a family since now there united!
You are exactly right a husband and wife/ girlfriend and boyfriend would be called a couple and the husband and wife and child would be called a family.
It depends on the context. Like on a formal invitation or a sign or something, you would say ';Mr. and Mrs. Smith,'; but a more informal noting you could say ';The Smith Family.'; Just trust your own judgment.
i agree with you, i think a family is at least a wife, husband, or gf and bf, with at least one child,
like you said
hasband %26amp;wife called like couples.When having they first child it called small family.Hasband%26amp;wife with two childrens called a family. Hope i helped
';Family'; and ';couple'; are not mutually exclusive. A couple can be a family: a family of two.
Well you and your dad are kind of right by in some cases a mom and a dad can be called a family.
Well first you this is a opinion question so i think yes but other people may say no so you cant really tell your both wrong because there is no right question.
No a Husband and wife are a family, children are not necessary for the definition.
Usually called couple or husband and wife, not family.
haha. a husband and wife can be considered a family... I know lots of ppl who are a family but don't have kids... they have pets :)
No, once they are married they are a family with or without a child. At least that is what my insurance company says.
yes.
A couple is husband/wife , boyfriend/girlfriend.
When they have a child they are a family.
They are still Family...cause you now have a mother in law and father in law...so I would think that would make you a part of a family even with out kids!
My thought is that a couple is a family. And if children come about the family grows.
A couple is a family
i would call that a family!!!!!!
good luck %26lt;3
yes a family has to have a kid
Yes, a husband %26amp; wife are a family, and they can also be referred to as a couple. They can add to their family by having or adopting children, but the husband %26amp; wife are the foundation of the family.Can a husband and wife be called a family?
Technically on tax forms and in the governments eyes, you are a family regardless of whether you have children once you are married. A couple is the idea of being involved with one another in a relationship that is committed and exclusive, but where each of you maintains a certain amount of independence. Once you get married that all changes. You are working together as a unit. Two people making up something greater than themselves. There are vows and a union to be upheld. You are legally attached to one another plus on whatever other levels you may consider to be involved. You have announced to the world with witnesses and paperwork that you two are two parts to one entity. That is what makes you a family. Pieces of a whole. A couple is just two independent entities that fit alongside one another.
For example ... when buying a case of soda you can pick up a six-pack. You could buy a couple of cans. Heck there are a couple of cans in a six-pack. But what makes the soda a six pack is that it's got all the pieces AND that little bit of plastic. Buying six independent cans would not give you that plastic that holds it all together. So you have six ... but it's six ones .... hope that makes sense.
I think it's a semantic difference, which means I see your point but I view it somewhat differently. I think a husband and wife are indeed a family based on the commitment they've obviously made and the vows that they've taken. Whether or not they have children is irrelevant. Some couples either cannot have children or do not want them (for whatever reason). They are not considered somehow less valid family units because of their decision or circumstance. Husbands and wives are the nuclei of families from which all other possible permutations evolve. Granted, this is only my opinion. Very interesting question, by the way.
I agree that a husband and wife is a couple. If you add a kid or a live in parent then it becomes a family. A mom and kid make a family or a dad and kid can be a family, but just the husband and wife--that's a couple.
Husband and wife is considered a couple.
Boyfriend and girlfriend is also considered a couple.
But when the husband and wife make love and get a child/children its considered a family since now there united!
You are exactly right a husband and wife/ girlfriend and boyfriend would be called a couple and the husband and wife and child would be called a family.
It depends on the context. Like on a formal invitation or a sign or something, you would say ';Mr. and Mrs. Smith,'; but a more informal noting you could say ';The Smith Family.'; Just trust your own judgment.
i agree with you, i think a family is at least a wife, husband, or gf and bf, with at least one child,
like you said
hasband %26amp;wife called like couples.When having they first child it called small family.Hasband%26amp;wife with two childrens called a family. Hope i helped
';Family'; and ';couple'; are not mutually exclusive. A couple can be a family: a family of two.
Well you and your dad are kind of right by in some cases a mom and a dad can be called a family.
Well first you this is a opinion question so i think yes but other people may say no so you cant really tell your both wrong because there is no right question.
No a Husband and wife are a family, children are not necessary for the definition.
Usually called couple or husband and wife, not family.
haha. a husband and wife can be considered a family... I know lots of ppl who are a family but don't have kids... they have pets :)
No, once they are married they are a family with or without a child. At least that is what my insurance company says.
yes.
A couple is husband/wife , boyfriend/girlfriend.
When they have a child they are a family.
They are still Family...cause you now have a mother in law and father in law...so I would think that would make you a part of a family even with out kids!
My thought is that a couple is a family. And if children come about the family grows.
A couple is a family
i would call that a family!!!!!!
good luck %26lt;3
yes a family has to have a kid
Will I still be able to work if my husband is deployed in the airforce?
And how will I be able to take care of my child when I'm working? Is there child care on the base?Will I still be able to work if my husband is deployed in the airforce?
Absolutely. There is a Child Development Center on every base I've ever been to. Some of the larger bases have more than one. There is also a Family Child Care program at every base I've ever been to, which takes the overflow from the CDC if it's full.
My hubby is deployed Air Force. I have 3 kids, work full time, go to school at night, and can't wait for him to get home! lol Nothing is impossible if you're willing to put forth the effort.Will I still be able to work if my husband is deployed in the airforce?
Yes, most bases have child care. If not, find child care off base. Thousands of military wives work, go to school, take care of the kids, home, bills, groceries, and pets and MORE daily. There is no reason for you not to work.
Finding childcare will not be an issue. However, depending on your career field, finding a job may be.
Absolutely. There is a Child Development Center on every base I've ever been to. Some of the larger bases have more than one. There is also a Family Child Care program at every base I've ever been to, which takes the overflow from the CDC if it's full.
My hubby is deployed Air Force. I have 3 kids, work full time, go to school at night, and can't wait for him to get home! lol Nothing is impossible if you're willing to put forth the effort.Will I still be able to work if my husband is deployed in the airforce?
Yes, most bases have child care. If not, find child care off base. Thousands of military wives work, go to school, take care of the kids, home, bills, groceries, and pets and MORE daily. There is no reason for you not to work.
Finding childcare will not be an issue. However, depending on your career field, finding a job may be.
My friends husband is a marine and recently had two seizures. How will this effect his military career?
He hasn't had a seizure before this. I have heard that you cannot become a marine if you had a history of seizures, but he had his while on the job. Will he still be able to serve in some way, or will his contract be terminated? What can we expect?My friends husband is a marine and recently had two seizures. How will this effect his military career?
Hello mycatsasha
Sorry to hear this. Your friend's husband will probably be medically evaluated to determine if he is still eligible for worldwide duty. But a seizure is very serious as common sense tells us. What might happen is that he will be medically retired with a pension and he will have to be medically treated for his condition to keep it from becoming worse.
Best wishes.
Larry Smith
SMSgt, USAF (Ret.)
First SergeantMy friends husband is a marine and recently had two seizures. How will this effect his military career?
It will probably end it, though that will be up to the medical review board to decide. A medical discharge is a long process, it's not something that happens overnight.
Do you know what caused the seizures? That will make a world of difference.
He'll probably be released. Seizures can make him be a danger to himself and the men with him.
Hello mycatsasha
Sorry to hear this. Your friend's husband will probably be medically evaluated to determine if he is still eligible for worldwide duty. But a seizure is very serious as common sense tells us. What might happen is that he will be medically retired with a pension and he will have to be medically treated for his condition to keep it from becoming worse.
Best wishes.
Larry Smith
SMSgt, USAF (Ret.)
First SergeantMy friends husband is a marine and recently had two seizures. How will this effect his military career?
It will probably end it, though that will be up to the medical review board to decide. A medical discharge is a long process, it's not something that happens overnight.
Do you know what caused the seizures? That will make a world of difference.
He'll probably be released. Seizures can make him be a danger to himself and the men with him.
How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
So we have been married almost 9 years, and lately i don't feel that passion or intensity that we felt before. I know that things change in a marriage and we go through stages. But i want to ignite the fire of passion. We have 2 boys so it's not as passionate and we both work very hard. But we do have the weekends. Any and all advice will be appreciated, please don't ge rude.How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Well, firstly, understand that you don't automatically ';fall'; back in love.
This will be work on both parts.
A few helpful solutions:
1. Hire family, friends, or babysitter and the both of you go out on a date. Do NOT talk about the kids on that date. Very important.
2. Make sure you do physical activities that you BOTH enjoy!
3. When the kids are in bed, both of you spend time either doing interactive activities, absolutely nothing but sitting together, or both.
4. And lastly, do NOT let the ';boys'; come before you husband. And vice versa, they should not come before you as a wife.
Your marriage comes before everything, and kudos for reaching out for solutions to make that happen!
Making it work!How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Hi,
Well apart from what you can do your husband will have to do some things to make you fall in love with him again also. You can introduce some spontaneity %26amp; fire back into your marriage such as: wear lovely perfume for him while at home, nice make up, nail polish, sexy lingerie - spice things up a bit for him, have a nice bath together, prepare a nice dinner for him one of his favourites, massage each other. Go away for the weekend. Wear sexy clothes %26amp; heels while at home with him. Go on picnics, walks, send romantic %26amp; erotic messages to him during the day while at work %26amp; write notes for him just to let him know you're thinking of him %26amp; can't wait to see him that night. There's a few ideas.
Good luck.
Good for you for realizing the excitement can be re-created!!
Check out the work of Dr. David Schnarch, including his book ';Secrets of a Passionate Marriage'; Good information from someone who's made a study of the subject.
Another one is John Gottman's ';Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work'; This book is based on excellent research, and will help you and your husband ensure your marriage is on a solid footing so there's room for passion and intensity.
What you have to do is set aside some time for just you and your husband. Try and make arrangements for your boys to stay with a friend or grandparents for night. Plan ahead what you are going to do: Wear something sexy, cook a nice meal, soft lights, music and perhaps a massage. And remember, talk and listen to each other.
Have fun
hi zeeee--in my opion n my opion only--u cant fall back in love in some instances--u can make out have sex n enjoy it but that is not falling back in love--once u fall out u fall out peroid--i love haveing sex with an x but i dont think i could ever fall back in love with her--ok
if u want 2try n make it more passionate dinner--wine--lake--no boys--relax--teasing (ie short skirt/clevege)
It's a choice, just like being happy is a choice. Go out of your way to create that feeling for yourself again, as only you can do. And please talk to him about it.
Get someone to take the kids.
Make plans to be just the 2 of you and make the night a passionate one.
Get creative... and get the spark back.
first ya'll go into the woods and watch them little critters play'in around shor enuff when you a 'hearin that ole owl hoot caint be long afor nature is taki'n its course
you cant fall back in love with someone, the question is are you still in love? can you answer that.
juss start going on dates.
send the kids to a babysitter..or family member.
have fun like you guys use to..make out..idk..haha
ohh..one more thing..do you guys even talk.?
maby dats da problem..
KY jelly..always works!lips eye liner
Well, firstly, understand that you don't automatically ';fall'; back in love.
This will be work on both parts.
A few helpful solutions:
1. Hire family, friends, or babysitter and the both of you go out on a date. Do NOT talk about the kids on that date. Very important.
2. Make sure you do physical activities that you BOTH enjoy!
3. When the kids are in bed, both of you spend time either doing interactive activities, absolutely nothing but sitting together, or both.
4. And lastly, do NOT let the ';boys'; come before you husband. And vice versa, they should not come before you as a wife.
Your marriage comes before everything, and kudos for reaching out for solutions to make that happen!
Making it work!How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Hi,
Well apart from what you can do your husband will have to do some things to make you fall in love with him again also. You can introduce some spontaneity %26amp; fire back into your marriage such as: wear lovely perfume for him while at home, nice make up, nail polish, sexy lingerie - spice things up a bit for him, have a nice bath together, prepare a nice dinner for him one of his favourites, massage each other. Go away for the weekend. Wear sexy clothes %26amp; heels while at home with him. Go on picnics, walks, send romantic %26amp; erotic messages to him during the day while at work %26amp; write notes for him just to let him know you're thinking of him %26amp; can't wait to see him that night. There's a few ideas.
Good luck.
Good for you for realizing the excitement can be re-created!!
Check out the work of Dr. David Schnarch, including his book ';Secrets of a Passionate Marriage'; Good information from someone who's made a study of the subject.
Another one is John Gottman's ';Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work'; This book is based on excellent research, and will help you and your husband ensure your marriage is on a solid footing so there's room for passion and intensity.
What you have to do is set aside some time for just you and your husband. Try and make arrangements for your boys to stay with a friend or grandparents for night. Plan ahead what you are going to do: Wear something sexy, cook a nice meal, soft lights, music and perhaps a massage. And remember, talk and listen to each other.
Have fun
hi zeeee--in my opion n my opion only--u cant fall back in love in some instances--u can make out have sex n enjoy it but that is not falling back in love--once u fall out u fall out peroid--i love haveing sex with an x but i dont think i could ever fall back in love with her--ok
if u want 2try n make it more passionate dinner--wine--lake--no boys--relax--teasing (ie short skirt/clevege)
It's a choice, just like being happy is a choice. Go out of your way to create that feeling for yourself again, as only you can do. And please talk to him about it.
Get someone to take the kids.
Make plans to be just the 2 of you and make the night a passionate one.
Get creative... and get the spark back.
first ya'll go into the woods and watch them little critters play'in around shor enuff when you a 'hearin that ole owl hoot caint be long afor nature is taki'n its course
you cant fall back in love with someone, the question is are you still in love? can you answer that.
juss start going on dates.
send the kids to a babysitter..or family member.
have fun like you guys use to..make out..idk..haha
ohh..one more thing..do you guys even talk.?
maby dats da problem..
KY jelly..always works!
What are some good gift ideas to get my husband?
My husband is the most content person I have ever met. Anytime I ask him what he needs or would want he answers with, ';nothing.'; I like to get him things whether its for an occasion or not but I have run out of ideas. I have gotten him a lot of team memorabilia and other little things i thought he would like but doesn't even use. I need ideas... HELP please. ThanksWhat are some good gift ideas to get my husband?
Maybe a nice leather jacket?
OR, is he into cars/race cars?? I recently purchased this great gift from cloud9living.com for my boyfriend. He says its one of the best gifts ever. He will get to drive an actual race car around a real racetrack. You can purchase either 10 laps or 20 laps. The exciting thing is that you can drive as fast as you want.
What are some good gift ideas to get my husband?
sounds a lot like my husband...the only time he was ever truly surprised is when I picked him up at work, without our 3 children, with a change of clothes, didn't tell him where we were going, I had tickets to a concert...he was truly surprised, and we had a great time...he didn't so much act like it at the time, but I could tell, and now 4 years later, he brings it up as one of the best nights he's ever had...hope it helps...men, so complicated aren't they??!! lol..
Make a CD with his favorite music, dress up %26amp; do a striptease for him. He will never forget it and it will not cost you anything.
Get his car detailed for him.
Spending alot of money does not make a gift memorable or more likely to be used. Putting more thought into it does.
My husband is very easy to please - he likes a good meal and a long, relaxing back massage. I always try to buy him things he's been wanting, but he'd be happy with just a card and homemade birthday cake, too.
How about just giving him something simple yet useful. A briefcase perhaps? You can check this out http://www.executivegiftshoppe.com/brief鈥?/a>
Maybe a nice leather jacket?
OR, is he into cars/race cars?? I recently purchased this great gift from cloud9living.com for my boyfriend. He says its one of the best gifts ever. He will get to drive an actual race car around a real racetrack. You can purchase either 10 laps or 20 laps. The exciting thing is that you can drive as fast as you want.
What are some good gift ideas to get my husband?
sounds a lot like my husband...the only time he was ever truly surprised is when I picked him up at work, without our 3 children, with a change of clothes, didn't tell him where we were going, I had tickets to a concert...he was truly surprised, and we had a great time...he didn't so much act like it at the time, but I could tell, and now 4 years later, he brings it up as one of the best nights he's ever had...hope it helps...men, so complicated aren't they??!! lol..
Make a CD with his favorite music, dress up %26amp; do a striptease for him. He will never forget it and it will not cost you anything.
Get his car detailed for him.
Spending alot of money does not make a gift memorable or more likely to be used. Putting more thought into it does.
My husband is very easy to please - he likes a good meal and a long, relaxing back massage. I always try to buy him things he's been wanting, but he'd be happy with just a card and homemade birthday cake, too.
How about just giving him something simple yet useful. A briefcase perhaps? You can check this out http://www.executivegiftshoppe.com/brief鈥?/a>
I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
usual candles, tablecloth, soft music ect...any ideas? Keep it clean please, rude answers are not welcome.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
A large bowl of your favorite salad. Just one bowl and no untensils. The two of you eat directly from the bowl with your fingers. You can do the same with just about any finger food. Sounds a little crazy, but it's very sensual and romantic.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
Carpet picnic! Spread out a nice blanket, grab a few pillows, pop in a movie, and pretend you're having a picnic in the park or beach. At least I think it's romantic, that's how my ex-husband proposed to me!
here are some thoughts....
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance鈥?/a>
Stuffing:
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, 1 turn of the pan
2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces
2 ribs celery, with greens, from the heart of the stalk, chopped
1 medium onion, chopped
1 bay leaf, fresh or dried
Salt and pepper
2 cranberry orange muffins, from the baked goods section of your market
2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves, a few sprigs, stems removed
1 cup chicken stock
Turkey Cutlets and Gravy:
1 1/3 pounds turkey breast cutlets, the average weight of 1 package
Salt and pepper
1 teaspoon poultry seasoning
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
2 tablespoons butter, cut in small pieces
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 cups chicken stock
Chopped flat-leaf parsley, for garnish, optional
Stuffing: Heat olive oil and butter in a medium skillet over moderate heat. When the butter melts, add the celery, onion, and bay leaf. Season with salt and pepper. Crumble the muffins into the pan and combine with the vegetables. Add thyme and chicken stock. Cook stuffing 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then remove from heat and let stand in the warm pan.
Turkey and Gravy: Preheat a large skillet over medium high heat and add the olive oil. Season turkey cutlets with salt, pepper and poultry seasoning. Saute 5 minutes on each side, then transfer cutlets to a warm plate and cover plate with aluminum foil. Return skillet to stove and reduce heat a bit. Add butter, then flour to the melted butter. Cook flour and butter a minute or two, stirring with a whisk. Whisk in chicken stock. Reduce the stock 2 or 3 minutes, to desired gravy consistency. Season with salt and pepper, to your taste.
To serve, mound cranberry orange stuffing onto each dinner plate using an ice cream scoop. Rest sauteed turkey cutlets on top of the stuffing and cover the turkey with gravy. Garnish with chopped parsley.
Other Recipes from this Episode
Bourbon Pecan Smashed Sweet Potatoes
Brussels Sprouts with Bacon
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Turkey Cutlets with Mushroom and Water Chestnut Stuffing and Pan Gravy
What a Face! Open Faced Hot Turkey Sammys with Sausage Stuffing and Gravy, Smashed Potatoes with Bacon, Warm Apple Cranberry Sauce
The Turducken: Boneless Turkey Stuffed with a Boneless Duck and Boneless Chicken ';One Big Bird';
Brined Roast Turkey with Pan Gravy
Turkey with Cornbread Stuffing and Gravy
Clean? Forget about the candles and soft music. Just give the guy what he wants most.
A large bowl of your favorite salad. Just one bowl and no untensils. The two of you eat directly from the bowl with your fingers. You can do the same with just about any finger food. Sounds a little crazy, but it's very sensual and romantic.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
Carpet picnic! Spread out a nice blanket, grab a few pillows, pop in a movie, and pretend you're having a picnic in the park or beach. At least I think it's romantic, that's how my ex-husband proposed to me!
here are some thoughts....
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance鈥?/a>
Stuffing:
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, 1 turn of the pan
2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces
2 ribs celery, with greens, from the heart of the stalk, chopped
1 medium onion, chopped
1 bay leaf, fresh or dried
Salt and pepper
2 cranberry orange muffins, from the baked goods section of your market
2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves, a few sprigs, stems removed
1 cup chicken stock
Turkey Cutlets and Gravy:
1 1/3 pounds turkey breast cutlets, the average weight of 1 package
Salt and pepper
1 teaspoon poultry seasoning
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
2 tablespoons butter, cut in small pieces
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 cups chicken stock
Chopped flat-leaf parsley, for garnish, optional
Stuffing: Heat olive oil and butter in a medium skillet over moderate heat. When the butter melts, add the celery, onion, and bay leaf. Season with salt and pepper. Crumble the muffins into the pan and combine with the vegetables. Add thyme and chicken stock. Cook stuffing 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then remove from heat and let stand in the warm pan.
Turkey and Gravy: Preheat a large skillet over medium high heat and add the olive oil. Season turkey cutlets with salt, pepper and poultry seasoning. Saute 5 minutes on each side, then transfer cutlets to a warm plate and cover plate with aluminum foil. Return skillet to stove and reduce heat a bit. Add butter, then flour to the melted butter. Cook flour and butter a minute or two, stirring with a whisk. Whisk in chicken stock. Reduce the stock 2 or 3 minutes, to desired gravy consistency. Season with salt and pepper, to your taste.
To serve, mound cranberry orange stuffing onto each dinner plate using an ice cream scoop. Rest sauteed turkey cutlets on top of the stuffing and cover the turkey with gravy. Garnish with chopped parsley.
Other Recipes from this Episode
Bourbon Pecan Smashed Sweet Potatoes
Brussels Sprouts with Bacon
More Recipes Like This
Turkey Cutlets with Mushroom and Water Chestnut Stuffing and Pan Gravy
What a Face! Open Faced Hot Turkey Sammys with Sausage Stuffing and Gravy, Smashed Potatoes with Bacon, Warm Apple Cranberry Sauce
The Turducken: Boneless Turkey Stuffed with a Boneless Duck and Boneless Chicken ';One Big Bird';
Brined Roast Turkey with Pan Gravy
Turkey with Cornbread Stuffing and Gravy
Clean? Forget about the candles and soft music. Just give the guy what he wants most.
I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
My husband and I have been dating for 6 years but only married for a month and a half. This Christmas is our first, and I'd love to start a new tradition, or perhaps even adopt an old tradition that I don't know about. Suggestions?I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
I'm not sure how things go in your house, who does the decorating and what-not, but the two of you should maybe pick a movie you both love and watch it on Christmas Eve. I know my family watches the ';A Christmas Story'; marathon every year on Christmas. Also, you could pick a night when you are both off work and decorate the tree together. I'm not sure where you live, but you could do an activity such as Caroling. But, remember, this is your Christmas, not ours, and sometimes traditions start when you dont even know they have been started!I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
Pick out a Christmas ornament together every year for your tree. This year get a ';First Christmas Together'; ornament. Make sure every ornament has the year on it.
If your a Christian you can have a ';Happy Birthday Jesus'; party with a birthday cake.
my husband and i got married last year on new year's eve, so this is our first christmas as a married couple as well. we are starting our own traditions this year, too.
each of us will write the other a letter and put it in his/her stocking on christmas eve to be read on christmas morning.
we will also each pick out one ornament every year that reminds us of the other, and give it as a gift.
we are considering finding a holiday meal to use as ';our'; traditional meal, as well. probably breakfast, since we do my parent's house on eve and his parents' on day.
We do stockings and the stuffers have been kinda traditional in the fact that he always gets socks, aftershave, a bathroom book, magazine subscription - that kinda thing. Kinda boring but we look forward to it every year.
We never had kids and felt that there was WAYYY too much early morning Hype. So wed wait until 12:01 (In keeping with the mandates of our parents to NOT open the presents till Christmas) open presents.. Then wed flip a coin. Whoever lost had to get up earlier than the other and make breakfast.
we always buy an ornament and put the year on it then every when we decorate the tree it is interesting to see how our taste has changed over the years. Now I buy ornaments for my kids. Ones that they choose. so they'll have them when they have a tree of their own.
A Christmas ornament every year, with the year on the ornament.
Stockings that are personalized.
Set up a holiday village and choose a new piece to add to the village each year.
We've done the above 3 not since we were married but ever since our 1st child's 1st christmas. I wish we started these traditions the 1st year we got married...oh well...at least we started for our baby's 1st christmas.
me and my wife are going to cook a dinner together you could make that your tradition maiking something new together each year or even making the same thing.
I'm not sure how things go in your house, who does the decorating and what-not, but the two of you should maybe pick a movie you both love and watch it on Christmas Eve. I know my family watches the ';A Christmas Story'; marathon every year on Christmas. Also, you could pick a night when you are both off work and decorate the tree together. I'm not sure where you live, but you could do an activity such as Caroling. But, remember, this is your Christmas, not ours, and sometimes traditions start when you dont even know they have been started!I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
Pick out a Christmas ornament together every year for your tree. This year get a ';First Christmas Together'; ornament. Make sure every ornament has the year on it.
If your a Christian you can have a ';Happy Birthday Jesus'; party with a birthday cake.
my husband and i got married last year on new year's eve, so this is our first christmas as a married couple as well. we are starting our own traditions this year, too.
each of us will write the other a letter and put it in his/her stocking on christmas eve to be read on christmas morning.
we will also each pick out one ornament every year that reminds us of the other, and give it as a gift.
we are considering finding a holiday meal to use as ';our'; traditional meal, as well. probably breakfast, since we do my parent's house on eve and his parents' on day.
We do stockings and the stuffers have been kinda traditional in the fact that he always gets socks, aftershave, a bathroom book, magazine subscription - that kinda thing. Kinda boring but we look forward to it every year.
We never had kids and felt that there was WAYYY too much early morning Hype. So wed wait until 12:01 (In keeping with the mandates of our parents to NOT open the presents till Christmas) open presents.. Then wed flip a coin. Whoever lost had to get up earlier than the other and make breakfast.
we always buy an ornament and put the year on it then every when we decorate the tree it is interesting to see how our taste has changed over the years. Now I buy ornaments for my kids. Ones that they choose. so they'll have them when they have a tree of their own.
A Christmas ornament every year, with the year on the ornament.
Stockings that are personalized.
Set up a holiday village and choose a new piece to add to the village each year.
We've done the above 3 not since we were married but ever since our 1st child's 1st christmas. I wish we started these traditions the 1st year we got married...oh well...at least we started for our baby's 1st christmas.
me and my wife are going to cook a dinner together you could make that your tradition maiking something new together each year or even making the same thing.
What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?
I remember a movie where the husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home, and I believe an investigator comes to their house to check on him in regards to the ';dissaperance'; of his wife and there is a small drop of blood on the stairs and the husband says it's do to a cut on his toe. Point is I can't remember the name help me!!!What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?
Are you maybe talking about Disturbia with Shia Labouf.What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?
You could be thinking about 10 Rillington Place, starring Richard Attenborough and John Hurt
Are you maybe talking about Disturbia with Shia Labouf.What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?
You could be thinking about 10 Rillington Place, starring Richard Attenborough and John Hurt
What would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?
I was just wondering if anyone has some real insight on this...not rude remarks but thoughts on why this would be exciting to a woman?What would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?
i highly doubt when they call their man ';daddy'; that they are thinking of him as a father figure, or even thinking of their own dad. it is just something some people are into. believe me there is way more nasty things that can be said lolWhat would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?
I've been married to my hubs for 16 years and I could never call him daddy, I would just start laughing, only because sometimes when he gets out of the shower he'll do the: ';look at me I'm naked dance'; and then says: who's your daddy? It cracks me up!
Many young women are only attracted to older men and some may have had attractions to their own fathers or father figures, the authority they represent.
Oedipus complex :) Look it up, it's real...
I personally wouldn't get horribly turned on by that though, that'd probably be a HUGE turnoff for me...
I don't know if it's exciting to the woman (it's not exciting to me) but I know my husband likes me to call him that.
that would be sick lol but feeding her i guess (i'm a guy i can't help remarking rudely)
I've always wondered that too... lol... but if he likes it, ima do it! lol
i highly doubt when they call their man ';daddy'; that they are thinking of him as a father figure, or even thinking of their own dad. it is just something some people are into. believe me there is way more nasty things that can be said lolWhat would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?
I've been married to my hubs for 16 years and I could never call him daddy, I would just start laughing, only because sometimes when he gets out of the shower he'll do the: ';look at me I'm naked dance'; and then says: who's your daddy? It cracks me up!
Many young women are only attracted to older men and some may have had attractions to their own fathers or father figures, the authority they represent.
Oedipus complex :) Look it up, it's real...
I personally wouldn't get horribly turned on by that though, that'd probably be a HUGE turnoff for me...
I don't know if it's exciting to the woman (it's not exciting to me) but I know my husband likes me to call him that.
that would be sick lol but feeding her i guess (i'm a guy i can't help remarking rudely)
I've always wondered that too... lol... but if he likes it, ima do it! lol
I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
usual candles, tablecloth, soft music ect...any ideas? Keep it clean please, rude answers are not welcome.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
A large bowl of your favorite salad. Just one bowl and no untensils. The two of you eat directly from the bowl with your fingers. You can do the same with just about any finger food. Sounds a little crazy, but it's very sensual and romantic.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
Carpet picnic! Spread out a nice blanket, grab a few pillows, pop in a movie, and pretend you're having a picnic in the park or beach. At least I think it's romantic, that's how my ex-husband proposed to me!
here are some thoughts....
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance鈥?/a>
Stuffing:
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, 1 turn of the pan
2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces
2 ribs celery, with greens, from the heart of the stalk, chopped
1 medium onion, chopped
1 bay leaf, fresh or dried
Salt and pepper
2 cranberry orange muffins, from the baked goods section of your market
2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves, a few sprigs, stems removed
1 cup chicken stock
Turkey Cutlets and Gravy:
1 1/3 pounds turkey breast cutlets, the average weight of 1 package
Salt and pepper
1 teaspoon poultry seasoning
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
2 tablespoons butter, cut in small pieces
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 cups chicken stock
Chopped flat-leaf parsley, for garnish, optional
Stuffing: Heat olive oil and butter in a medium skillet over moderate heat. When the butter melts, add the celery, onion, and bay leaf. Season with salt and pepper. Crumble the muffins into the pan and combine with the vegetables. Add thyme and chicken stock. Cook stuffing 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then remove from heat and let stand in the warm pan.
Turkey and Gravy: Preheat a large skillet over medium high heat and add the olive oil. Season turkey cutlets with salt, pepper and poultry seasoning. Saute 5 minutes on each side, then transfer cutlets to a warm plate and cover plate with aluminum foil. Return skillet to stove and reduce heat a bit. Add butter, then flour to the melted butter. Cook flour and butter a minute or two, stirring with a whisk. Whisk in chicken stock. Reduce the stock 2 or 3 minutes, to desired gravy consistency. Season with salt and pepper, to your taste.
To serve, mound cranberry orange stuffing onto each dinner plate using an ice cream scoop. Rest sauteed turkey cutlets on top of the stuffing and cover the turkey with gravy. Garnish with chopped parsley.
Other Recipes from this Episode
Bourbon Pecan Smashed Sweet Potatoes
Brussels Sprouts with Bacon
More Recipes Like This
Turkey Cutlets with Mushroom and Water Chestnut Stuffing and Pan Gravy
What a Face! Open Faced Hot Turkey Sammys with Sausage Stuffing and Gravy, Smashed Potatoes with Bacon, Warm Apple Cranberry Sauce
The Turducken: Boneless Turkey Stuffed with a Boneless Duck and Boneless Chicken ';One Big Bird';
Brined Roast Turkey with Pan Gravy
Turkey with Cornbread Stuffing and Gravy
Clean? Forget about the candles and soft music. Just give the guy what he wants most.maybelline eye liner
A large bowl of your favorite salad. Just one bowl and no untensils. The two of you eat directly from the bowl with your fingers. You can do the same with just about any finger food. Sounds a little crazy, but it's very sensual and romantic.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
Carpet picnic! Spread out a nice blanket, grab a few pillows, pop in a movie, and pretend you're having a picnic in the park or beach. At least I think it's romantic, that's how my ex-husband proposed to me!
here are some thoughts....
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance鈥?/a>
Stuffing:
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, 1 turn of the pan
2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces
2 ribs celery, with greens, from the heart of the stalk, chopped
1 medium onion, chopped
1 bay leaf, fresh or dried
Salt and pepper
2 cranberry orange muffins, from the baked goods section of your market
2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves, a few sprigs, stems removed
1 cup chicken stock
Turkey Cutlets and Gravy:
1 1/3 pounds turkey breast cutlets, the average weight of 1 package
Salt and pepper
1 teaspoon poultry seasoning
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
2 tablespoons butter, cut in small pieces
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 cups chicken stock
Chopped flat-leaf parsley, for garnish, optional
Stuffing: Heat olive oil and butter in a medium skillet over moderate heat. When the butter melts, add the celery, onion, and bay leaf. Season with salt and pepper. Crumble the muffins into the pan and combine with the vegetables. Add thyme and chicken stock. Cook stuffing 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then remove from heat and let stand in the warm pan.
Turkey and Gravy: Preheat a large skillet over medium high heat and add the olive oil. Season turkey cutlets with salt, pepper and poultry seasoning. Saute 5 minutes on each side, then transfer cutlets to a warm plate and cover plate with aluminum foil. Return skillet to stove and reduce heat a bit. Add butter, then flour to the melted butter. Cook flour and butter a minute or two, stirring with a whisk. Whisk in chicken stock. Reduce the stock 2 or 3 minutes, to desired gravy consistency. Season with salt and pepper, to your taste.
To serve, mound cranberry orange stuffing onto each dinner plate using an ice cream scoop. Rest sauteed turkey cutlets on top of the stuffing and cover the turkey with gravy. Garnish with chopped parsley.
Other Recipes from this Episode
Bourbon Pecan Smashed Sweet Potatoes
Brussels Sprouts with Bacon
More Recipes Like This
Turkey Cutlets with Mushroom and Water Chestnut Stuffing and Pan Gravy
What a Face! Open Faced Hot Turkey Sammys with Sausage Stuffing and Gravy, Smashed Potatoes with Bacon, Warm Apple Cranberry Sauce
The Turducken: Boneless Turkey Stuffed with a Boneless Duck and Boneless Chicken ';One Big Bird';
Brined Roast Turkey with Pan Gravy
Turkey with Cornbread Stuffing and Gravy
Clean? Forget about the candles and soft music. Just give the guy what he wants most.
If my husband wanted to change careers what kind of financial aide would be available for him?
He's been a cabinet maker since before we even met and we'll be married 10yrs this month.He's the main provider for now and we have 2 kids in school.If he wanted to go to school so he could change careers what kind of aide could he possibly get?Or would it mostly it depend on the school?If my husband wanted to change careers what kind of financial aide would be available for him?
The deadline for Fasfa forms for best consideration for the 2009-2010 school year is March 1.
http://www.fafsa.ed.govIf my husband wanted to change careers what kind of financial aide would be available for him?
He'd have to start by filling out the FAFSA, the same as any other college student who wants to get financial aid:
http://www.fafsa.ed.gov/
Once he's done that, he can talk to the people in the financial aid office of the school he plans to attend. They'll be able to give him a rough idea of how much and what type of financial aid he'll be able to expect from them.
Here's a good site to start looking for scholarships, grants, and loans:
http://www.finaid.org/
The deadline for Fasfa forms for best consideration for the 2009-2010 school year is March 1.
http://www.fafsa.ed.govIf my husband wanted to change careers what kind of financial aide would be available for him?
He'd have to start by filling out the FAFSA, the same as any other college student who wants to get financial aid:
http://www.fafsa.ed.gov/
Once he's done that, he can talk to the people in the financial aid office of the school he plans to attend. They'll be able to give him a rough idea of how much and what type of financial aid he'll be able to expect from them.
Here's a good site to start looking for scholarships, grants, and loans:
http://www.finaid.org/
Should my husband have to take my son into a public restroom?
My son is almost 10, but feels scared to go alone for some reason. My husband doesn't mind, but we both feel he is old enough and will be fine.Should my husband have to take my son into a public restroom?
If he is scared then one of you should always take him into public restrooms until he gets over his fear. He is only 9. Maybe he is mature in some ways but he is still just a little boy.
Kids imaginations can be very vivid. Maybe someone told him a horror story about something happening to someone in a public bathroom?
He will grow out of it. But let him do it in his own time. He will be fine. And you can never be too careful.Should my husband have to take my son into a public restroom?
2 years ago and 8yr old needed to go to the toilet at a normal everyday shopping centre in a decent area. Her uncle didn't want to go in with her for obvious reasons. So he waited out side the hallway that led to the toilets. Time past and she did not come out. She had been rape and murdered.
Your son's fears a real and I don't blame him for not wanting to go alone. Me and my kids always go to the disabled toilet together.
it always makes me a little uneasy... but i just remind my son that there are weirdos out there and not to talk to anyone. I dont' have much choice - i can't exactly go into the mens room (although sometimes i have knocked to see if anyone was in there first).
edit - if he's scared, something or someone scared him. don't make him unnecessarily paranoid about the world. it isn't as bad as the media makes it out to be.
Don't force him to go in there alone if he doesn't want to. Personally I would be happy to take my child into the bathroom as long as he/she wants. It might seem annoying to you at times and it might slow you down, but think about all the missing child cases that happen every single day and be happy your kid wants to stay in sight.
If I was your husband, I would go with him. Too may nut cases out there.
there must be a reason of this
something must have happened in the past
looks like a standard case of phobia
consult a psychologist
If he doesn't want to go alone, then your husband ( being a good father ) should go with him.
( Connie Mom of 4 and 5th. Grade Teacher )
Yes if he is scared, plus you don't know what kind of people could be in there so it is safer anyway.
If he is scared then one of you should always take him into public restrooms until he gets over his fear. He is only 9. Maybe he is mature in some ways but he is still just a little boy.
Kids imaginations can be very vivid. Maybe someone told him a horror story about something happening to someone in a public bathroom?
He will grow out of it. But let him do it in his own time. He will be fine. And you can never be too careful.Should my husband have to take my son into a public restroom?
2 years ago and 8yr old needed to go to the toilet at a normal everyday shopping centre in a decent area. Her uncle didn't want to go in with her for obvious reasons. So he waited out side the hallway that led to the toilets. Time past and she did not come out. She had been rape and murdered.
Your son's fears a real and I don't blame him for not wanting to go alone. Me and my kids always go to the disabled toilet together.
it always makes me a little uneasy... but i just remind my son that there are weirdos out there and not to talk to anyone. I dont' have much choice - i can't exactly go into the mens room (although sometimes i have knocked to see if anyone was in there first).
edit - if he's scared, something or someone scared him. don't make him unnecessarily paranoid about the world. it isn't as bad as the media makes it out to be.
Don't force him to go in there alone if he doesn't want to. Personally I would be happy to take my child into the bathroom as long as he/she wants. It might seem annoying to you at times and it might slow you down, but think about all the missing child cases that happen every single day and be happy your kid wants to stay in sight.
If I was your husband, I would go with him. Too may nut cases out there.
there must be a reason of this
something must have happened in the past
looks like a standard case of phobia
consult a psychologist
If he doesn't want to go alone, then your husband ( being a good father ) should go with him.
( Connie Mom of 4 and 5th. Grade Teacher )
Yes if he is scared, plus you don't know what kind of people could be in there so it is safer anyway.
Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?
I have been married to my husband for eight months. I am 22 he is 31. We have sex once every 7-10 day. Even on our honeymoon we didn't have sex everyday. I don't know what to do. I have tried everything. Lingerie, candlelight dinners, massages, weekend getaways, and of course talking, but no improvement. We cuddle lots, and kiss and touch daily, but no intercourse. Is this normal?Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?
Ok ... here's the thing:
If you buy a short, black dress, you don't go home and then complain that it's red and long, right?
You don't go fishing and think that you're gonna catch a chicken, do you?
You don't pick up a puppy and expect it to purr and meow at you ... but that's exactly what you're doing expecting your husband to want more sex.
THIS is who he is, ok? He's a guy with a low sex drive - you probably knew it before you married him, so you can't complain about it now.
Be grateful that he's affectionate in other ways, and accept him as he is TODAY. If you can't do this, then you're in for a long and cold marriage, because the more you talk about it and try to get him to change, the more likely you are of pushing him away.
I suggest a different approach. DON'T bring it up. DON'T pursue him. Let him come to you. Be silent on the subject of sex completely. Don't talk about it, don't suggest, nudge, cajole, manipulate or in other way bring sex into any dialogue that you have with him for a month. Now, if he brings it up, then talk, but on HIS terms from HIS perspective.
Have you ever watched ballroom dancing? Because in ballroom, the man leads and the woman follows. It's about the only element in the world anymore where the man is in charge. Why don't you let him do the leading for a while and see how that works ?
Best of luck !!Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?
He could try viagra but I will tell ya what, that stuff sucks. The side effects are terrible. Has he ever tried a sexual enhancer? I was in his situation, like I said, viagra was tried but it wasn't for me considering the side effects overwhelm the pleasures of it. I found this natural herbal enhancer and figured what the heck, if it's natural it must be great and plus it said no side effects. I tried it and after about two days of taking it I was just horny like a mad man. All the time, I have erections that want to stand straight up and the orgasms are to die for. The stuff was called vigrx plus and I saved on it at the time at http://hughs-reviews .com You should tell him to check it out. I love the fact it's made from a researched blend of herbs that seem to do the trick for me atleast.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
He needs to get a sex hormone blood test from a doctor. He may have low testosterone levels that keep his sex drive at a minimum. This can easily be corrected. I would encourage you to see an endocrinologist and have this simple blood test taken. It can either rule in or out if his sex hormones are at the right levels.
Explain to him that if he only makes you feel desirable once every 10 days, or worse even less often, it's going to take a toll on your own sex drive and your sexual self confidence...and then the real downward spiral begins which ultimately leads to huge resentment and a complete lack of intimacy which damages the marriage.
Some people just have a low sex drive. That or he just doesn't like sex...would you say the sex is good when you do have it, or so/so? If it's so/so, a sex counselor might be a good investment.
There are Many, many men with low sex drives. Normal. Talk to a doctor if this bothers you and perhaps he can give your husband something, if he's willing
Good Luck
some men just have lower sex drives it could be to a medical reason but if its been like this since the get go maybe not talk to him about it thats the only way something can be done about it
Have him get checked medically, especially his testosterone level.
Age doesn't have much to do with it. My husband has a very low sex drive as well and he just turned 29.
Not at all normal...You would have had me with the lingerie......
age has nothing to do with it. its the person..! Havin the same prob! lol
very well could be
Ok ... here's the thing:
If you buy a short, black dress, you don't go home and then complain that it's red and long, right?
You don't go fishing and think that you're gonna catch a chicken, do you?
You don't pick up a puppy and expect it to purr and meow at you ... but that's exactly what you're doing expecting your husband to want more sex.
THIS is who he is, ok? He's a guy with a low sex drive - you probably knew it before you married him, so you can't complain about it now.
Be grateful that he's affectionate in other ways, and accept him as he is TODAY. If you can't do this, then you're in for a long and cold marriage, because the more you talk about it and try to get him to change, the more likely you are of pushing him away.
I suggest a different approach. DON'T bring it up. DON'T pursue him. Let him come to you. Be silent on the subject of sex completely. Don't talk about it, don't suggest, nudge, cajole, manipulate or in other way bring sex into any dialogue that you have with him for a month. Now, if he brings it up, then talk, but on HIS terms from HIS perspective.
Have you ever watched ballroom dancing? Because in ballroom, the man leads and the woman follows. It's about the only element in the world anymore where the man is in charge. Why don't you let him do the leading for a while and see how that works ?
Best of luck !!Is my husband too young to have low sex drive?
He could try viagra but I will tell ya what, that stuff sucks. The side effects are terrible. Has he ever tried a sexual enhancer? I was in his situation, like I said, viagra was tried but it wasn't for me considering the side effects overwhelm the pleasures of it. I found this natural herbal enhancer and figured what the heck, if it's natural it must be great and plus it said no side effects. I tried it and after about two days of taking it I was just horny like a mad man. All the time, I have erections that want to stand straight up and the orgasms are to die for. The stuff was called vigrx plus and I saved on it at the time at http://hughs-reviews .com You should tell him to check it out. I love the fact it's made from a researched blend of herbs that seem to do the trick for me atleast.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
He needs to get a sex hormone blood test from a doctor. He may have low testosterone levels that keep his sex drive at a minimum. This can easily be corrected. I would encourage you to see an endocrinologist and have this simple blood test taken. It can either rule in or out if his sex hormones are at the right levels.
Explain to him that if he only makes you feel desirable once every 10 days, or worse even less often, it's going to take a toll on your own sex drive and your sexual self confidence...and then the real downward spiral begins which ultimately leads to huge resentment and a complete lack of intimacy which damages the marriage.
Some people just have a low sex drive. That or he just doesn't like sex...would you say the sex is good when you do have it, or so/so? If it's so/so, a sex counselor might be a good investment.
There are Many, many men with low sex drives. Normal. Talk to a doctor if this bothers you and perhaps he can give your husband something, if he's willing
Good Luck
some men just have lower sex drives it could be to a medical reason but if its been like this since the get go maybe not talk to him about it thats the only way something can be done about it
Have him get checked medically, especially his testosterone level.
Age doesn't have much to do with it. My husband has a very low sex drive as well and he just turned 29.
Not at all normal...You would have had me with the lingerie......
age has nothing to do with it. its the person..! Havin the same prob! lol
very well could be
How can I make the night romantic for my husband?
My husband and I live 600 miles away do to the different work he does,etc. However he's coming home really soon to visit for a long week and I wanted to do something very romantic and surprising. I haven't seen my husband (besides pics/web cam) in almost a year! TMI:but it's gonna be like the very 1st time. and I wanted2try something diff. in that dept. we're doing his/her massages,and stuff like that. But, please help!!! Please!How can I make the night romantic for my husband?
I think whatever happens, your husband is going to love it. It's very sweet of you to want to please him, but I think just being able to hold you, touch you and make love to you is going to do it for him, especially after a whole year! Guys are simple, they don't ask for much. Tell him how much you have missed him and just be there for him in general. He will love all the attention.How can I make the night romantic for my husband?
Try to give him what he always wanted.
I think whatever happens, your husband is going to love it. It's very sweet of you to want to please him, but I think just being able to hold you, touch you and make love to you is going to do it for him, especially after a whole year! Guys are simple, they don't ask for much. Tell him how much you have missed him and just be there for him in general. He will love all the attention.How can I make the night romantic for my husband?
Try to give him what he always wanted.
I live in NYS and my employer no longer offers good cheap insurance for myself and my husband?
We dont qualify for state assistance bc we dont have kids. I just want insurance that isnt going to cost me a grand a month...does anyone have any info on insurance providers that doesnt take a genius to understand? honest answers PLEASE :(I live in NYS and my employer no longer offers good cheap insurance for myself and my husband?
Your best bet is to go to a site like, ehealthinsurance.com or something...there are certainly individual plans available that won't cost you a grand. Healthy NY is availble depending on your income...I live in NYS and my employer no longer offers good cheap insurance for myself and my husband?
ehealthinsurance.com is great and will give a bunch of different options and they are very helpful. It's completely a foreign language!
Your best bet is to go to a site like, ehealthinsurance.com or something...there are certainly individual plans available that won't cost you a grand. Healthy NY is availble depending on your income...I live in NYS and my employer no longer offers good cheap insurance for myself and my husband?
ehealthinsurance.com is great and will give a bunch of different options and they are very helpful. It's completely a foreign language!
Anyone have advice on a mission trip for my husband and I to go on for 6-12 months?
My husband and I are looking for a mission opportunity to serve for about 6-12 months. He is the superintendant of a construction company and I work with eyecare (dispensing glasses). I've also been a nanny, so I love working with kids. If you have any leads as to where we could go, preferably affiliated with a church organization, that wuold be great. Thank you so much for your help!!! God bless!!
Tanner and JanaAnyone have advice on a mission trip for my husband and I to go on for 6-12 months?
I don't know if you are looking for somewhere in the states or elsewhere...I went to Louisiana last year, it was so awesome and I cannot even tell you how badly I want to go back! Another place you could go is Africa, there is a company called World Vision that is great, you could talk to them and see about whatever. I hope this helped. It is so awesome of you to do God's work. Serve Him and put Him first! Thanks for being a light in this darkness.Anyone have advice on a mission trip for my husband and I to go on for 6-12 months?
For Eye Care you could click on the below link, while it is not exactly church affiliated they usually work along side missions etc so you could get in the door that way maybe?maybelline eye liner
Tanner and JanaAnyone have advice on a mission trip for my husband and I to go on for 6-12 months?
I don't know if you are looking for somewhere in the states or elsewhere...I went to Louisiana last year, it was so awesome and I cannot even tell you how badly I want to go back! Another place you could go is Africa, there is a company called World Vision that is great, you could talk to them and see about whatever. I hope this helped. It is so awesome of you to do God's work. Serve Him and put Him first! Thanks for being a light in this darkness.Anyone have advice on a mission trip for my husband and I to go on for 6-12 months?
For Eye Care you could click on the below link, while it is not exactly church affiliated they usually work along side missions etc so you could get in the door that way maybe?
Since my husband had his thyroid removed due to Graves, he is intolerant to temps over 70. What can help?
He definitely needs to adjust his dosage. Heat intolerance is a sign of hyperthyroidism (like Graves) so he's probably on a dose too high for him. What's his TSH level? Normal is about 1.0-2.0. Lowering his levothyroxine dosage will increase his TSH and he'll be able to handle hot weather.
My TSH is suppressed to 0.01 after having thyroid cancer. My synthroid dose is extremely high in order to suppress my TSH. I can't handle temps above 70. If I lower my dose, i'd be able to handle the heat but I can't lower the dose because that would be an invitation for my cancer to return.Since my husband had his thyroid removed due to Graves, he is intolerant to temps over 70. What can help?
Speak to his GP - I assume he is on something like Thyroxine and its possible the dose needs altered xxxSince my husband had his thyroid removed due to Graves, he is intolerant to temps over 70. What can help?
move to alaska
Tell him to use a fan
My TSH is suppressed to 0.01 after having thyroid cancer. My synthroid dose is extremely high in order to suppress my TSH. I can't handle temps above 70. If I lower my dose, i'd be able to handle the heat but I can't lower the dose because that would be an invitation for my cancer to return.Since my husband had his thyroid removed due to Graves, he is intolerant to temps over 70. What can help?
Speak to his GP - I assume he is on something like Thyroxine and its possible the dose needs altered xxxSince my husband had his thyroid removed due to Graves, he is intolerant to temps over 70. What can help?
move to alaska
Tell him to use a fan
My new husband would like to adopt from children from a previous relationship, what is the proper procedure?
I have three kids from a previous relationship who have no contact with their father. My new husband wants to adopt them as his own, so what is the process for us to do in order to make that happen?My new husband would like to adopt from children from a previous relationship, what is the proper procedure?
Erinn's right - he has to relinquish all rights to the children. You'll need to talk to a lawyer who will write up the paperwork, and then have him sign it. Now, if you haven't seen him and you don't know where he is, there's a 90-day wait period (I think) where if he's not found by the lawyer within that time frame, your new husband can automatically adopt them. That's in Canada, but I believe it's similar in the US. Talk to a lawyer first and see what you can do, and if you know where he is then it's a moot point anyway.My new husband would like to adopt from children from a previous relationship, what is the proper procedure?
First and foremost, their biological father must legally relinquish his parental rights. Usually, it is a simple process. He just has to sign paperwork. Then, you can proceed with the actual adoption process.
(Those are Georgia standards anyway)
Erinn's right - he has to relinquish all rights to the children. You'll need to talk to a lawyer who will write up the paperwork, and then have him sign it. Now, if you haven't seen him and you don't know where he is, there's a 90-day wait period (I think) where if he's not found by the lawyer within that time frame, your new husband can automatically adopt them. That's in Canada, but I believe it's similar in the US. Talk to a lawyer first and see what you can do, and if you know where he is then it's a moot point anyway.My new husband would like to adopt from children from a previous relationship, what is the proper procedure?
First and foremost, their biological father must legally relinquish his parental rights. Usually, it is a simple process. He just has to sign paperwork. Then, you can proceed with the actual adoption process.
(Those are Georgia standards anyway)
My estranged husband filed taxes without me and did not include me on them. What should I do?
I filed mine with my income only, but file married filing separately. In California when you file MFS you are supposed to add both incomes together and then each file half, but I have no info on his income. Should I contact the IRS or will they catch this. I included his name and SS# on my return, he did not include mine on his.My estranged husband filed taxes without me and did not include me on them. What should I do?
katawabe apparently prepares taxes in a non community property state and (I hope!) and never heard of community property laws.
That said, yes, contact the IRS.My estranged husband filed taxes without me and did not include me on them. What should I do?
Federal taxes are the same no matter what state you are in. You can file seperately using your own income without being concerned about your spouses income. The state of California may have some such tax law but even that would be unrealistic since there are many people out all over the country that have no idea where their spouse is let alone their income. The IRS will probably red flag it when SS#'s are found on 2 returns but with yours only on one. You filed correctly but may have to contact the IRS if you don't get your refund within the expected time...assuming you get a refund of course.
The quickest way to figure out the correct answer to that is to cal a lwayer who specializes in finances/taxes, you can find such a lawyer specific to your needs by looking in an online yellow pages, there are a bunch in LA you could contact and ask a few quick questions about that. I would figure out exactly what you are dealing with before you try and report it : %26gt;
katawabe apparently prepares taxes in a non community property state and (I hope!) and never heard of community property laws.
That said, yes, contact the IRS.My estranged husband filed taxes without me and did not include me on them. What should I do?
Federal taxes are the same no matter what state you are in. You can file seperately using your own income without being concerned about your spouses income. The state of California may have some such tax law but even that would be unrealistic since there are many people out all over the country that have no idea where their spouse is let alone their income. The IRS will probably red flag it when SS#'s are found on 2 returns but with yours only on one. You filed correctly but may have to contact the IRS if you don't get your refund within the expected time...assuming you get a refund of course.
The quickest way to figure out the correct answer to that is to cal a lwayer who specializes in finances/taxes, you can find such a lawyer specific to your needs by looking in an online yellow pages, there are a bunch in LA you could contact and ask a few quick questions about that. I would figure out exactly what you are dealing with before you try and report it : %26gt;
Can my husband be the one to file the divorce papers with myself listed as the Petitioner?
I'm trying to get by with a cheap/uncontested divorce by doing it myself. I have my Original Petition for Divorce completed, but can't take a day off from work to actually go file. My question is, can he go file the divorce papers even though I'm listed as the Petitioner, or will I have to change him to the Petitioner?Can my husband be the one to file the divorce papers with myself listed as the Petitioner?
*** No he can't, as it needs to be notarized. Only your legal representative can, but that would mean giving him power of attorney.Can my husband be the one to file the divorce papers with myself listed as the Petitioner?
He would have to be listed as petitioner or he could end up being arrested for fraud or something
both of you can do it
*** No he can't, as it needs to be notarized. Only your legal representative can, but that would mean giving him power of attorney.Can my husband be the one to file the divorce papers with myself listed as the Petitioner?
He would have to be listed as petitioner or he could end up being arrested for fraud or something
both of you can do it
Why does our 15 week old boxer hump my husband but not me?
It seems that when our puppy is excited he would hump my husbands leg or arm. He just started this behavior. I'm just wondering why is it he never behaves like this with me, is it because I smell different. My husband thinks our puppy has gay tendencies. Just wondering if anyone knew why is my husband always the victim of this arm and leg rape.Why does our 15 week old boxer hump my husband but not me?
Because he's showing dominance over your husband, but not you. He sees himself below you in the ';pack'; order, but above your husband.
Your husband needs to establish his role as ABOVE that of the dog's, in your pack. Tell him NOT to let the puppy hump him. My pup tried this on me when I first brought him home, I got right in his face and growled ';NOOO';, he backed right off, and has never tried to hump my leg since!
Whatever anyone tells you, it really isn't necessary to put a puppy in the ';submissive'; position (which would be taking him by the scruff of his neck, bringing him down to the ground, and hovering over him until his body relaxes and he shows ';submission';). It shouldn't be necessary. A stern tone of voice with such a young puppy should do the trick.
You and your husband just need to establish yourselves as reliable, consistent leaders for the puppy, and he will soon relax in his role within the pack, and won't feel the need to assert dominance, if he feels that you're doing a great job as leaders.Why does our 15 week old boxer hump my husband but not me?
He is trying to be the dominanat male. I would knock him off, and nueter him as soon as possible. If you are not intending to breed him, get it done. He will settle down and stay close to home. Plus, we don't need anymore unwanted puppies. I had a male boxer and he was a great guy. Wonderful protector. Takes boxer's years to grow up. Good luck, love him lots and be the boss. Use food treats for his attention.
That is a sign that your dog is trying to dominate your husband! No gay tendencies!
It is not nessessarily dominance. Dogs display dominance behaviors less then we think. Most times for a pup it is just a rush of hormones. However do not allow him to do this so it won't become a habit.
To be sure it is not dominance I would put in place a pack order. Research ';Nothing in Life is Free'; or ';NILIF'; and it will give you a set of guidlines. It is all positive reinforcement based. Best of luck :)
have your husband hump the dog and the dog will stop. like the first person said your considered more dominant to the dog
In addition to what has been said about the dominance issues, another factor may be your husband's cologne. Many colognes contain a variety of chemicals that either mimic hormones or trigger production of them in humans and animals alike....do some experiments like switching colognes, or you try wearing some of your husband's and see what happens.
Well, dogs cannot be gay. They aren't sexually oriented like that. They strictly have sex only to have puppies. Not because it's fun or because they feel like it. Second, it's not leg or arm ';rape';. Don't call it that. He's starting to establish dominance. If he isn't neutered. Which, I would assume at 15 weeks, he wouldn't be.
One question though, why do you seem like you want him to hump you? Just curious.
Give him a chance - he'll hump you soon enough- he's only a puppy
Just dominance issues, teach the dog the ';off'; command. Dogs will normally try to get dominance at this age and earlier.
Because he's showing dominance over your husband, but not you. He sees himself below you in the ';pack'; order, but above your husband.
Your husband needs to establish his role as ABOVE that of the dog's, in your pack. Tell him NOT to let the puppy hump him. My pup tried this on me when I first brought him home, I got right in his face and growled ';NOOO';, he backed right off, and has never tried to hump my leg since!
Whatever anyone tells you, it really isn't necessary to put a puppy in the ';submissive'; position (which would be taking him by the scruff of his neck, bringing him down to the ground, and hovering over him until his body relaxes and he shows ';submission';). It shouldn't be necessary. A stern tone of voice with such a young puppy should do the trick.
You and your husband just need to establish yourselves as reliable, consistent leaders for the puppy, and he will soon relax in his role within the pack, and won't feel the need to assert dominance, if he feels that you're doing a great job as leaders.Why does our 15 week old boxer hump my husband but not me?
He is trying to be the dominanat male. I would knock him off, and nueter him as soon as possible. If you are not intending to breed him, get it done. He will settle down and stay close to home. Plus, we don't need anymore unwanted puppies. I had a male boxer and he was a great guy. Wonderful protector. Takes boxer's years to grow up. Good luck, love him lots and be the boss. Use food treats for his attention.
That is a sign that your dog is trying to dominate your husband! No gay tendencies!
It is not nessessarily dominance. Dogs display dominance behaviors less then we think. Most times for a pup it is just a rush of hormones. However do not allow him to do this so it won't become a habit.
To be sure it is not dominance I would put in place a pack order. Research ';Nothing in Life is Free'; or ';NILIF'; and it will give you a set of guidlines. It is all positive reinforcement based. Best of luck :)
have your husband hump the dog and the dog will stop. like the first person said your considered more dominant to the dog
In addition to what has been said about the dominance issues, another factor may be your husband's cologne. Many colognes contain a variety of chemicals that either mimic hormones or trigger production of them in humans and animals alike....do some experiments like switching colognes, or you try wearing some of your husband's and see what happens.
Well, dogs cannot be gay. They aren't sexually oriented like that. They strictly have sex only to have puppies. Not because it's fun or because they feel like it. Second, it's not leg or arm ';rape';. Don't call it that. He's starting to establish dominance. If he isn't neutered. Which, I would assume at 15 weeks, he wouldn't be.
One question though, why do you seem like you want him to hump you? Just curious.
Give him a chance - he'll hump you soon enough- he's only a puppy
Just dominance issues, teach the dog the ';off'; command. Dogs will normally try to get dominance at this age and earlier.
Can my husband change from B1 to F2 while his extension of I-194 is still pending?
My husband wants to change his visa from B1 to F2, but he has applied an extension of his I-194 and it is still pending, no result comes out. I wonder if he can change to F2? Thanks.Can my husband change from B1 to F2 while his extension of I-194 is still pending?
Well, he can certainly apply. I think it might depend on what decision he gets on the extension request. You'll need to make sure he's been added to the I-20 first, of course, and is registered in SEVIS. Have you talked to your school yet about this?Can my husband change from B1 to F2 while his extension of I-194 is still pending?
After 9-11 you are not allow anymore to change B2 to F1 status.
Anyways look in this web site www.uscis.gov may help you..
Why don't you look this up on the INS website.maybelline eye liner
Well, he can certainly apply. I think it might depend on what decision he gets on the extension request. You'll need to make sure he's been added to the I-20 first, of course, and is registered in SEVIS. Have you talked to your school yet about this?Can my husband change from B1 to F2 while his extension of I-194 is still pending?
After 9-11 you are not allow anymore to change B2 to F1 status.
Anyways look in this web site www.uscis.gov may help you..
Why don't you look this up on the INS website.
Does the husband have the right to raise hell when his wife gains two kgms ?
A miserable wife complains that her husband objects strongly to her weight gain.
How far can a husband go in his issue ?Does the husband have the right to raise hell when his wife gains two kgms ?
sure he can , BUT
when he transfer her to live in paradise and provide her with all the means on earth to be comfortable and happy , then he have enough rights to talk about 2 KGs extra , i belive only idiots ( execuse my language ) who think of this issue!Does the husband have the right to raise hell when his wife gains two kgms ?
In my opinion, only a man who is completely perfect, without any faults of any kind should do this. In other words, no man should do this. Everyone has their minor failings. If this is the worst thing a woman ever does in a marriage, the husband should consider himself very lucky. I've known folks to get all upset over very minor issues though, like who doesn't roll the toothpaste tube up correctly, who leaves their socks on the floor, and who doesn't put the toilet paper on the roll with the paper turned in the correct direction. Then others soldier on bravely despite adultery, stealing from one another, relatives who treat one like dirt, etc., etc. It is better to let a little thing like this go and wait for a major issue to become objectionable.
I think if he is Mature, he will just advice her to do more exercises or to walk, and to tell her that he love to see her always in the best way, and to help her losing weight, by walking with her, doing exercises with her, even make a diet with her, so she will feel better more than doing it without him. SHARING is a good thing.
not a bit
he ought not
he should not
as you call her she is miserable not because of gaining wait but that the husband is acting that way
but it is unwise to discuss such matters with others than the husband himself
hahahah all men accept that as a face most of women gets weight after marriage even men on the other side of the river .. but i think the wife must take car of his husband look, it's the only way to keep him looking at her
a husband has no right to be upset due to that. he can just simply encourage her to join a gym.. and by doing so join the gym and eat properly with her. you know. make it a joint production
2 kgs are not that important to raise hell but only if they are the ONLY 2 kgs and not the 2 kgs after the 4 kgs of last month and the last 2 kgs after the 3 kgs of three months ago....
U must be watching Amr Adib ..... loool
Anyway,
I have to be FAIR ... BOTH husband %26amp; wife must have proper weight ...
I don't mind if my husband told me that I'm gaining weight. I like him to be honest.
But the way of saying that is really matter.
I think he has some issues,he doesn't need wife,he is looking for super model.
No!
He can pay her a nutritionist's fees.
he does if he goes hungry.
well i think he shouldn't think of babies
because she have to be pregnant then!
he is so selfesh husband and she might treat him like him cause we're people
How far can a husband go in his issue ?Does the husband have the right to raise hell when his wife gains two kgms ?
sure he can , BUT
when he transfer her to live in paradise and provide her with all the means on earth to be comfortable and happy , then he have enough rights to talk about 2 KGs extra , i belive only idiots ( execuse my language ) who think of this issue!Does the husband have the right to raise hell when his wife gains two kgms ?
In my opinion, only a man who is completely perfect, without any faults of any kind should do this. In other words, no man should do this. Everyone has their minor failings. If this is the worst thing a woman ever does in a marriage, the husband should consider himself very lucky. I've known folks to get all upset over very minor issues though, like who doesn't roll the toothpaste tube up correctly, who leaves their socks on the floor, and who doesn't put the toilet paper on the roll with the paper turned in the correct direction. Then others soldier on bravely despite adultery, stealing from one another, relatives who treat one like dirt, etc., etc. It is better to let a little thing like this go and wait for a major issue to become objectionable.
I think if he is Mature, he will just advice her to do more exercises or to walk, and to tell her that he love to see her always in the best way, and to help her losing weight, by walking with her, doing exercises with her, even make a diet with her, so she will feel better more than doing it without him. SHARING is a good thing.
not a bit
he ought not
he should not
as you call her she is miserable not because of gaining wait but that the husband is acting that way
but it is unwise to discuss such matters with others than the husband himself
hahahah all men accept that as a face most of women gets weight after marriage even men on the other side of the river .. but i think the wife must take car of his husband look, it's the only way to keep him looking at her
a husband has no right to be upset due to that. he can just simply encourage her to join a gym.. and by doing so join the gym and eat properly with her. you know. make it a joint production
2 kgs are not that important to raise hell but only if they are the ONLY 2 kgs and not the 2 kgs after the 4 kgs of last month and the last 2 kgs after the 3 kgs of three months ago....
U must be watching Amr Adib ..... loool
Anyway,
I have to be FAIR ... BOTH husband %26amp; wife must have proper weight ...
I don't mind if my husband told me that I'm gaining weight. I like him to be honest.
But the way of saying that is really matter.
I think he has some issues,he doesn't need wife,he is looking for super model.
No!
He can pay her a nutritionist's fees.
he does if he goes hungry.
well i think he shouldn't think of babies
because she have to be pregnant then!
he is so selfesh husband and she might treat him like him cause we're people
If my husband is being discharged from basic training, how long will our medical benefits last?
He hurt his back in basic training, and they're trying to say it's a prior to inlisting injury. They said he will get an other than honorable discharge and be on profile until january, so he can see his doctors here, and try to proove it wasn't like that before he left.If my husband is being discharged from basic training, how long will our medical benefits last?
Depending on the injury, you can have up to 90 days after an ELS from Basic Training.
The reason for this is because a lot of people have tried to enlist, claim an injury from before they joined and expected free medical for life for not even completing Basic Training. Sad, but people do abuse the system and try this and make things difficult for people like your husband.
You have to serve for 180 days to get permanent disability.If my husband is being discharged from basic training, how long will our medical benefits last?
assuming he had an evaluation be fore he entered and has no record from any doctor or insurance company he will be covered by the VA at a limited cost. but he needs a lawyer.
He didn't make it through basic you will not be entitled to any benefits
Until he's discharged.
Midnight of the date of his discharge.
they end the day he is discharged.
once he is discharged you will lose all benefits
It depends on the percentage of disability.
Depending on the injury, you can have up to 90 days after an ELS from Basic Training.
The reason for this is because a lot of people have tried to enlist, claim an injury from before they joined and expected free medical for life for not even completing Basic Training. Sad, but people do abuse the system and try this and make things difficult for people like your husband.
You have to serve for 180 days to get permanent disability.If my husband is being discharged from basic training, how long will our medical benefits last?
assuming he had an evaluation be fore he entered and has no record from any doctor or insurance company he will be covered by the VA at a limited cost. but he needs a lawyer.
He didn't make it through basic you will not be entitled to any benefits
Until he's discharged.
Midnight of the date of his discharge.
they end the day he is discharged.
once he is discharged you will lose all benefits
It depends on the percentage of disability.
Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
He justed wanted to know what women go through. He was very supportive for my pregnancies and wanted to know what was the worst for me. I told him the weight on my back and nerves.Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
Using Ebay or other online site might help, but that's a lot of money to spend just to experiment with an ';Empathy Belly';.
http://www.empathybelly.org/home.html
I think you'll have a better chance of accessing one of these bellies by checking with the local school board where you live, or the school board(s) of a nearby county.
The School Board? ...Yes, the school board, there's a good chance they can direct you to a school with one of these.
Depending on where you live ';Empathy Bellies'; might be part of the middle/high school sex-education course for some of the more well-funded schools within the district.
The school board would have records of funds and purchases for all the schools they oversee. If an ';Empathy Belly'; was bought for one of more schools to use in sex education courses, they would be able to tell you which one(s). Then all you have to do is visit the school and ask if you and your husband could experiment with it before the next series of sex-ed courses.
If you can't find one...
1) get a large heavy-duty backpack and undo the straps.
2) Have him hold the pack over his belly then while he's holding it, cross the straps across his upper back and reconnect the straps (so that the top halves are now connected to the opposite bottom halves) then take up enough slack to keep it snug but still over the belly.
3) Fill the backpack with a small heavy object (or objects)
the most suitable would be dumbbell weights like the ones here...
http://www.wanglianghome.org/images/dumb鈥?/a>
but without the bar handles. The trick is to try and keep the weight over the belly, lower than the rib cage, an above the pelvis. You may need to adjust and retighten the straps as the weights are added to keep it at the proper position.
The weights will make the straps across the upper back pull the upper body forward similar to how the upper body of a pregnant woman gets pulled forward trying to support the new weight of the belly and baby. Most men tend to have better upper body strength than women, so estimate the amount of weight in your belly and add 10-20 pounds to offset this. Depending on how far along you are, the pack on him should be 30-50 pounds to roughly match the amount strain put on the back and spine. Wearing the pack while walking around the house for a few hours will give him an idea of what it's like.Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
I Don't Know - But
I'd Like To Know Whats
The Worst.
Im Male If You Didn't Know
I'l Be Checking Back To See
If You Found Out
Good Luck ! xD
Check e-bay
Using Ebay or other online site might help, but that's a lot of money to spend just to experiment with an ';Empathy Belly';.
http://www.empathybelly.org/home.html
I think you'll have a better chance of accessing one of these bellies by checking with the local school board where you live, or the school board(s) of a nearby county.
The School Board? ...Yes, the school board, there's a good chance they can direct you to a school with one of these.
Depending on where you live ';Empathy Bellies'; might be part of the middle/high school sex-education course for some of the more well-funded schools within the district.
The school board would have records of funds and purchases for all the schools they oversee. If an ';Empathy Belly'; was bought for one of more schools to use in sex education courses, they would be able to tell you which one(s). Then all you have to do is visit the school and ask if you and your husband could experiment with it before the next series of sex-ed courses.
If you can't find one...
1) get a large heavy-duty backpack and undo the straps.
2) Have him hold the pack over his belly then while he's holding it, cross the straps across his upper back and reconnect the straps (so that the top halves are now connected to the opposite bottom halves) then take up enough slack to keep it snug but still over the belly.
3) Fill the backpack with a small heavy object (or objects)
the most suitable would be dumbbell weights like the ones here...
http://www.wanglianghome.org/images/dumb鈥?/a>
but without the bar handles. The trick is to try and keep the weight over the belly, lower than the rib cage, an above the pelvis. You may need to adjust and retighten the straps as the weights are added to keep it at the proper position.
The weights will make the straps across the upper back pull the upper body forward similar to how the upper body of a pregnant woman gets pulled forward trying to support the new weight of the belly and baby. Most men tend to have better upper body strength than women, so estimate the amount of weight in your belly and add 10-20 pounds to offset this. Depending on how far along you are, the pack on him should be 30-50 pounds to roughly match the amount strain put on the back and spine. Wearing the pack while walking around the house for a few hours will give him an idea of what it's like.Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
I Don't Know - But
I'd Like To Know Whats
The Worst.
Im Male If You Didn't Know
I'l Be Checking Back To See
If You Found Out
Good Luck ! xD
Check e-bay
Can my husband claim me on taxes?
I didn't work very much last year due to pregnancy issues.My doctor issued me to stop working due to the work I was involved in was causing me pain.I think I only made 3000 last year.If he does claim me could I still file also ?Can my husband claim me on taxes?
Your spouse would not claim you as a dependent. If you choose to file a joint return with him, you and he together will get double the single standard deduction and double the single dependency exemption. So these deductions will eliminate any tax owed on your income.
If you file a joint return with your spouse, you do not file your own return.
If you do not file a joint return with your spouse, you are required to file a separate return if your income is over $3,300. Your filing status would be married filing separately.Can my husband claim me on taxes?
Spouses are never a dependent in the conventional sense.
You should file Jointly. The standard deduction is higher and you will receive an exemption for both of you.
Less than $7000 you do not need to file. Let him claim you as a dependent.
Your spouse would not claim you as a dependent. If you choose to file a joint return with him, you and he together will get double the single standard deduction and double the single dependency exemption. So these deductions will eliminate any tax owed on your income.
If you file a joint return with your spouse, you do not file your own return.
If you do not file a joint return with your spouse, you are required to file a separate return if your income is over $3,300. Your filing status would be married filing separately.Can my husband claim me on taxes?
Spouses are never a dependent in the conventional sense.
You should file Jointly. The standard deduction is higher and you will receive an exemption for both of you.
Less than $7000 you do not need to file. Let him claim you as a dependent.
Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
He justed wanted to know what women go through. He was very supportive for my pregnancies and wanted to know what was the worst for me. I told him the weight on my back and nerves.Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
Using Ebay or other online site might help, but that's a lot of money to spend just to experiment with an ';Empathy Belly';.
http://www.empathybelly.org/home.html
I think you'll have a better chance of accessing one of these bellies by checking with the local school board where you live, or the school board(s) of a nearby county.
The School Board? ...Yes, the school board, there's a good chance they can direct you to a school with one of these.
Depending on where you live ';Empathy Bellies'; might be part of the middle/high school sex-education course for some of the more well-funded schools within the district.
The school board would have records of funds and purchases for all the schools they oversee. If an ';Empathy Belly'; was bought for one of more schools to use in sex education courses, they would be able to tell you which one(s). Then all you have to do is visit the school and ask if you and your husband could experiment with it before the next series of sex-ed courses.
If you can't find one...
1) get a large heavy-duty backpack and undo the straps.
2) Have him hold the pack over his belly then while he's holding it, cross the straps across his upper back and reconnect the straps (so that the top halves are now connected to the opposite bottom halves) then take up enough slack to keep it snug but still over the belly.
3) Fill the backpack with a small heavy object (or objects)
the most suitable would be dumbbell weights like the ones here...
http://www.wanglianghome.org/images/dumb鈥?/a>
but without the bar handles. The trick is to try and keep the weight over the belly, lower than the rib cage, an above the pelvis. You may need to adjust and retighten the straps as the weights are added to keep it at the proper position.
The weights will make the straps across the upper back pull the upper body forward similar to how the upper body of a pregnant woman gets pulled forward trying to support the new weight of the belly and baby. Most men tend to have better upper body strength than women, so estimate the amount of weight in your belly and add 10-20 pounds to offset this. Depending on how far along you are, the pack on him should be 30-50 pounds to roughly match the amount strain put on the back and spine. Wearing the pack while walking around the house for a few hours will give him an idea of what it's like.Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
I Don't Know - But
I'd Like To Know Whats
The Worst.
Im Male If You Didn't Know
I'l Be Checking Back To See
If You Found Out
Good Luck ! xD
Check e-bay
Using Ebay or other online site might help, but that's a lot of money to spend just to experiment with an ';Empathy Belly';.
http://www.empathybelly.org/home.html
I think you'll have a better chance of accessing one of these bellies by checking with the local school board where you live, or the school board(s) of a nearby county.
The School Board? ...Yes, the school board, there's a good chance they can direct you to a school with one of these.
Depending on where you live ';Empathy Bellies'; might be part of the middle/high school sex-education course for some of the more well-funded schools within the district.
The school board would have records of funds and purchases for all the schools they oversee. If an ';Empathy Belly'; was bought for one of more schools to use in sex education courses, they would be able to tell you which one(s). Then all you have to do is visit the school and ask if you and your husband could experiment with it before the next series of sex-ed courses.
If you can't find one...
1) get a large heavy-duty backpack and undo the straps.
2) Have him hold the pack over his belly then while he's holding it, cross the straps across his upper back and reconnect the straps (so that the top halves are now connected to the opposite bottom halves) then take up enough slack to keep it snug but still over the belly.
3) Fill the backpack with a small heavy object (or objects)
the most suitable would be dumbbell weights like the ones here...
http://www.wanglianghome.org/images/dumb鈥?/a>
but without the bar handles. The trick is to try and keep the weight over the belly, lower than the rib cage, an above the pelvis. You may need to adjust and retighten the straps as the weights are added to keep it at the proper position.
The weights will make the straps across the upper back pull the upper body forward similar to how the upper body of a pregnant woman gets pulled forward trying to support the new weight of the belly and baby. Most men tend to have better upper body strength than women, so estimate the amount of weight in your belly and add 10-20 pounds to offset this. Depending on how far along you are, the pack on him should be 30-50 pounds to roughly match the amount strain put on the back and spine. Wearing the pack while walking around the house for a few hours will give him an idea of what it's like.Where can I find an Empathy Belly for my husband?
I Don't Know - But
I'd Like To Know Whats
The Worst.
Im Male If You Didn't Know
I'l Be Checking Back To See
If You Found Out
Good Luck ! xD
Check e-bay
Can my husband claim me on taxes?
I didn't work very much last year due to pregnancy issues.My doctor issued me to stop working due to the work I was involved in was causing me pain.I think I only made 3000 last year.If he does claim me could I still file also ?Can my husband claim me on taxes?
Your spouse would not claim you as a dependent. If you choose to file a joint return with him, you and he together will get double the single standard deduction and double the single dependency exemption. So these deductions will eliminate any tax owed on your income.
If you file a joint return with your spouse, you do not file your own return.
If you do not file a joint return with your spouse, you are required to file a separate return if your income is over $3,300. Your filing status would be married filing separately.Can my husband claim me on taxes?
Spouses are never a dependent in the conventional sense.
You should file Jointly. The standard deduction is higher and you will receive an exemption for both of you.
Less than $7000 you do not need to file. Let him claim you as a dependent.maybelline eye liner
Your spouse would not claim you as a dependent. If you choose to file a joint return with him, you and he together will get double the single standard deduction and double the single dependency exemption. So these deductions will eliminate any tax owed on your income.
If you file a joint return with your spouse, you do not file your own return.
If you do not file a joint return with your spouse, you are required to file a separate return if your income is over $3,300. Your filing status would be married filing separately.Can my husband claim me on taxes?
Spouses are never a dependent in the conventional sense.
You should file Jointly. The standard deduction is higher and you will receive an exemption for both of you.
Less than $7000 you do not need to file. Let him claim you as a dependent.
Can I send protein bars and halls to my husband in boot camp?
My husband send me a letter asking for halls (he's been sick) and protein bars. He said they would give it to him if he earns it. I send the stuff today, but later I realized I am not supposed to send any food or candy... Will the halls count as candy and the bars as food?Can I send protein bars and halls to my husband in boot camp?
When my husband was in boot camp he asked me to send him protein bars because his drill instructors said that if they got sent them and earned them then they could have the protein bars.
I am sure he wouldn't ask for you to send them unless it was okay. so i think he will be fine. His drill instructors will probably keep them until they decide that he can have them. i wouldn't worry about it.
and don't have hiim go to medical..he would just get crap. my husband was sooo sick during boot camp..like horrible headaches, fevers at night etc. and he never went to medical because he didn't want crap from his instructors..he finally got better but i wouldn't have him go to medical.
good luck to you and your husband.
~Marine wife...email me if you have questions :)Can I send protein bars and halls to my husband in boot camp?
The protein bars may be confiscated, but it depends on the Drill Sergeants. If they do get taken away, they'll probably let him put them in his civilian bag, which he'll get back at the end of the cycle.
The halls are completely fine, as long as theyre not tutti frutti and super sweetened. The menthol ones work the best, but the fruity ones sure do taste good when you cant have anything real sweet in 9-10 weeks. Fruity ones at my basic training were frowned upon, and usually taken away. Again, it depends on the place. The halls should make it to him without an issue.
He may do some pushups for getting protein bars tho, THANKS A LOT. jk :)
They have to open all packages in front of the drill sergeants so he'll have the protein bars taken away, but send him as many bags of cough drops as possible. When DH was at FLW I sent him tons of halls fruit breezers and he shared/sold the extras. Those things are like cigarettes in jail lol.
No don't tell your husband to go to medical. Everyone gets sick in BC. He'll catch sh*t from the DI's for the rest of his time in BC. If he said that it's ok for you to send them, than hes drill instructors must have told them it's fine.
the halls should be alright but the proetein bars would more than likely be confiscated,
Tell your husband to go to medical...
When my husband was in boot camp he asked me to send him protein bars because his drill instructors said that if they got sent them and earned them then they could have the protein bars.
I am sure he wouldn't ask for you to send them unless it was okay. so i think he will be fine. His drill instructors will probably keep them until they decide that he can have them. i wouldn't worry about it.
and don't have hiim go to medical..he would just get crap. my husband was sooo sick during boot camp..like horrible headaches, fevers at night etc. and he never went to medical because he didn't want crap from his instructors..he finally got better but i wouldn't have him go to medical.
good luck to you and your husband.
~Marine wife...email me if you have questions :)Can I send protein bars and halls to my husband in boot camp?
The protein bars may be confiscated, but it depends on the Drill Sergeants. If they do get taken away, they'll probably let him put them in his civilian bag, which he'll get back at the end of the cycle.
The halls are completely fine, as long as theyre not tutti frutti and super sweetened. The menthol ones work the best, but the fruity ones sure do taste good when you cant have anything real sweet in 9-10 weeks. Fruity ones at my basic training were frowned upon, and usually taken away. Again, it depends on the place. The halls should make it to him without an issue.
He may do some pushups for getting protein bars tho, THANKS A LOT. jk :)
They have to open all packages in front of the drill sergeants so he'll have the protein bars taken away, but send him as many bags of cough drops as possible. When DH was at FLW I sent him tons of halls fruit breezers and he shared/sold the extras. Those things are like cigarettes in jail lol.
No don't tell your husband to go to medical. Everyone gets sick in BC. He'll catch sh*t from the DI's for the rest of his time in BC. If he said that it's ok for you to send them, than hes drill instructors must have told them it's fine.
the halls should be alright but the proetein bars would more than likely be confiscated,
Tell your husband to go to medical...
How can I combine my name Tawania and my husband name Curtis to make a pretty boy name?
I would like only serious and mature people to answer this question PLEASE!How can I combine my name Tawania and my husband name Curtis to make a pretty boy name?
Curtawania is a really exotic nice nameHow can I combine my name Tawania and my husband name Curtis to make a pretty boy name?
Thats pretty hard to do...so instead what about using your wife first inital T and your first intial C. Here are my name suggestions:
1. Tyler Curtis
2. Tyler Cameron
Tristan
Anican
Cristan
Caitan
Turan
Curtain
Curwan
Curtawan
Cawan
Curtaw
Cuwan
Cutawan
Tacur
Turtis
Ta'Curtis
Wantis
Wancur
Tawania + Curtis= Tortoise
naticus
curtis wayne
umm... curtis tau ... orgin is english and african. Means Courteous Lion. ? no idea.
good luck with that one.
the only combination i came up with is the first and middle name curtis wayne or wayne curtis. i couldn't think of a single name that I thought sounded very good.
tacurtis didn't sound that great to me.
Tanner Curtis
Talan Curtis
Curtis Twain
Hope this helps I tried:))
name them bug a boo or my baby's daddy.or Look in the ghetto names handbook.
Cawas- I knew a pt with this name and he was a great person.
Cawis
Curtawni- or Kertawni
Cuwanis
Curwanis
Cawantis
These are two hard names to combine... hope this helped.
Here are some suggestions - but I have to admit - these names are hard to combine.
Turwan
Tiswan
Awtis
Awancur
Curwan
Curtwan
Curtaw
Wancur
Wantis
Wanurt
These are hard names to combine.
How about naming him something like Curtis Thomas?
I think if it were a girl it would be easier with the ';ia'; at the end of your name. I hope someone else is more creative than me, for you, lol
Curtis Tawan
Curtis Taiwan
Curtis Twain
Curtwan or Tistawan - I like the idea of using your initials like someone else suggested :) Good luck
Tawnis
I'll take a stab at it. What about Curtawnia? Haha I almost said Curtawn but that would be way too much like Curtain. Curawn? It's the best I got--that's a really hard one. Good luck!
Tawtis
Curtawania is a really exotic nice nameHow can I combine my name Tawania and my husband name Curtis to make a pretty boy name?
Thats pretty hard to do...so instead what about using your wife first inital T and your first intial C. Here are my name suggestions:
1. Tyler Curtis
2. Tyler Cameron
Tristan
Anican
Cristan
Caitan
Turan
Curtain
Curwan
Curtawan
Cawan
Curtaw
Cuwan
Cutawan
Tacur
Turtis
Ta'Curtis
Wantis
Wancur
Tawania + Curtis= Tortoise
naticus
curtis wayne
umm... curtis tau ... orgin is english and african. Means Courteous Lion. ? no idea.
good luck with that one.
the only combination i came up with is the first and middle name curtis wayne or wayne curtis. i couldn't think of a single name that I thought sounded very good.
tacurtis didn't sound that great to me.
Tanner Curtis
Talan Curtis
Curtis Twain
Hope this helps I tried:))
name them bug a boo or my baby's daddy.or Look in the ghetto names handbook.
Cawas- I knew a pt with this name and he was a great person.
Cawis
Curtawni- or Kertawni
Cuwanis
Curwanis
Cawantis
These are two hard names to combine... hope this helped.
Here are some suggestions - but I have to admit - these names are hard to combine.
Turwan
Tiswan
Awtis
Awancur
Curwan
Curtwan
Curtaw
Wancur
Wantis
Wanurt
These are hard names to combine.
How about naming him something like Curtis Thomas?
I think if it were a girl it would be easier with the ';ia'; at the end of your name. I hope someone else is more creative than me, for you, lol
Curtis Tawan
Curtis Taiwan
Curtis Twain
Curtwan or Tistawan - I like the idea of using your initials like someone else suggested :) Good luck
Tawnis
I'll take a stab at it. What about Curtawnia? Haha I almost said Curtawn but that would be way too much like Curtain. Curawn? It's the best I got--that's a really hard one. Good luck!
Tawtis
Why is my dog acting like this since my husband and I separated?
ok, we have 3 dogs, and our Great Dane has been acting horrible since we separated. I mean she's mean to my other two dogs which she loves and used to never try to hurt... She refuses to listen anymore, she's pooped in the house, and she's only had one accident in the house since we've owned her... My other two dogs are fine. The night I left, my husband said she whined all night long, so I came home to calm her, and now I come over during the days and stay til my husband gets home from work, I didn't know if dogs can sense that things have changed or what? I need help! How do I get her back to her old self?Why is my dog acting like this since my husband and I separated?
Dogs are dogs, problems arise when we try to humanize them. That said, dogs problems need to be dealt with through dog psychology, not human psychology. We wouldn't correct a child the same way we would a dog now would we? It would give the kid problems, just like it gives our dog problems when we treat them like humans. Dogs in nature live in stable packs if a member of the pack is unstable, depressed ect, the other well balanced dogs will correct the behavior in order for the pack to work, and continue on. Your dog is picking up on unbalanced energy. She probably senses instability in her pack therefore she is trying to assume the pack leader position by being dominant so the pack can continue on. You coming home, or showing any affection while she is in a upset mindset is reinforcing this behavior. Your saying when you are upset and whine, I show up as reward. And by giving affection you are reinforcing the behavior by touch which is very powerful, physically telling your dog ';I love you, and give you lots of attention when you whine.'; When you go to visit, or give attention to your dog, you need to make sure she is in a calm mindset (not whining, or being dominant over the other dogs), so your reinforcing good behavior. Also, you and your husband need to have the mindset of calm pack leaders. This will give your dog stability all in itself, knowing its pack is well balanced with a fit for the position pack leader to help guide.Why is my dog acting like this since my husband and I separated?
Of course a dog can sense a change ... but they can't put into words what's bothering them, so they sorta ';act out'; ... just the way small children do.
Sounds like she was very attached to you and misses you terribly. Her routine has been disrupted and she can no longer count on you being there.
My question for you is this: with whom will the dog be living? If she will be staying with your husband, she'll have to get used to your absence. Your coming and going at odd times is just confusing her more. If she will ultimately be living with you, it would be best if she could stay with you now.
She probably will adjust eventually, but it will take time and patience. Good Luck.
Maybe she wants to be with you and not the husband? So take her with you and keep here at your place, she'll probably be happier. She misses you!
It sounds like she misses YOU. You've been her mom and she thinks you've abandoned her. Dogs are alot like children, and they demonstrate similar feelings when there is a change in the family dynamic, such as a separation or a death. I would suggest maybe you take her to live with you.
Dogs can defiantly sense a change. She is probably reacting to the separation.
You and your husband need to make a decision on where she lives. After a while.....the change will be a normality and she will get accustomed to the change of life.
Yes, they can sense, and she needs some reassurance. I'm not saying your husband is mistreating her, but she knows something is amiss. At least make sure your husband is trying to maintain her regular schedule of going out and relieving herself.
Some dogs are more cognizant than others. We have five dogs. Some might be stressed, others (like our Shih-Tzu) barely know what's going on. Ignorance is bliss for some dogs, but for others, they're very attuned. A Great Dane would be one of the breeds that would be stressed and highly attuned.
dogs follow a routine and when they sense something is different, they feel uneasy.
when a dog poops in the house it is out of retaliation. your dog knew you were gone and didn't like it.
i don't think you will ever get her back to her old self unless you and your husband reconcile. your dog doesn't know what's going on between you and him, but it does know that you aren't there.
dogs are just like people they have emotions and she probaly misses you and she probaly is acting just like a little child might in the same situation
This sounds like seperation anxiety to me. I know when my wife and I had our Black Dane, he would need to know where both of us were at all times(Once he knew he was ok with it). However, if one of us were to leave and go to the store and we didn't say ';goodbye'; first, he would whine, whimper and constantly search the house until one of us returned.
I would do a search on the internet regarding seperation anxiety, there are tons of articles and how to counter it. I would pretty much gaurantee that's what it is though.
separation anxiety
I would recommend medical treatment with some Calms manufactured by Thomas Laboratories. It's an all natural supplement (not a drug) and will calm and relieve the stress of this transition period. Your dog will feel less anxious and less aggressive. It's commonly used by Veterinarians, dog handlers and trainers.
Yes, dogs are just like humans they know when things arent right. My advice is take her to the vet and they can put her on some kind of meds. there isnt really much more you can do except spent lots and lots of time with her.
they do sense a change and can be very distressed by it, they are pack animals and her pack has split up. not happy mum. it may take time or she may need to see a vet that might be able to help with some meds for her behaviour.
Dogs are dogs, problems arise when we try to humanize them. That said, dogs problems need to be dealt with through dog psychology, not human psychology. We wouldn't correct a child the same way we would a dog now would we? It would give the kid problems, just like it gives our dog problems when we treat them like humans. Dogs in nature live in stable packs if a member of the pack is unstable, depressed ect, the other well balanced dogs will correct the behavior in order for the pack to work, and continue on. Your dog is picking up on unbalanced energy. She probably senses instability in her pack therefore she is trying to assume the pack leader position by being dominant so the pack can continue on. You coming home, or showing any affection while she is in a upset mindset is reinforcing this behavior. Your saying when you are upset and whine, I show up as reward. And by giving affection you are reinforcing the behavior by touch which is very powerful, physically telling your dog ';I love you, and give you lots of attention when you whine.'; When you go to visit, or give attention to your dog, you need to make sure she is in a calm mindset (not whining, or being dominant over the other dogs), so your reinforcing good behavior. Also, you and your husband need to have the mindset of calm pack leaders. This will give your dog stability all in itself, knowing its pack is well balanced with a fit for the position pack leader to help guide.Why is my dog acting like this since my husband and I separated?
Of course a dog can sense a change ... but they can't put into words what's bothering them, so they sorta ';act out'; ... just the way small children do.
Sounds like she was very attached to you and misses you terribly. Her routine has been disrupted and she can no longer count on you being there.
My question for you is this: with whom will the dog be living? If she will be staying with your husband, she'll have to get used to your absence. Your coming and going at odd times is just confusing her more. If she will ultimately be living with you, it would be best if she could stay with you now.
She probably will adjust eventually, but it will take time and patience. Good Luck.
Maybe she wants to be with you and not the husband? So take her with you and keep here at your place, she'll probably be happier. She misses you!
It sounds like she misses YOU. You've been her mom and she thinks you've abandoned her. Dogs are alot like children, and they demonstrate similar feelings when there is a change in the family dynamic, such as a separation or a death. I would suggest maybe you take her to live with you.
Dogs can defiantly sense a change. She is probably reacting to the separation.
You and your husband need to make a decision on where she lives. After a while.....the change will be a normality and she will get accustomed to the change of life.
Yes, they can sense, and she needs some reassurance. I'm not saying your husband is mistreating her, but she knows something is amiss. At least make sure your husband is trying to maintain her regular schedule of going out and relieving herself.
Some dogs are more cognizant than others. We have five dogs. Some might be stressed, others (like our Shih-Tzu) barely know what's going on. Ignorance is bliss for some dogs, but for others, they're very attuned. A Great Dane would be one of the breeds that would be stressed and highly attuned.
dogs follow a routine and when they sense something is different, they feel uneasy.
when a dog poops in the house it is out of retaliation. your dog knew you were gone and didn't like it.
i don't think you will ever get her back to her old self unless you and your husband reconcile. your dog doesn't know what's going on between you and him, but it does know that you aren't there.
dogs are just like people they have emotions and she probaly misses you and she probaly is acting just like a little child might in the same situation
This sounds like seperation anxiety to me. I know when my wife and I had our Black Dane, he would need to know where both of us were at all times(Once he knew he was ok with it). However, if one of us were to leave and go to the store and we didn't say ';goodbye'; first, he would whine, whimper and constantly search the house until one of us returned.
I would do a search on the internet regarding seperation anxiety, there are tons of articles and how to counter it. I would pretty much gaurantee that's what it is though.
separation anxiety
I would recommend medical treatment with some Calms manufactured by Thomas Laboratories. It's an all natural supplement (not a drug) and will calm and relieve the stress of this transition period. Your dog will feel less anxious and less aggressive. It's commonly used by Veterinarians, dog handlers and trainers.
Yes, dogs are just like humans they know when things arent right. My advice is take her to the vet and they can put her on some kind of meds. there isnt really much more you can do except spent lots and lots of time with her.
they do sense a change and can be very distressed by it, they are pack animals and her pack has split up. not happy mum. it may take time or she may need to see a vet that might be able to help with some meds for her behaviour.
If my husband and I have a child together, can I still file my taxes separately from him?
He has a lot of debt, and I was unaware of this before I married him. I would not have married him if I had known. We didn't get a tax return this year because the gov't took it. Thats when I found out about the debt. Well I have a child to worry about and I would like to get a tax return next year. I payed my money and I want it back. Thanks in advance for the help.If my husband and I have a child together, can I still file my taxes separately from him?
You can file as married filing separately, but that will probably end up costing you more.
If you file an innocent spouse form 8379 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f8379.pdf
you can get back the part of the refund that was due to your income and withholding - only the portion due to HIS earnings and withholding will be taken.
You can still file it even for the year that's past, and might get something back. Take a look at the form, and fill it out and send it in - what do you have to lose?
Good luck to you - sounds like you're going to need it.If my husband and I have a child together, can I still file my taxes separately from him?
Sorry for the inadvertant error - it's the injured spouse form as many other said, not innocent spouse (that's something different) - the number 8379 is correct. My brain knows the difference, sometimes my fingers don't.
If the debt you refer to is a tax debt, user Judy may be correct. If the refunds are being intercepted due to some other debt (delinquent child support and student loans are two that come immediately to mind) then the innocent spouse form won't work. That ony applies to Federal taxes due and is meant to protect the innocent spouse from financial hardship when there is a tax assessment and the innocent spouse has no reason to know or should have known that tax laws were being broken.
Judy is correct that filing married/separate will result in higher taxes overall. The tax rates are compressed (meaning you reach higher tax rates faster) and there are some tax benefits that are unavailable when filing separately.
There is another alternative, and that's to calculate your estimated tax as closely as possible so that you have a very small refund or, as I like to do, have a small amount due. The government can't intercept a refund if you are paying a balance due. Also, you will have the benefit of using your money through out the year instead of letting the government have an interest free loan. This is good advice for all taxpayers.
All you have to do is file another W-4 with your employer to change your withholding.
I'm in the same boat as you,So what I do every year is...I file my taxes with just me and the kids on it filing head of house hold, getting all the credits and what not.
When I receive my refund check, I take my taxes back to where they were prept and get them amended, which is adding my husband, his income, and changing filing status.
you will have to pay back some money BUT you don't have to wait for your taxes because they were taken because of his debt!! For example, last year I done mine the way I explained and got a little over $6000 and I only had to pay back $1100 so my refund was $4900
I would keep at least $2000 in the bank cause you will have to pay back the over payment
This is the way my tax accountant has done my taxes for the last 4 years and It works for me.
What Heddy Bear is doing is tax fraud and if she gets caught can pay hefty fines and could go to jail.
You need to file the injured spouse form not innocent spouse. Filing as Injured Spouse will separate your income and deductions from your husband and the IRS will calculate how much of the refund is yours. Filing separately will protect you, however your refund will be lower.
You can file the Injured Spouse form after filing your return and the IRS will calculate what is due you.
You should be able to file an injured spouse form to keep the IRS from keeping your refund. I don't think the IRS can keep refund from your income taxes paid in to pay off your husbands debts for taxes prior to your marriage. I think you can file Married Filing Separate, but I believe you pay more taxes with this filing status. I think your best option is to file joint and included an injured spouse form. I believe it is IRS form 8379.
Here is some info on IRS website: http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc205.html
You can file as married filing separately, but that will probably end up costing you more.
If you file an innocent spouse form 8379 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f8379.pdf
you can get back the part of the refund that was due to your income and withholding - only the portion due to HIS earnings and withholding will be taken.
You can still file it even for the year that's past, and might get something back. Take a look at the form, and fill it out and send it in - what do you have to lose?
Good luck to you - sounds like you're going to need it.If my husband and I have a child together, can I still file my taxes separately from him?
Sorry for the inadvertant error - it's the injured spouse form as many other said, not innocent spouse (that's something different) - the number 8379 is correct. My brain knows the difference, sometimes my fingers don't.
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If the debt you refer to is a tax debt, user Judy may be correct. If the refunds are being intercepted due to some other debt (delinquent child support and student loans are two that come immediately to mind) then the innocent spouse form won't work. That ony applies to Federal taxes due and is meant to protect the innocent spouse from financial hardship when there is a tax assessment and the innocent spouse has no reason to know or should have known that tax laws were being broken.
Judy is correct that filing married/separate will result in higher taxes overall. The tax rates are compressed (meaning you reach higher tax rates faster) and there are some tax benefits that are unavailable when filing separately.
There is another alternative, and that's to calculate your estimated tax as closely as possible so that you have a very small refund or, as I like to do, have a small amount due. The government can't intercept a refund if you are paying a balance due. Also, you will have the benefit of using your money through out the year instead of letting the government have an interest free loan. This is good advice for all taxpayers.
All you have to do is file another W-4 with your employer to change your withholding.
I'm in the same boat as you,So what I do every year is...I file my taxes with just me and the kids on it filing head of house hold, getting all the credits and what not.
When I receive my refund check, I take my taxes back to where they were prept and get them amended, which is adding my husband, his income, and changing filing status.
you will have to pay back some money BUT you don't have to wait for your taxes because they were taken because of his debt!! For example, last year I done mine the way I explained and got a little over $6000 and I only had to pay back $1100 so my refund was $4900
I would keep at least $2000 in the bank cause you will have to pay back the over payment
This is the way my tax accountant has done my taxes for the last 4 years and It works for me.
What Heddy Bear is doing is tax fraud and if she gets caught can pay hefty fines and could go to jail.
You need to file the injured spouse form not innocent spouse. Filing as Injured Spouse will separate your income and deductions from your husband and the IRS will calculate how much of the refund is yours. Filing separately will protect you, however your refund will be lower.
You can file the Injured Spouse form after filing your return and the IRS will calculate what is due you.
You should be able to file an injured spouse form to keep the IRS from keeping your refund. I don't think the IRS can keep refund from your income taxes paid in to pay off your husbands debts for taxes prior to your marriage. I think you can file Married Filing Separate, but I believe you pay more taxes with this filing status. I think your best option is to file joint and included an injured spouse form. I believe it is IRS form 8379.
Here is some info on IRS website: http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc205.html
I have to go to the bathroom but my husband clogged it. What should I do?
I have to go to the bathroom but my husband clogged it. What should I do?I have to go to the bathroom but my husband clogged it. What should I do?
Since this is the Performing Arts category, you should write a song about how it makes you feel (while he unclogs it).I have to go to the bathroom but my husband clogged it. What should I do?
Get the bucket. Wait til he unclogs it. Unclog it yourself. Use a diaper. Grow up.
and, get counseling. We shouldn't be taking sides between you and your husband about a toilet.
go to the nearest restaurant and act like u were eating there and just sneak into the bathroom. even if they get mad at u at least u went. and if not go to a nice gas station.
You must not have to go very bad, if can take the time to write here. You also might want to adjust the amount of fiber in your husband's diet.
piss outside.
idiot question.
First, you should repeat this question in the correct section. Then make him unclog it.
This is a performance category. Can we watch the performance?
Well, depends on if you have to go, or HAVE to go.
either a plunger (best choice) or a coat hanger straightened works too
break out the plunger and go to work on that clog.
Why are you asking me? Use common sense.
LMAO!!!
Go outside in the bushes! lol
call a plumber to get a better system
make his *** unclog it
Go to a neighbour?
what they said
haha lmao tell him 2 un clog it
Since this is the Performing Arts category, you should write a song about how it makes you feel (while he unclogs it).I have to go to the bathroom but my husband clogged it. What should I do?
Get the bucket. Wait til he unclogs it. Unclog it yourself. Use a diaper. Grow up.
and, get counseling. We shouldn't be taking sides between you and your husband about a toilet.
go to the nearest restaurant and act like u were eating there and just sneak into the bathroom. even if they get mad at u at least u went. and if not go to a nice gas station.
You must not have to go very bad, if can take the time to write here. You also might want to adjust the amount of fiber in your husband's diet.
piss outside.
idiot question.
First, you should repeat this question in the correct section. Then make him unclog it.
This is a performance category. Can we watch the performance?
Well, depends on if you have to go, or HAVE to go.
either a plunger (best choice) or a coat hanger straightened works too
break out the plunger and go to work on that clog.
Why are you asking me? Use common sense.
LMAO!!!
Go outside in the bushes! lol
call a plumber to get a better system
make his *** unclog it
Go to a neighbour?
what they said
haha lmao tell him 2 un clog it
Can my husband stop me from getting my tubes tied?
I am prego with our 3rd child. My husband wants one more child and I do NOT. I told him that during my c-section I am going to have my tubes tied and he told me NO! He said that he can stop me and a doctor won't do it without his concent. Is this true?Can my husband stop me from getting my tubes tied?
It's your body. He can't stop you.
However, I have to question the wisdom of forging ahead with such a permanent procedure when your husband isn't on board with it. You both may very well come to the conclusion that you don't want more children in the future, or you might change your mind. But having your tubes tied has a definite finality to it, and it isn't necessarily the best thing for your marriage to make such a major decision without your husband being on board.
Look at it this way--how would you have felt if your husband went in for a vasectomy after your first or second child was born without consulting you?Can my husband stop me from getting my tubes tied?
Your husband can't stop you from making a medical decision about your own body.
But this is something I think the two of you really need to talk about. Family planning is not something one person can just decide for the couple. I think it'll really harm your marriage if you get this procedure done against his will.
I'm not saying you should have another child if you don't want to, but I think you and your husband need to have a serious talk to get on the same page about your reproductive future.
I work in the medical field and there is a law called the HIPPA law which means only you have the right to your medical records, appt.'s, medical informaton etc.. So you should speak to the doctor BEFORE you have the baby and let him know your situation and tell him you want this done after you deliver without your husband's knowledge. Have the papers signed, surgical consent taken care of and have the nurse's keep him busy with the new baby while they take you off to surgery. Good luck.
The doctor will urge you to make this decision WITH your husband. However, ultimately, its your decision. You doctor does have every right to refuse to do it though if he knows your husband isn't ready. Out of respect for your husband, why not just stick to birth control for a few years? That way you can BOTH think about it a little longer. Its a permanent decision that doesn't affect just you. If my husband wasn't just as sure as I was about getting my tubes tied, I wouldn't have done it. We're a team and we make EVERY decision about our family together. Compromise a little bit.
Not true at all. There is no law that can stop you from having your tubes tied. However, if the doctor finds out your husband is not on board, he might decline doing the surgery for you. Doctors get to set their own arbitrary rules about ages, amount of kids, and spousal consent. I think it's all crap personally. I'm 25, don't want kids, and it took me forever to find a doctor to tie my tubes!
I should also note, that if you do this, it may very well cause an irreparable rift in your marriage. This does affect him and what he wants in his life too, so you need to be willing to accept the consequences to going ahead without his approval. Good luck!
lol, no, he cannot stop you.It is your body and your decision.He's not the one that has to carry a human being for 9 months and then have his stomach sliced open!
You two should really talk about this though, so it doesn't ruin your relationship.
You already have three children..why does he need a fourth especially since the third hasn't even been born yet!!?
And there is also the concept of adoption..taking a child in is a wonderful thing.
You can do it without his consent. I would give it some serious consideration though. Because when you are pregnant you don't want anymore kids and when they start growing up you want more. I would tell your husband if you seriously don't want another one he should understand.
no he can not stop you, it is after all your body, but be prepared for the consequences, try talking logic to him of why you want /need this done.
No if you want them tied you can get them tied its your body he's your husband and your and adult he's not your father and your not a child you need his consent for NOTHING
no he cant... your a big girl you can do it by yourself !!! i mean seriously your the one who has to carry it for 9 months!!
No it's not true. He cannot stop you.
No. He has no control over your body.
nope, its your body, your choice.
Your body, your call.
It is your body your choice... But You both have some more talking to do....
unfortunately I believe he is right. You have to both consent to it. Having your tubes tied isn't final because they can be untied. My mother had 5 kids me being number 5 and had her burned.maybelline eye liner
It's your body. He can't stop you.
However, I have to question the wisdom of forging ahead with such a permanent procedure when your husband isn't on board with it. You both may very well come to the conclusion that you don't want more children in the future, or you might change your mind. But having your tubes tied has a definite finality to it, and it isn't necessarily the best thing for your marriage to make such a major decision without your husband being on board.
Look at it this way--how would you have felt if your husband went in for a vasectomy after your first or second child was born without consulting you?Can my husband stop me from getting my tubes tied?
Your husband can't stop you from making a medical decision about your own body.
But this is something I think the two of you really need to talk about. Family planning is not something one person can just decide for the couple. I think it'll really harm your marriage if you get this procedure done against his will.
I'm not saying you should have another child if you don't want to, but I think you and your husband need to have a serious talk to get on the same page about your reproductive future.
I work in the medical field and there is a law called the HIPPA law which means only you have the right to your medical records, appt.'s, medical informaton etc.. So you should speak to the doctor BEFORE you have the baby and let him know your situation and tell him you want this done after you deliver without your husband's knowledge. Have the papers signed, surgical consent taken care of and have the nurse's keep him busy with the new baby while they take you off to surgery. Good luck.
The doctor will urge you to make this decision WITH your husband. However, ultimately, its your decision. You doctor does have every right to refuse to do it though if he knows your husband isn't ready. Out of respect for your husband, why not just stick to birth control for a few years? That way you can BOTH think about it a little longer. Its a permanent decision that doesn't affect just you. If my husband wasn't just as sure as I was about getting my tubes tied, I wouldn't have done it. We're a team and we make EVERY decision about our family together. Compromise a little bit.
Not true at all. There is no law that can stop you from having your tubes tied. However, if the doctor finds out your husband is not on board, he might decline doing the surgery for you. Doctors get to set their own arbitrary rules about ages, amount of kids, and spousal consent. I think it's all crap personally. I'm 25, don't want kids, and it took me forever to find a doctor to tie my tubes!
I should also note, that if you do this, it may very well cause an irreparable rift in your marriage. This does affect him and what he wants in his life too, so you need to be willing to accept the consequences to going ahead without his approval. Good luck!
lol, no, he cannot stop you.It is your body and your decision.He's not the one that has to carry a human being for 9 months and then have his stomach sliced open!
You two should really talk about this though, so it doesn't ruin your relationship.
You already have three children..why does he need a fourth especially since the third hasn't even been born yet!!?
And there is also the concept of adoption..taking a child in is a wonderful thing.
You can do it without his consent. I would give it some serious consideration though. Because when you are pregnant you don't want anymore kids and when they start growing up you want more. I would tell your husband if you seriously don't want another one he should understand.
no he can not stop you, it is after all your body, but be prepared for the consequences, try talking logic to him of why you want /need this done.
No if you want them tied you can get them tied its your body he's your husband and your and adult he's not your father and your not a child you need his consent for NOTHING
no he cant... your a big girl you can do it by yourself !!! i mean seriously your the one who has to carry it for 9 months!!
No it's not true. He cannot stop you.
No. He has no control over your body.
nope, its your body, your choice.
Your body, your call.
It is your body your choice... But You both have some more talking to do....
unfortunately I believe he is right. You have to both consent to it. Having your tubes tied isn't final because they can be untied. My mother had 5 kids me being number 5 and had her burned.
What are some things that you would give your husband for Christmas?
I want to know what to give my husband for Christmas and I have some ideas but not to sure. I don't want to give him ties or anything like that, and we can;t afford a WII so what are some good ideas?
Not anything sick please!!!!!
What are some things that you would give your husband for Christmas?
I'm struggling with his gifts right now but what he usually likes is anything for his car, new jack, tuner, etc. I don't know how your husband dresses but mine likes True Religion jeans, Deisel jackets, Abercrombie shirts, his favorite CK underwear, he likes watches but I can't afford the type he likes. Also tools or tool organizers. Artwork. Umm, memorabilia from his favorite shows, books on the filming of favorite shows or movies or anything else he's interested in, subscriptions to car magazines. A box of nice cigars, ashtray, cutter, lighter. NFL tickets but there's only a few weeks left in the season. He likes certain colognes, aftershaves, straight razors. He liked some of his playstation games for a while but that didn't last long. I don't know if your husband likes to cook or grill (mine doesn't but I do) but you could get some books on grilling or a new chef's knife or BBQ set. My favorite present so far was a gas grill.What are some things that you would give your husband for Christmas?
Smiles, yikes I should copy paste this I answer to it so often.
Scrape up $12 buy some Roses and a couple candles, light the candles , pluck the Rose petals dropping on the floor leading to the bedroom, then both of you enjoy the ';gift';. You're married, this isn't a pick up. Oh I will make him breakfast that morning.
I'm not trying to be graphic at all, but isn't time spent intimately as much a gift of value as a video game?
I've done it before and will do it again,and I so love the ';unwrapping'; part.
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- sweet shoes
- sweet glasses
- sweet watch
- sweet robe
Thats my list for my boyfriend and I'm having trouble picking one...
How about a coupon for a weekend get away - where ever he wants to go - and you will accompany him.....his w/end. Your get away together...
there is nothing sick about oral sex for a year grow up, you prude!
Not anything sick please!!!!!
What are some things that you would give your husband for Christmas?
I'm struggling with his gifts right now but what he usually likes is anything for his car, new jack, tuner, etc. I don't know how your husband dresses but mine likes True Religion jeans, Deisel jackets, Abercrombie shirts, his favorite CK underwear, he likes watches but I can't afford the type he likes. Also tools or tool organizers. Artwork. Umm, memorabilia from his favorite shows, books on the filming of favorite shows or movies or anything else he's interested in, subscriptions to car magazines. A box of nice cigars, ashtray, cutter, lighter. NFL tickets but there's only a few weeks left in the season. He likes certain colognes, aftershaves, straight razors. He liked some of his playstation games for a while but that didn't last long. I don't know if your husband likes to cook or grill (mine doesn't but I do) but you could get some books on grilling or a new chef's knife or BBQ set. My favorite present so far was a gas grill.What are some things that you would give your husband for Christmas?
Smiles, yikes I should copy paste this I answer to it so often.
Scrape up $12 buy some Roses and a couple candles, light the candles , pluck the Rose petals dropping on the floor leading to the bedroom, then both of you enjoy the ';gift';. You're married, this isn't a pick up. Oh I will make him breakfast that morning.
I'm not trying to be graphic at all, but isn't time spent intimately as much a gift of value as a video game?
I've done it before and will do it again,and I so love the ';unwrapping'; part.
Cheryl
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- sweet shoes
- sweet glasses
- sweet watch
- sweet robe
Thats my list for my boyfriend and I'm having trouble picking one...
How about a coupon for a weekend get away - where ever he wants to go - and you will accompany him.....his w/end. Your get away together...
there is nothing sick about oral sex for a year grow up, you prude!
Any sweet & special tips on how to satisfy my husband during R E D week of the month?
He is patient, understanding and is not pressuring me to do anything at all during this time. I want to surprise him with pure pleasure. I want to keep it fun, flirty and fresh.
My husband is just so damn HOT I can't keep my hands off him and he also works OT 15 days a month!Any sweet %26amp; special tips on how to satisfy my husband during R E D week of the month?
Get over it! Lay down some towels, turn off the lights and do it anyway. Red washes off, you know.Any sweet %26amp; special tips on how to satisfy my husband during R E D week of the month?
Why on earth haven't you thought to ask your husband this question? I'm sure he can tell you what to do while ';Ms Red'; makes her monthly visit. Don't be surprised if he comes up with ideas that you would never have thought of. Go ahead, ASK HIM!
Enjoy
Oral is always good.
Give him a strip tease or dance and let him ';amuse'; himself as you watch. I love watching my guy ****
Like everyone else said...Oral
well oral is always a nice surprise, or just take him to the shower and do it there.
please I let my married boyfriend get it well I'm on my period
well my boyfriend wish i would go down during that time of the month well anytime during the month but i think any guy would so i would say that
I do my wife during red week until we're both black and blue.
No big deal.
Use some towels.
Oral and manual work on him.
So, pleasure him...surely you know how to to that...even sex in the shower when on your period can be fun...and the mess just washes down the drain.
My husband is just so damn HOT I can't keep my hands off him and he also works OT 15 days a month!Any sweet %26amp; special tips on how to satisfy my husband during R E D week of the month?
Get over it! Lay down some towels, turn off the lights and do it anyway. Red washes off, you know.Any sweet %26amp; special tips on how to satisfy my husband during R E D week of the month?
Why on earth haven't you thought to ask your husband this question? I'm sure he can tell you what to do while ';Ms Red'; makes her monthly visit. Don't be surprised if he comes up with ideas that you would never have thought of. Go ahead, ASK HIM!
Enjoy
Oral is always good.
Give him a strip tease or dance and let him ';amuse'; himself as you watch. I love watching my guy ****
Like everyone else said...Oral
well oral is always a nice surprise, or just take him to the shower and do it there.
please I let my married boyfriend get it well I'm on my period
well my boyfriend wish i would go down during that time of the month well anytime during the month but i think any guy would so i would say that
I do my wife during red week until we're both black and blue.
No big deal.
Use some towels.
Oral and manual work on him.
So, pleasure him...surely you know how to to that...even sex in the shower when on your period can be fun...and the mess just washes down the drain.
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