How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?

So we have been married almost 9 years, and lately i don't feel that passion or intensity that we felt before. I know that things change in a marriage and we go through stages. But i want to ignite the fire of passion. We have 2 boys so it's not as passionate and we both work very hard. But we do have the weekends. Any and all advice will be appreciated, please don't ge rude.How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Well, firstly, understand that you don't automatically ';fall'; back in love.


This will be work on both parts.





A few helpful solutions:





1. Hire family, friends, or babysitter and the both of you go out on a date. Do NOT talk about the kids on that date. Very important.





2. Make sure you do physical activities that you BOTH enjoy!





3. When the kids are in bed, both of you spend time either doing interactive activities, absolutely nothing but sitting together, or both.





4. And lastly, do NOT let the ';boys'; come before you husband. And vice versa, they should not come before you as a wife.





Your marriage comes before everything, and kudos for reaching out for solutions to make that happen!





Making it work!How do i fall back in LOVE with my husband?
Hi,





Well apart from what you can do your husband will have to do some things to make you fall in love with him again also. You can introduce some spontaneity %26amp; fire back into your marriage such as: wear lovely perfume for him while at home, nice make up, nail polish, sexy lingerie - spice things up a bit for him, have a nice bath together, prepare a nice dinner for him one of his favourites, massage each other. Go away for the weekend. Wear sexy clothes %26amp; heels while at home with him. Go on picnics, walks, send romantic %26amp; erotic messages to him during the day while at work %26amp; write notes for him just to let him know you're thinking of him %26amp; can't wait to see him that night. There's a few ideas.





Good luck.
Good for you for realizing the excitement can be re-created!!





Check out the work of Dr. David Schnarch, including his book ';Secrets of a Passionate Marriage'; Good information from someone who's made a study of the subject.





Another one is John Gottman's ';Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work'; This book is based on excellent research, and will help you and your husband ensure your marriage is on a solid footing so there's room for passion and intensity.
What you have to do is set aside some time for just you and your husband. Try and make arrangements for your boys to stay with a friend or grandparents for night. Plan ahead what you are going to do: Wear something sexy, cook a nice meal, soft lights, music and perhaps a massage. And remember, talk and listen to each other.





Have fun
hi zeeee--in my opion n my opion only--u cant fall back in love in some instances--u can make out have sex n enjoy it but that is not falling back in love--once u fall out u fall out peroid--i love haveing sex with an x but i dont think i could ever fall back in love with her--ok


if u want 2try n make it more passionate dinner--wine--lake--no boys--relax--teasing (ie short skirt/clevege)
It's a choice, just like being happy is a choice. Go out of your way to create that feeling for yourself again, as only you can do. And please talk to him about it.
Get someone to take the kids.


Make plans to be just the 2 of you and make the night a passionate one.


Get creative... and get the spark back.
first ya'll go into the woods and watch them little critters play'in around shor enuff when you a 'hearin that ole owl hoot caint be long afor nature is taki'n its course
you cant fall back in love with someone, the question is are you still in love? can you answer that.
juss start going on dates.


send the kids to a babysitter..or family member.


have fun like you guys use to..make out..idk..haha


ohh..one more thing..do you guys even talk.?


maby dats da problem..
KY jelly..always works!

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What are some good gift ideas to get my husband?

My husband is the most content person I have ever met. Anytime I ask him what he needs or would want he answers with, ';nothing.'; I like to get him things whether its for an occasion or not but I have run out of ideas. I have gotten him a lot of team memorabilia and other little things i thought he would like but doesn't even use. I need ideas... HELP please. ThanksWhat are some good gift ideas to get my husband?
Maybe a nice leather jacket?





OR, is he into cars/race cars?? I recently purchased this great gift from cloud9living.com for my boyfriend. He says its one of the best gifts ever. He will get to drive an actual race car around a real racetrack. You can purchase either 10 laps or 20 laps. The exciting thing is that you can drive as fast as you want.





What are some good gift ideas to get my husband?
sounds a lot like my husband...the only time he was ever truly surprised is when I picked him up at work, without our 3 children, with a change of clothes, didn't tell him where we were going, I had tickets to a concert...he was truly surprised, and we had a great time...he didn't so much act like it at the time, but I could tell, and now 4 years later, he brings it up as one of the best nights he's ever had...hope it helps...men, so complicated aren't they??!! lol..
Make a CD with his favorite music, dress up %26amp; do a striptease for him. He will never forget it and it will not cost you anything.





Get his car detailed for him.





Spending alot of money does not make a gift memorable or more likely to be used. Putting more thought into it does.
My husband is very easy to please - he likes a good meal and a long, relaxing back massage. I always try to buy him things he's been wanting, but he'd be happy with just a card and homemade birthday cake, too.
How about just giving him something simple yet useful. A briefcase perhaps? You can check this out http://www.executivegiftshoppe.com/brief鈥?/a>

I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?

usual candles, tablecloth, soft music ect...any ideas? Keep it clean please, rude answers are not welcome.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
A large bowl of your favorite salad. Just one bowl and no untensils. The two of you eat directly from the bowl with your fingers. You can do the same with just about any finger food. Sounds a little crazy, but it's very sensual and romantic.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
Carpet picnic! Spread out a nice blanket, grab a few pillows, pop in a movie, and pretend you're having a picnic in the park or beach. At least I think it's romantic, that's how my ex-husband proposed to me!
here are some thoughts....





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Stuffing:


1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, 1 turn of the pan


2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces


2 ribs celery, with greens, from the heart of the stalk, chopped


1 medium onion, chopped


1 bay leaf, fresh or dried


Salt and pepper


2 cranberry orange muffins, from the baked goods section of your market


2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves, a few sprigs, stems removed


1 cup chicken stock


Turkey Cutlets and Gravy:


1 1/3 pounds turkey breast cutlets, the average weight of 1 package


Salt and pepper


1 teaspoon poultry seasoning


2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil


2 tablespoons butter, cut in small pieces


2 tablespoons all-purpose flour


2 cups chicken stock


Chopped flat-leaf parsley, for garnish, optional








Stuffing: Heat olive oil and butter in a medium skillet over moderate heat. When the butter melts, add the celery, onion, and bay leaf. Season with salt and pepper. Crumble the muffins into the pan and combine with the vegetables. Add thyme and chicken stock. Cook stuffing 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then remove from heat and let stand in the warm pan.


Turkey and Gravy: Preheat a large skillet over medium high heat and add the olive oil. Season turkey cutlets with salt, pepper and poultry seasoning. Saute 5 minutes on each side, then transfer cutlets to a warm plate and cover plate with aluminum foil. Return skillet to stove and reduce heat a bit. Add butter, then flour to the melted butter. Cook flour and butter a minute or two, stirring with a whisk. Whisk in chicken stock. Reduce the stock 2 or 3 minutes, to desired gravy consistency. Season with salt and pepper, to your taste.





To serve, mound cranberry orange stuffing onto each dinner plate using an ice cream scoop. Rest sauteed turkey cutlets on top of the stuffing and cover the turkey with gravy. Garnish with chopped parsley.








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Clean? Forget about the candles and soft music. Just give the guy what he wants most.

I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?

My husband and I have been dating for 6 years but only married for a month and a half. This Christmas is our first, and I'd love to start a new tradition, or perhaps even adopt an old tradition that I don't know about. Suggestions?I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
I'm not sure how things go in your house, who does the decorating and what-not, but the two of you should maybe pick a movie you both love and watch it on Christmas Eve. I know my family watches the ';A Christmas Story'; marathon every year on Christmas. Also, you could pick a night when you are both off work and decorate the tree together. I'm not sure where you live, but you could do an activity such as Caroling. But, remember, this is your Christmas, not ours, and sometimes traditions start when you dont even know they have been started!I want to start a new tradition with my husband for Christmas. Any good ideas?
Pick out a Christmas ornament together every year for your tree. This year get a ';First Christmas Together'; ornament. Make sure every ornament has the year on it.





If your a Christian you can have a ';Happy Birthday Jesus'; party with a birthday cake.
my husband and i got married last year on new year's eve, so this is our first christmas as a married couple as well. we are starting our own traditions this year, too.





each of us will write the other a letter and put it in his/her stocking on christmas eve to be read on christmas morning.





we will also each pick out one ornament every year that reminds us of the other, and give it as a gift.





we are considering finding a holiday meal to use as ';our'; traditional meal, as well. probably breakfast, since we do my parent's house on eve and his parents' on day.
We do stockings and the stuffers have been kinda traditional in the fact that he always gets socks, aftershave, a bathroom book, magazine subscription - that kinda thing. Kinda boring but we look forward to it every year.
We never had kids and felt that there was WAYYY too much early morning Hype. So wed wait until 12:01 (In keeping with the mandates of our parents to NOT open the presents till Christmas) open presents.. Then wed flip a coin. Whoever lost had to get up earlier than the other and make breakfast.
we always buy an ornament and put the year on it then every when we decorate the tree it is interesting to see how our taste has changed over the years. Now I buy ornaments for my kids. Ones that they choose. so they'll have them when they have a tree of their own.
A Christmas ornament every year, with the year on the ornament.





Stockings that are personalized.





Set up a holiday village and choose a new piece to add to the village each year.





We've done the above 3 not since we were married but ever since our 1st child's 1st christmas. I wish we started these traditions the 1st year we got married...oh well...at least we started for our baby's 1st christmas.
me and my wife are going to cook a dinner together you could make that your tradition maiking something new together each year or even making the same thing.

What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?

I remember a movie where the husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home, and I believe an investigator comes to their house to check on him in regards to the ';dissaperance'; of his wife and there is a small drop of blood on the stairs and the husband says it's do to a cut on his toe. Point is I can't remember the name help me!!!What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?
Are you maybe talking about Disturbia with Shia Labouf.What is the name of the movie, where a husband kills his wife and hides her body with in a wall of their home?
You could be thinking about 10 Rillington Place, starring Richard Attenborough and John Hurt

What would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?

I was just wondering if anyone has some real insight on this...not rude remarks but thoughts on why this would be exciting to a woman?What would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?
i highly doubt when they call their man ';daddy'; that they are thinking of him as a father figure, or even thinking of their own dad. it is just something some people are into. believe me there is way more nasty things that can be said lolWhat would make a woman like to call her husband daddy in bed?
I've been married to my hubs for 16 years and I could never call him daddy, I would just start laughing, only because sometimes when he gets out of the shower he'll do the: ';look at me I'm naked dance'; and then says: who's your daddy? It cracks me up!
Many young women are only attracted to older men and some may have had attractions to their own fathers or father figures, the authority they represent.
Oedipus complex :) Look it up, it's real...


I personally wouldn't get horribly turned on by that though, that'd probably be a HUGE turnoff for me...
I don't know if it's exciting to the woman (it's not exciting to me) but I know my husband likes me to call him that.
that would be sick lol but feeding her i guess (i'm a guy i can't help remarking rudely)
I've always wondered that too... lol... but if he likes it, ima do it! lol

I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?

usual candles, tablecloth, soft music ect...any ideas? Keep it clean please, rude answers are not welcome.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
A large bowl of your favorite salad. Just one bowl and no untensils. The two of you eat directly from the bowl with your fingers. You can do the same with just about any finger food. Sounds a little crazy, but it's very sensual and romantic.I want to make a romantic dinner for my husband as a suprise. Looking for any different ideas besides the?
Carpet picnic! Spread out a nice blanket, grab a few pillows, pop in a movie, and pretend you're having a picnic in the park or beach. At least I think it's romantic, that's how my ex-husband proposed to me!
here are some thoughts....





http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance鈥?/a>
Stuffing:


1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, 1 turn of the pan


2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces


2 ribs celery, with greens, from the heart of the stalk, chopped


1 medium onion, chopped


1 bay leaf, fresh or dried


Salt and pepper


2 cranberry orange muffins, from the baked goods section of your market


2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves, a few sprigs, stems removed


1 cup chicken stock


Turkey Cutlets and Gravy:


1 1/3 pounds turkey breast cutlets, the average weight of 1 package


Salt and pepper


1 teaspoon poultry seasoning


2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil


2 tablespoons butter, cut in small pieces


2 tablespoons all-purpose flour


2 cups chicken stock


Chopped flat-leaf parsley, for garnish, optional








Stuffing: Heat olive oil and butter in a medium skillet over moderate heat. When the butter melts, add the celery, onion, and bay leaf. Season with salt and pepper. Crumble the muffins into the pan and combine with the vegetables. Add thyme and chicken stock. Cook stuffing 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then remove from heat and let stand in the warm pan.


Turkey and Gravy: Preheat a large skillet over medium high heat and add the olive oil. Season turkey cutlets with salt, pepper and poultry seasoning. Saute 5 minutes on each side, then transfer cutlets to a warm plate and cover plate with aluminum foil. Return skillet to stove and reduce heat a bit. Add butter, then flour to the melted butter. Cook flour and butter a minute or two, stirring with a whisk. Whisk in chicken stock. Reduce the stock 2 or 3 minutes, to desired gravy consistency. Season with salt and pepper, to your taste.





To serve, mound cranberry orange stuffing onto each dinner plate using an ice cream scoop. Rest sauteed turkey cutlets on top of the stuffing and cover the turkey with gravy. Garnish with chopped parsley.








Other Recipes from this Episode


Bourbon Pecan Smashed Sweet Potatoes


Brussels Sprouts with Bacon








More Recipes Like This


Turkey Cutlets with Mushroom and Water Chestnut Stuffing and Pan Gravy


What a Face! Open Faced Hot Turkey Sammys with Sausage Stuffing and Gravy, Smashed Potatoes with Bacon, Warm Apple Cranberry Sauce


The Turducken: Boneless Turkey Stuffed with a Boneless Duck and Boneless Chicken ';One Big Bird';


Brined Roast Turkey with Pan Gravy


Turkey with Cornbread Stuffing and Gravy
Clean? Forget about the candles and soft music. Just give the guy what he wants most.

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